lol...well trust me it wasnt easy to get my hubby to actually sit down and write something either. Our last order was quite large though and I let him choose a few things so he was kinda excited about the whole deal. He really wants one of the masturbators now.

Ive actually been looking at the pink pleasure kit but I dont think it will work well on my hubby because hes in the bigger size range. Im still trying to decide on what to actually get first because I dont want to over do it.

Ill definitely let you know how the experiences go though.  

I'm just getting into bdsm too.  My husband and I are still just into really light stuff, mostly tickling and teasing with some nice spanking.  I haven't got my cuffs yet :( or myfluffy flogger :( but I can't wait to try them out.  If you want some suggestions faster, thebdsm forum would be a good place to ask.  There is a pretty good sized kink community on this site.  I bought the chains of pleasure kit, and it was pretty fun.  The link goes to my review of it.  I think buying a kit is a good place to start.  I was pretty sure I would like some bdsm play, but my husband only thought of it as scary, so the kit helped show him that it could be gentle and fun too.

Best of luck to you, and if you find out any really great tips be sure to share them on the forum!

P.S.  Great Reviews!  I wish I could get my husband to write from his point of view for reviews :(  For some reason he is only interesting in helping with my "research"  lol  You are so lucky!

I've recently become interested in bondage but know nothing about it. It used to seem stupid or a waste of time but now that I am with someone who is all about sexual freedom and experimenting I would like to know more about it.

If anyone could suggest anything to me, please do so.