Is TOO MUCH porn in the bedroom OK?

ReadyRedbone ReadyRedbone
Is there such thing as TOO much porn in your sex life? Do you watch other people sex more than you do, or does your partner watch more than you have sexual contact. I want to know how you feel about porn always involved one way or another in your regular sex life
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
NO Such thing as TOO MUCH porn!
js250 , ChubbyNerd , Sammi , SecretKinksters
4  (14%)
Eh, I'm down. But It's not the first thing that comes to my mind.
ReadyRedbone , Beautiful-Disaster , libbyv , El-Jaro , Ice1 , Loriandhubby , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , SP , Sera26 , rockblenny , hillys , KinkyKatieJames , Pia Jouet , thePicklez , epiphanyjayne
15  (52%)
Every blue moon I'll put one one to spice things up.
never shy , Genderfree , phoenixfire , Feisty , Gluesnffr , XxFallenAngelxX , married with children , spiced , AliMc , lilyflower
10  (34%)
Total votes: 29
Poll is closed
03/18/2013
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P'Gell P'Gell
I'm not sure how to vote.

My Man and I will watch porn in spurts. Sometimes we almost forget we have any, (we prefer DVDs to risking viruses on our computers from porn sites, my husband is paranoid about viruses. But, I'll watch stuff I like, on occasion, online alone.) Then, we'll remember and put on a DVD and maybe do that every other time we have sex for a few days, then forget we have it again.

We certainly have a lot more real sex than we watch porn. It's a once in a while thing to watch porn, but when we do, we enjoy it.
03/18/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I think there's a such thing as too much porn. I'm not really into it...
03/18/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I think you answered your question WITHIN your question. TOO MUCH of anything is never a good thing! Asking if porn in the bedroom is okay is one thing, but asking if TOO MUCH is, answers the question already. Too much porn in the bedroom is not okay, porn in the bedroom at all is between two people and should be a decision based on the people in the relationship.
03/18/2013
libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by ReadyRedbone
Is there such thing as TOO much porn in your sex life? Do you watch other people sex more than you do, or does your partner watch more than you have sexual contact. I want to know how you feel about porn always involved one way or another in your ... More
don't overdo it
03/18/2013
Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
i think my man is more into it than me
03/18/2013
js250 js250
We have over 500 movies....and we are still gathering more, so in our opinion--there is never too much!! We both like to watch it and seem to have the same taste in movies so it is an enhancement rather than detraction.
03/18/2013
never shy never shy
Would rather do other things than watch porn more of a toy and lingerie person
03/18/2013
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Some porn is okay but not all the time.
03/18/2013
dv8 dv8
It's only too much if porn actors and a film crew are shooting porn in your bedroom.
03/18/2013
Genderfree Genderfree
I'm not crazy about porn. My girlfriend watches it for "upkeep" reasons. (she has a hard time taking care of herself in that way, and she need to or she will atrophy down there, it's weird how estrogen affects your body!)

I don't watch porn. It's just not my thing. I'm trying to find something (images, erotic stories) that help aid in masturbation though.
03/18/2013
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by ReadyRedbone
Is there such thing as TOO much porn in your sex life? Do you watch other people sex more than you do, or does your partner watch more than you have sexual contact. I want to know how you feel about porn always involved one way or another in your ... More
I'm going to have to say that it's strictly personal. Depends on who you are. If you wonder if your porn use is too much though, I'd say it probably is.

Like I said every person will feel differently on this topic, so I can't really speak for anyone but us. And for us, any porn is "too much." We're strictly monogamous and try to keep pornography out of our lives 100%.

If you were wondering how much is too much, you could always do some research to find out how pornography affects your brain, your sex drive, your spouse, etc.

You asked how each of us felt personally on this, and I did not vote in the poll because there was not an answer to line up with my feelings. Neither of us watch it at all (whether alone or together.) It's just not a part of our relationship.

You asked "I want to know how you feel about porn always involved in one way or another in your regular sex life." I can't answer that since porn is not a part of our sex lives, but I would say if porn was ALWAYS a part, as your question said, I would not feel happy. I have my issues where pornography is concerned though, so it's basically just us two when it comes to sex and I wouldn't have it any other way. I've been with guys who pornography was a big part of their lives before and now that I'm with someone who never brought it into our relationship (or his life while we're together) to begin with, I've felt there's a big difference. I love it like this, so now that I've had this (no porn), I wouldn't want it any other way. I do not think I'd be able to adapt to my partner using pornography now that I've been able to experience 7 years of a 100% monogamous relationship. I feel so intensely about that, that I'd just as soon be single for the rest of my life if it ever came down to that.

I know this is really unusual! Lol. Sorry about that. I really like that you asked this because I'm interested in knowing how others feel on it.
03/18/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Quote:
Originally posted by Loriandhubby
i think my man is more into it than me
Have you talked to him about it? I would find it hard to believe, you're one sexy lady, Lori!
03/18/2013
phoenixfire phoenixfire
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Have you talked to him about it? I would find it hard to believe, you're one sexy lady, Lori!
I think my hubby is more interested than I am, but I'm not worried about that. He generally uses porn when I'm not available. (Usually, I'm just asleep and he doesn't want to bother me, LOL.) I know that if I asked, he would watch some with me.
03/18/2013
Feisty Feisty
Once in a while, we will watch a porn together.
03/18/2013
Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
sometimes
03/18/2013
Sammi Sammi
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
We have over 500 movies....and we are still gathering more, so in our opinion--there is never too much!! We both like to watch it and seem to have the same taste in movies so it is an enhancement rather than detraction.
I'd agree - there's never too much, for us. We mostly watch it together, and our tastes are pretty similar. It's not hurting our sex life any.
03/18/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
Too much of anything can be an issue. My boyfriend and I have watched porn together, but we don't do it often. We're more hands-on with each other.
03/18/2013
spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
Any porn is too much for me.
03/18/2013
married with children married with children
I dont watch it very often, maybe once or twice a year.
03/18/2013
epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
I think you answered your question WITHIN your question. TOO MUCH of anything is never a good thing! Asking if porn in the bedroom is okay is one thing, but asking if TOO MUCH is, answers the question already. Too much porn in the bedroom is not ... More
Agree
03/20/2013
spiced spiced
I like porn a lot. My wife only likes it occasionally, and it has to be pretty soft core for her to like it at all.

It's too much when it keeps you from having sex with the one you love. I limit my porn watching to when I know my wife and I aren't going to have sex, and I only watch it until I get off. And then I lose interest.
03/21/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We enjoy porn, there is never too much...
03/30/2013
Total posts: 23
Unique posters: 22