Does anyone get "after-porn guilt"?

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Does anyone get "after-porn guilt"?

Rockin' Rockin'
I've experienced what I'll call "after-porn guilt" a few times and I'm wondering if anyone out there gets it, too. When I watch porn, I normally just sit in front of my computer and watch until I'm really wet, then go to the bed or somewhere else to get off. Afterward, sometimes, I feel guilty, not for getting off, but for watching porn. I think it has something to do with seeing women in possibly uncomfortable positions or just seeing women in general in raunchy settings. Anyone else feel like that sometimes?
04/01/2009
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Nashville Nashville
Quote:
Originally posted by Rockin'
I've experienced what I'll call "after-porn guilt" a few times and I'm wondering if anyone out there gets it, too. When I watch porn, I normally just sit in front of my computer and watch until I'm really wet, then go to ...
I still get the occasional Catholic guilt when I have sex... and I'm married!

When watching porn I sometimes feel sexist and it makes me guilty as hell because I love movies that degrades women- the more they're treated like shit, the more I get off. I'm a far cry from a feminist but I'm a strong woman and in any other situation I'd be enraged.. but it makes for an incredibly great sex scene!
04/01/2009
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
I have yet to feel guilty about porn. The woman made a decision when she agreed to be in the video (I don't know yet of anyone FORCED into being in a porn). If I was in a financially tight spot and the only way for me to not starve to death was to go into porn, I certainly wouldn't wish that everyone who watched the video would feel immense pangs of guilt for watching me get pounded. Then again, I don't watch a lot of live action porn. I'm a hentai fangirl, and hentai doesn't count in this case because they're not real people
04/01/2009
Rockin' Rockin'
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Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
I have yet to feel guilty about porn. The woman made a decision when she agreed to be in the video (I don't know yet of anyone FORCED into being in a porn). If I was in a financially tight spot and the only way for me to not starve to death was ...
I don't watch that much porn, and I also like hentai (web high five! *smack*). It's not always specific to what I watched, sometimes it's just because I watched porn, and that's still attached to negative things. Booooo. I'm glad you don't feel guilty, though. ^_^
04/01/2009
Rockin' Rockin'
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Originally posted by Nashville
I still get the occasional Catholic guilt when I have sex... and I'm married!

When watching porn I sometimes feel sexist and it makes me guilty as hell because I love movies that degrades women- the more they're treated like shit, the ...
The way you worded all that was great. I think I'm afraid to let myself enjoy degradation in porn -- except hentai, cartoon degradation is just fine.
04/01/2009
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
This is actually fairly common and there's a sort of official term for it that I can't think of. I don't think it has to do with the content (It doesn't matter if women are in it or if it's hentai, like listed) but just that you are watching porn. I sometimes get it. I am all finished masturbating and I just want to click out of any windows or whatever and pretend it didn't happen.
04/01/2009
Nashville Nashville
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
I have yet to feel guilty about porn. The woman made a decision when she agreed to be in the video (I don't know yet of anyone FORCED into being in a porn). If I was in a financially tight spot and the only way for me to not starve to death was ...
Have you ever seen a hentai film where they have sex with their pets? I watched one that was about a girl fucking her dog and I admit, it made me feel a little strange because I got off to it (obviously)- like, why the hell did I just devote 20 minutes of my life to that? Although, I've seen far more taboo things in films.
04/01/2009
Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by Nashville
I still get the occasional Catholic guilt when I have sex... and I'm married!

When watching porn I sometimes feel sexist and it makes me guilty as hell because I love movies that degrades women- the more they're treated like shit, the ...
I'm with you. There's times I feel like this, because those tend to be the types of movies I love as well.
04/01/2009
Liz2 Liz2
I try to avoid porn that degrades women, yea, some would say all porn does....but I know how I feel.
Feeling guilty watching porn, no; I see it as a warmup for masturbation or partner sex.
04/01/2009
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
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Originally posted by Nashville
Have you ever seen a hentai film where they have sex with their pets? I watched one that was about a girl fucking her dog and I admit, it made me feel a little strange because I got off to it (obviously)- like, why the hell did I just devote 20 ...
I'm afraid I haven't seen that one (but now I'm going to look for it ) One of my all-time favorite hentai series is Bible Black. Busty schoolgirls and black magic! Hooray! There's also a 17-minute 3D video of Sailor Venus in a possible-rape scene(but... enjoying it, since she's Sailor Venus...???) that's pretty decent...
04/01/2009
Domineight Domineight
I watch some pretty raunchy stuff and when I'm watching heavy humiliation or BDSM porn as soon as I'm done all I can think is "I hope either that girl is really into that like I am or at least is indifferent and got paid well." I feel bad for getting off on other people suffering but at the same time its because I picture myself enduring that same suffering.

My boyfriend said "you get cum all over your pubes, all over your stomach and you think...'that's bodily fluid. that's like snot. I might as well have just sneezed all over my stomach."
01/06/2010
flirt flirt
Honestly, I get guilty after porn. After I'm all done, I get to feeling quite bad sometimes... It's some kind of latent guilt - that my girlfriend would be pretty appalled at me; that I'm wasting my time with virtual girls when there are real women in the world; that it's a pretty saddo thing to be doing; that it's kind selfish; that too much of it will distort my view of the real world. I don't really worry about the girls - mostly, as long as it seems safe, I reckon they're being paid to do it. Or, if amateur, that they simply like doing it for the camera. If the girls don't seem to be enjoying it (you can see it in their eyes) it's a serious turnoff and my mind goes to dark places. But guilt, yeah....it's not uncommon.
01/16/2010
Colossus Colossus
I don't really feel bad about the people doing the porn (looks fun, actually). But sometimes I feel guilty that I spend so much of my time watching it when I could be doing other things. That's really the only guilty feeling I get.
01/17/2010
Lavendar Menace Lavendar Menace
I don't feel guilty after watching porn. Sex is natural, normal, and healthy.

