This is a really versatile and durable harness for the price. It's an excellent choice for beginners to harness play and probably for packing as well. Read more

When it says beginner, completely believe it. This is a very basic and unintimidating kit. For someone fairly new to harness play as I am, this kit would have been great when I was first experimenting with it but with any experience at all the kit is simply unimpressive. Read more

This harness is totally worth the money. I had never purchased a harness before and so as a beginner it has worked out really well for me. It is highly adjustable so I am able to wear it exactly where I would like. Questioning as to which harness you should get, get this one! Read more

As it turns out, some women (at least one woman noted for spanking her husband) finds a dildo coming out of hubby's stomach more than she could stomach! Jo had a good laugh and said something like, "Not on my watch!" There may have been something else about her being the only one in our house who was going to wear a dildo. Read more

The Flame Harness Kit is very pleasing to the eye and to the pocket book. It's a decent beginner's harness and is comfortable. The O-ring seems to pose some issues with keeping the dildo in, however the dildo is the main prize. If it were sold separately it'd be one of the top selling dildos on the site, I'm positive of it. I definitely think with more practice and maybe even a smaller O-ring or a bigger dildo, this would be the perfect harness for beginner and advanced user alike. Read more

The Ultra Harness 3000 is a great concept that fails to function. Save your money and purchase a higher quality harness that will enable you to find pleasurer as the wearer and really provide quality action to the recipient of your cock. Read more

This harness lets me fuck and be fucked at the same time, which is a rare, wonderful experience! It opens up many new possibilities for creative lovers, and is both easy to use and easy to clean. Don't be fooled by the less-than-sexy appearance - this toy delivers satisfaction in a humble but oh-so-functional way. Read more

I was aware of course, that a strap-on is not a penis, and as a beginner user, it would require some manipulation and there would be a learning curve, but this device required far too much attention to keep in place. Read more

The overall experiences we have had with the harness have been great; but with the uncomfortable harness (at times), the waste of the anal/vaginal plugs (replaced) and the poor material safety (rubber) I can't say I'd recommend this to a friend. There are lots of better quality items out there, albeit they cost more, but in the end the difference in the cost would be well worth it for something more comfortable and safer. Read more

This product is mixed for me. The price is great and the dildo is great, but the harness is awful. It was hard to stay on my fiance and was uncomfortable for her. I think there is a product that is better for the money compared to this product. Its hard to peg if the harness falls of the wearer. Read more

This toy was not very exciting to us. It gave us a wonderful new mouth gag which we love. The first few times were fun, but after a few uses, the dildo becomes hard to insert. Read more

Doc Johnson - usually a front-runner in the wonderful world of toys - managed to miss the mark on this one completely. Though nice to look at, the harness falls short when it comes to comfort and functionality. Try something else. Read more

The Jack Rabbit Harness from Cal Exotics is a decent set. The rabbit is a bit of a let down as it is covered in oily residue that has a strong chemical smell. The harness on the other hand is quite nice. It has a design unlike any other harness we own. If you are a beginner looking to test the water then this is a good value set. Read more

n00bs, novices, light subs, people that want to sit down in a day's time STAY AWAY. The true pain lover need only apply. Read more

I think this would be a good beginner harness to see if you like this type of play because the price is very reasonable. The vac-u-lock is a nice feature as you can interchange different dildos of choice and it prevents a lot of unwanted movement. Would have had a higher rating if the wife had liked it more. Read more

Huge! If the prospect of taking a dildo with an insertable length of 7 inches and a diameter of just over 2 inches fills you with excitement, this is a good option. If you are anything other than a very experienced pro who can handle this girth, there are many other good options out there, even within the vac-u-lock family of products. Read more

I've never liked oral sex. My husband likes to give oral sex. A problem, you see. Perhaps one that this toy could solve. It turns out that the material of this toy caused more harm than good. Within minutes, I was on fire internally. Even if that wouldn't have been the case, it reeks to high heaven, looks silly on, and pulls the hair when put on or taken off. It did improve the oral experience slightly when used, but not nearly enough to make up for the downfalls of the toy. Read more

I don't feel this toy was worth it at all. We didn't even finish off with it. We ended up taking it off to get off. It was a very disappointing experience. Read more