Do you mind if your spouse watches porn and masturbates while you are at home in another room?

Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
just wondering if this makes anyone feel bad. or good tell me all you want.
Of course not. They can do whatever they want, it's their body.
10/30/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm like Kira. If he wants it, I'm here. If he's choosing to do it himself over having me do it, I would be concerned.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Doesn't bother me...love doing a little spying.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
No, if I wasn't able to participate there's a good reason for it and he shouldn't have to wait just because I can't play. It's his body, he can abuse it anyway he sees fit.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Babylove09 Babylove09
I would mind because I have a high sex drive. I would wanna be joined in there.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Doesn't happen at our house, so if it suddenly started to I would want to know what was up.
10/30/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Doesn't really bug me, though it doesn't happen much
10/30/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I do mind...if I'm home and he'd rather masturbate than having sex with me.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by - Kira -
If I'm home, I'm always available for sex. If he's masturbating when I'm home, there's some breakdown occurring. I consider it my job to satisfy his needs when I'm home. If I'm not home, whatever.
I agree - if I'm home let's do it together. Luckily for me, that's what she would do. She's not big on masturbation - I keep her pretty well satisfied!
10/31/2012
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
Nope, and I'd watch with him sometimes.
11/03/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
just wondering if this makes anyone feel bad. or good tell me all you want.
Honestly, any porn he watches or masturbation is just a warm up to playing with me.....however neither of us does this much. Why bother with a willing partner right in the other room always ready to play. However, if for some reason he is masturbating, I have one rule....he must call to me, no matter what, and tell me he is about to cum, thus allowing me t,he option of running in and "finishing" him off between my lips. To not at least offer (and unless I am on a mandatory professional call or mixing a souffle and just cannot stop....I always will be happy to suck down his luscious juice)! would be like flushing a shot glass of the finest champagne down the toilet!?! What a waste! Once he did "jack off" to some hot porn scene on a live site (Chaturbate) while I was tied up doing a lecture online. He called me too late and by the time I got to the bedroom, his wonderful cum was flying towards the sweets,! I felt so cheated, I pulled down my jeans....straddled his face and told him to kiss...suck....tongue or just finger or even just gaze....whatever he wanted, so long as he could get " turned on again quick". I grabbed our always handy lube.....plunged my finger all the way up his butt and started sucking and prostate milking him for all I was worth. It took between fifteen and twenty minutes of him squirming and moaning before he got a hard on back, and another minutes of him squirming around and squealing like a little girl, about being "empty" and have nothing left to cum with, before, in an unusual for him, loud screaming orgasm, he rewarded me with a delicious mouthful of his yumminess (and shortly thereafter, a rocking orgasm of my own, with his acrobatic tongue on my clit. So.....if I'm around and he starts "self pleasuring" do I mind???? Nope...I think not!!!!
11/03/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I don't mind at all. Sometimes I want to masturbate over having sex... it's rare but it happens and I don't think there is a problem with it.
11/03/2012
Contributor: Redweird Redweird
I'd rather he get off to thinking about me than watching other people have sex
11/03/2012
Contributor: Oriens Angelic Oriens Angelic
I would be a bit disconcerted if she wandered off to watch it on her own, given that she and I often watch it together. However, if she really wanted to, I'd let her- but she'll often bring her laptop over and just browse through porn while I'm doing something else.
11/09/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
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Originally posted by Redweird
I'd rather he get off to thinking about me than watching other people have sex
Who is to say he's not thinking about you when he watches it? I think about my man when I watch porn by myself, just like I like to fantasize that I'm the woman in the movie. I've gotten great ideas to add our bedroom from watching a good porno.

Also, who is to say he isn't thinking about someone else even when he doesn't watch pornography, in the privacy of his thoughts? Most people fantasize about people other than their significant other from time to time. It doesn't mean you don't love your SO, or you're not attracted to them as much, or they would actually cheat. It's just human to be sexually attracted to other people. It's life. You go through it meeting people from time to time that you find attractive; it's inevitable. It doesn't mean anything.
11/09/2012