However, I do sometimes feel guilty after buying porn because I worry about the actors' health and well-being. I want them to enjoy it and be happy that they're doing it. Even if they are not forced into porn, I wonder if they don't want to be there or had to get into porn because of a tight financial spot.
06/24/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I don;t feel guilty for watching porn but strangely right when I'm finishing I am turned off by what I am watching and have to close my eyes to think of my partner.
06/28/2010
Sera Sera
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Originally posted by Rockin'
I've experienced what I'll call "after-porn guilt" a few times and I'm wondering if anyone out there gets it, too. When I watch porn, I normally just sit in front of my computer and watch until I'm really wet, then go to ...
I'm the one who wonders how they got into the career in the first place, if they enjoy it or not, and I'm a big activist for women's rights. Erotica I like, if I can find it. Porn...not so much. But yes, I do get guilt. Although I try to delete my internet history as soon as possible.
08/17/2010
pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Rockin'
I've experienced what I'll call "after-porn guilt" a few times and I'm wondering if anyone out there gets it, too. When I watch porn, I normally just sit in front of my computer and watch until I'm really wet, then go to ...
I sometimes feel guilty after watching porn. I instantly turn off everything and clean up everything, even if I don't feel guilty that particular time. I feel more guilty about the fantasies Ive had in my own mind. Like I must be sick if this gets me off, then when I'm done I'm grossed out. Nothing illegal, just weird stuff. Ive had this fantasy of my husband cheating and it turns me on while in the act, but if it were to really happen I'd freak! I know there is prolly some psychological thing attached...there always is lol!
11/10/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Rockin'
I've experienced what I'll call "after-porn guilt" a few times and I'm wondering if anyone out there gets it, too. When I watch porn, I normally just sit in front of my computer and watch until I'm really wet, then go to ...
I never do..hehehe
12/05/2010
sixfootsex sixfootsex
Every now and then......
02/04/2011
Harlot O Harlot O
I stopped watching the things that make me feel guilty. Which means I do my research on the film and the company and the actors involved, and tend to lean towards queer and feminist pornography.

I also stopped visiting free porn tube sites, because these people deserve to be paid well for what they do, and whenever I jerk off to them for free, I know it is less food on their tables.

So I no longer have any porn-related guilt! Yay!
02/12/2011
lemony lemony
The only time I get uncomfortable is when it looks like the actresses or actors are actually distressed or unhappy.
02/13/2011
sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by Rockin'
I've experienced what I'll call "after-porn guilt" a few times and I'm wondering if anyone out there gets it, too. When I watch porn, I normally just sit in front of my computer and watch until I'm really wet, then go to ...
Not really, its a choice.
03/04/2011
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by Rockin'
I've experienced what I'll call "after-porn guilt" a few times and I'm wondering if anyone out there gets it, too. When I watch porn, I normally just sit in front of my computer and watch until I'm really wet, then go to ...
I'm female submissive and, if I'm watching porn, it's usually bondage, public humiliation or male dominance related. I watch or read until I'm very aroused but yes, sometimes I do feel really guilty and I thought I was the only one. Although most films have interviews with girls after and it seems like this is what they want, I'm always worried they were did not move into this voluntarily.
04/10/2011
KrystalFayeO KrystalFayeO
yes, I have felt bad, esp when I was pregnant and I thought I was having a girl, I thought "what am I doing?" this is someone's daughter and I hope one day my daughter doesn't grow up to do this =/
04/13/2011
hjtee hjtee
A couple of times. It's not the people in the video I feel guilty about, I'm not entirely sure what it is. I just have that feeling.
04/15/2011
K101 K101
I believe this "guilt" is from the conscience. Porn is not a good thing. Porn lovers destroy families and tear their lives apart and it's very common. Porn is bad in so many ways and people's conscience knows that. That is where guilt comes in. I do not watch it and I certainly don't think the women who are in porn deserve any kind of sympathy. They ask for it. I don't care how badly they needed money. I've been there and I've managed without sucking dick. I think it's degrading to women in all areas. I mean we are made to feel that we have to live up to these unrealistic expectations or we're not "good enough."

I hate to be prudish, but I believe somehwere around 80% of rapists say that they're crime somehow was porn related. Many men who rape are living out the fantasies from stupid porn. The reason I feel so strongly (and I don't mean to critisize, that's not what I'm trying to do. I am not condemning anyone who does engage in the stuff) is because I was one of those men's victims. I will be the first to tell you, porn is not worth ruining a little girl's life. Acting out those sick porn related fantasies nearly killed me so I do have harsh reactions/beliefs towards it. I HONESTLY, think at this point, porn is too dangerous and risky. There are no limits, no boundaries in porn these days. It's not simple sex or just kinky sex. The most popular porn is the kind where women are being beat and those women are just acting, but many men have taken it too far and actually taking an innocent woman and reinacting these scenes.

It's just too risky in my eyes. I think it's just too extreme.
04/30/2011
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