yes i do think it could be a self concious thing but i guess maybe i do see what everyone means it could be because i think he would find the other women more attractive than me and would want to have sex with me while thinking about the other woman!
if your partner watches porn do you consider that cheating or is that normal?
It depends entirely on the relationship. I knew one couple where one party felt that porn was involving other people indirectly in their relationship and did not want the other person watching it. The other person watched it anyway. In that case, I would consider it cheating, since boundaries were laid very clearly and they were crossed anyway. It really just depends on your views on porn as individuals and as a couple.