EdenFantasys Adult Products Reviewer: Average Joe

how is the flashlight,,,,,and do u know about how i can custom make it to suit me . saw an add that i can pike the inside to fit my pens,,, it was called build your own flashlight.

Average Joe, I need the help of an experienced guy...I'm seeing a man who has trouble with orgasm inside women. Great erections. Large. I was wondering about a vibrating cock ring - sounds like you might know...he also loves testicular play.  He has spent too much time alone and conditioned himself to come with masturbation - I wondered if toys could bridge the gap (what a project! fun fun!) but am not sure what to try....help?

Hey Bungeedog, it sounds like he's suffering from situational anorgasmia. Basically it's an orgasmic dysfunction where he can cum in one situation (like masturbation) but not in another (like having sex with women.) There are a few options. It may be a serious enough condition that he needs counseling if his problem is caused by a psychological condition. Is he under a lot of stress? Are you trying to conceive? Is there any underlaying cause that you can think of off the top of your head that may keep him from reaching orgasm with you? The best start is to talk to him about it, however, he may feel inadequate so if he starts to withdraw from the conversation, don't push it.

There may be a simpler reason too!

When men masturbate, we tend to use a ROUGH hand, stimulation that's harder and faster than when we have sex. It happens to a lot of younger guys because we've trained ourselves for quick and fast masturbation. One thing to try is not to have him stop masturbating, but to have him masturbate with a softer touch, and try masturbating with a condom on. It may take a while to retrain his body to respond well to gentler stimulation. Does he masturbate with just his hand? Or does he use sleeves or pocket pussies? If he uses just his hand, than buy him a soft toy with a silky interior that will encourage softer masturbation like the [../../masturbators/pocket-pussies/fujiko-velvet-touch-masturbator|Fujiko velvet touch], which is a favorite of mine.

A vibrating cock ring would be a great aid, for you both! My favorite is the [../../sex-toys-for-men/vibrating-penis-rings/cock-ring-and-egg|Cock Ring and Egg by Pipedream.] Also, you could have him try a prostate massager. At first a lot of men are objective to anal play, but it may be the added something to give him the edge he needs. [../../sex-toys-for-men/prostate-massagers/dr-joel-kaplan-massager|Dr. Joel Kaplan's]

I love you!

When are you going to review a prostate massager? ;)

I'm hoping soon SD.

Hey Joe,
I've noticed you've reviewed a couple of masturbators and have another you haven't reviewed listed as a favorite (I realize it's technically classified differently.) I'm going to buy one for a friend of mine as a gift. Is the Fujiko still your favorite? After reading your review of the Bimeiki it seemed as if you had found a new favorite. Or do you think I should get him the Tube Love Glove?

He's told me the only other toys like this he's had were really cheaply made and fell apart so I'm trying to prove to him that a quality product will be worth his time.

Thanks!

The Fujiko is a great one but for some people it's too soft, too squishy, and too short. I need to get a review of it up but I can't seem to find the motivation, It hink I should. The Bimeiki is great- GREAT but the Tube is economical. The Bimeiki is quality but the Tube has held up impressively well overtime, they're both so different- the tube is a straight shot, the Bimeiki has a twist.. the choice is yours my friend, I'm too torn to choose.

Average Joe, you give really thorough reviews, and a real man's man take on things.(And I mean that in a good way). Thanks for the great reviews from the male perspective of things, something that is a little lacking in my opinion

Thanks Tantric and you're welcome.

I absolutely love your reviews! They're always very well written and fun to read as well as information packed! I hope to see many, many more from you in the future!

Thank you Og and I hope so too, less video games and more sex toys! Well...

Average Joe is one of the funniest reviewers on the site! His reviews are fun, amusing, yet they still manage to be highly informational. Love him!