Men vs. Women - Who's More "Hardcore?"

I'm male, and I'm usually the one being shown new things/ideas to try out by my girl. I guess we're a bit more 'hardcore' than you, gauging from your description, but I'm pretty sure my girl has boundaries still far beyond my own. She will often use porn to gauge how far she can push me.

I know I like my porn fairly "hardcore." (Yeah, that's a useless word, but basically, the high end of the scale for standard porn before you get into fetish & kink... and that's just because I haven't bought the kink yet. Definitely not into flowers & candlelight, etc.) I've seen a couple of other women recently say they also preferred more extreme porn than their (male) partners. So I'm curious... There's still this whole stereotype about "Men are more visual" & women largely objecting to porn or only liking the soft stuff. I know that's not true, so let's get some numbers! (Sorry this is a bit hetero-centric. Not intending to exclude anyone. Just testing a stereotype, basically...)

So, if you and your partner(s) (past or present) have watched porn together or discussed what you like, which of you has the more extreme preferences?

I know I like my porn fairly "hardcore." (Yeah, that's a useless word, but basically, the high end of the scale for standard porn before you get into fetish & kink... and that's just because I haven't bought the kink yet. Definitely not into flowers & candlelight, etc.) I've seen a couple of other women recently say they also preferred more extreme porn than their (male) partners. So I'm curious... There's still this whole stereotype about "Men are more visual" & women largely objecting to porn or only liking the soft stuff. I know that's not true, so let's get some numbers! (Sorry this is a bit hetero-centric. Not intending to exclude anyone. Just testing a stereotype, basically...)

So, if you and your partner(s) (past or present) have watched porn together or discussed what you like, which of you has the more extreme preferences?