Is sex more important to you than porn?

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Is sex more important to you than porn?

kaykay0427 kaykay0427
the other night I tried to have sex with my man when we were drinking. Booze always makes me horny. He told me he had had too many and he didn't feel good. So I said fuck it I'll go to sleep then and he went out into his smoke room to smoke a cigarette. In the morning, I went into his smoke room and found his nasty cum rag... this happens more often than not... I'm getting sick of putting myself out there. Girls, Would it piss you off if your man turned you down for porn and his hand more than he had sex with you?
01/12/2013
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jaynimal jaynimal
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Originally posted by kaykay0427
the other night I tried to have sex with my man when we were drinking. Booze always makes me horny. He told me he had had too many and he didn't feel good. So I said fuck it I'll go to sleep then and he went out into his smoke room to smoke a ...
well I dont have a man but to answer the question, I much prefer real live action to porn. Point blank
01/12/2013
kaykay0427 kaykay0427
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Originally posted by jaynimal
well I dont have a man but to answer the question, I much prefer real live action to porn. Point blank
thank you.. thats what i want to hear (especially from a guy)... i dont get what his problem has been...
01/12/2013
spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
I don't watch porn at all. I would have a problem if my girlfriend chose porn over me, and I am sure she would have a problem if I did the same to her.
01/12/2013
misterazor misterazor
he may have a porn problem. he may have a whiskey-dick problem. he may have a confidence problem. i wouldn't jump to any conclusions. have you been together for a long time or short time? does he have trouble falling to sleep? have either of you gained weight lately? when you do have sex, how does he do? is it short. does he try to get you? is he selfish? does he ever get limp before he comes? if so, that can really mess with a man's confidence...and might rather jerk off than suffer the humiliation of not being able to perform. and it might have absolutely nothing to do with you or with porn. then again, he might have a porn problem. maybe you could put some porn on and jump him durring. no shame in that. transfer his desire back to where it's supposed to be. if porn gets him into sex mode, and you have sex with him once he's in that mode, he will probably begin to associate that mode with you. whether he has a porn problem or a confidence problem, i think this course of action would help either. maybe watch some porn while he's in the other room and have him catch you rubbing one out yourself. maybe he doesn't know how sexual a person you can be and you need to show him. and maybe he's just a douche with a porn problem and not worth the effort. so, is he a good guy, worth the effort?...or a douche who would not be that hard to replace? just some thoughts.
01/14/2013
kdlt kdlt
misterazor makes some really good points! Personally, I almost always prefer porn to vanilla sex. Maybe he's watching some kinky things and would want something different from you in the bedroom but doesn't know how to ask so he just fantasizes with porn? (Assuming you guys aren't super kinky- sorry if that's the wrong assumption!)

Definitely talk to him about it. Try not to approach in an offended or angry way, just let him know you're concerned about the relationship's intimacy levels.
01/14/2013
Real or memorex Real or memorex
Yes, this would piss me off.

It strikes me as a passive-aggressive way to reject you, but I don't know the guy/am not in this relationship. I agree with other commenters that it's a problem that needs serious discussion.
04/17/2013
Rokmai Rokmai
I can't say from experience, but I work almost entirely with women and I've heard quite a few complain about this exact situation.

So it certainly sucks, but at least you're not alone.
04/17/2013
Scythe Scythe
Quote:
Originally posted by kaykay0427
the other night I tried to have sex with my man when we were drinking. Booze always makes me horny. He told me he had had too many and he didn't feel good. So I said fuck it I'll go to sleep then and he went out into his smoke room to smoke a ...
I will pick sex with a partner over porn any day,and if my partner chose to pleasure herself while watching porn instead of having sex with me when i am available..We would have a problem.
04/26/2013
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