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Wed, 04 May 2011 07:25:25 GMT
My Year as a “Pimp” by Tobi http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/protecting-a-sex-worker-1013103/ http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/protecting-a-sex-worker-1013103/#ArticleID-867 My Year as a “Pimp” Sometimes protecting someone you love has legal ramifications you might never have considered. When the system puts sex workers at risk, do you break the law to save a life? It's a choice no one should have to make. read article

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Wed, 13 Oct 2010 12:29:17 GMT
Encounter With a Chaser by Tobi http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/transexual-stalker-0708102/ http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/transexual-stalker-0708102/#ArticleID-654 Encounter With a Chaser  read article

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Thu, 08 Jul 2010 12:30:58 GMT
Trans-Dar: A Quick Course in Gender Identity Intuition by Tobi http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/trans-dar-0409101/ http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/trans-dar-0409101/#ArticleID-484 Trans-Dar: A Quick Course in Gender Identity Intuition When you look up “transgender” in the dictionary, you’re not going to find a picture of an individual who defines the term—because that person does not exist. The transgender identity can contain many diverse elements, ... read article

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Fri, 09 Apr 2010 09:45:23 GMT
Disclosing Trans Status by Tobi http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/coming-out-as-a-transsexual-0302102/ http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/coming-out-as-a-transsexual-0302102/#ArticleID-435 Disclosing Trans Status Every gender identity has its own rules for social interaction. It’s when you step into the larger world that etiquette gets a little tricky. You meet someone. You fall “in like.” Finding the right moment to reveal ... read article

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Tue, 02 Mar 2010 12:30:20 GMT
From Ze to Hir: Another Set of Pronouns by Tobi http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/ze-hir-0105103/ http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex-and-society/ze-hir-0105103/#ArticleID-359 From Ze to Hir: Another Set of Pronouns It’s hard to understand non-binary pronouns when you don’t understand non-binary gender—which is often the reason for using non-binary pronouns. The best way I can explain it is to walk you through my own process. read article

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Tue, 05 Jan 2010 13:32:51 GMT
Interview with Courtney Trouble, Director of Roulette by Tobi http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/erotica/courtney-trouble-interview-82792/ http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/erotica/courtney-trouble-interview-82792/#ArticleID-188 Interview with Courtney Trouble, Director of Roulette Courtney Trouble, already well known in queer porn circles for her 6-year-running queer porn website, nofauxxx.com, has recently gained additional notoriety for her new film Roulette. In April she received the Feminist ... read article

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Thu, 27 Aug 2009 13:08:04 GMT
As Different as the Next Girl by Tobi http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/body/trans-women-73191/ http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/body/trans-women-73191/#ArticleID-154 As Different as the Next Girl Being a trans woman myself, and having dated a number of other trans women, I occasionally have people ask me for tips or advice on being sexual as or with a trans woman. read article

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