Men vs. Women - Who's More "Hardcore?"

LQ LQ
I know I like my porn fairly "hardcore." (Yeah, that's a useless word, but basically, the high end of the scale for standard porn before you get into fetish & kink... and that's just because I haven't bought the kink yet. Definitely not into flowers & candlelight, etc.) I've seen a couple of other women recently say they also preferred more extreme porn than their (male) partners. So I'm curious... There's still this whole stereotype about "Men are more visual" & women largely objecting to porn or only liking the soft stuff. I know that's not true, so let's get some numbers! (Sorry this is a bit hetero-centric. Not intending to exclude anyone. Just testing a stereotype, basically...)

So, if you and your partner(s) (past or present) have watched porn together or discussed what you like, which of you has the more extreme preferences?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm male & I'm the hardcore one
8  (23%)
I'm female & I'm the hardcore one
18  (51%)
We both like a pretty equal level of hardcore-ness
6  (17%)
Neither of us likes hardcore porn
We don't watch porn
2  (6%)
Other
1  (3%)
Total votes: 35
Poll is closed
10/29/2011
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Toys in Love Toys in Love
I'm male, and I'm usually the one being shown new things/ideas to try out by my girl. I guess we're a bit more 'hardcore' than you, gauging from your description, but I'm pretty sure my girl has boundaries still far beyond my own. She will often use porn to gauge how far she can push me.
10/30/2011
LQ LQ
Quote:
Originally posted by Toys in Love
I'm male, and I'm usually the one being shown new things/ideas to try out by my girl. I guess we're a bit more 'hardcore' than you, gauging from your description, but I'm pretty sure my girl has boundaries still far beyond my ... More
Bwah! I knew the women were the naughtier ones! *giggles*

I'm really not sure at this point exactly how "hardcore" I am. Haven't really seen porn since I was a teenager until recently. As a teenager that was always my guy friends picking based on what had the most interesting title, I think. (I let them watch at my house sometimes since I didn't live with parents.)

I know what I have been selecting now definitely beats that stuff by a mile, but I haven't been watching enough yet to reach the "Wow, I'm done" point yet. I'm sure I have one somewhere, but I'm so curious by nature I'll probably watch anything at least once.
10/30/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by LQ
I know I like my porn fairly "hardcore." (Yeah, that's a useless word, but basically, the high end of the scale for standard porn before you get into fetish & kink... and that's just because I haven't bought the kink yet. ... More
We BOTH are into romance..he more then she, amazingly. However, we are both very KINKY in the bedroom, and bring our own desires to the bed, and each gets pleasure out of sharing. Works for us!!!
10/30/2011
jj1228 jj1228
We are both into the hardcore porn. I think maybe me a little more then my wife but for the most part we are both into it.
11/06/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
Same here. We're both quite kinky.
11/07/2011
brandi2009 brandi2009
Quote:
Originally posted by LQ
I know I like my porn fairly "hardcore." (Yeah, that's a useless word, but basically, the high end of the scale for standard porn before you get into fetish & kink... and that's just because I haven't bought the kink yet. ... More
we both enjoy watching hardcore. it gives us ideas
05/13/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We're both equally into hardcore.
05/28/2013
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
He doesn't like much beyond a striptease. I prefer the hardcore stuff
05/29/2013
TiffanyW TiffanyW
Quote:
Originally posted by LQ
I know I like my porn fairly "hardcore." (Yeah, that's a useless word, but basically, the high end of the scale for standard porn before you get into fetish & kink... and that's just because I haven't bought the kink yet. ... More
My husband is completely against porn, but sometimes I watch to see what I can do to spice our relationship up.
05/29/2013
snowminx snowminx
most of my partners have been equal or I have been more
05/30/2013
Total posts: 11
Unique posters: 10