Do you watch porn when your partner isn't around? Do they know or care?

RosesThorns RosesThorns
scientific study ....yeah...
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Yes I do watch it when they arent around
119
No I do not watch porn without my partner
5
No they dont care
74
They care...
6
Yes they know
59
No they dont know
12
Other - explaine
7
Total votes: 282 (133 voters)
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01/31/2011
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Victoria Victoria
My husband and I are both cool with porn. We talk about it objectively, he blogs about it, we have porn star friends, we co-host the Porn Club together, and we watch porn whenever we feel like it. No big deal.
01/31/2011
Jobthingy Jobthingy
We both watch it with or without the other. It is no big deal here.
01/31/2011
Sammi Sammi
We watch it a lot together, but we also watch it separately. Each of us knows, and neither of us minds
01/31/2011
Annemarie Annemarie
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
scientific study ....yeah...
Yeah, I watch porn when my significant other isn't around, he knows, and he doesn't care.
01/31/2011
Kayla Kayla
Yeah, I watch porn when the boyfriend isn't around. He knows and doesn't really care though.
01/31/2011
Just A Girl Just A Girl
I watch more of it than he does. I don't think he minds at all. He's asked me to share the things I find that really turn me on.
01/31/2011
idunshire idunshire
I do, he knows and he doesn't care. We watch separately and together.
01/31/2011
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I don't really watch porn at all.
02/01/2011
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
We watch it together and we also watch it separately. It's no big deal in our house. To us porn is like any non-porn movies that we see separately; we tell each other if we see something cool or unusual, and we don't bother mentioning the ones that were crap.
02/01/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
We watch porn mostly on our lonesome but we occasonally watch it together when I want to give him a hand job/oral while he watches a porno. He always wants to put on a video that turns me on, which I find funny as he needs to watch for himself. We enjoy watching porn together but the circumstance are always the same (me getting him off rather than the other way around).

I ask my guy what he was watching when he came but he doesnt really want to share although what he watches is much mroe sober than what I watch. I'm more into the BDSM scene where as he is more into big chestede women in traditional sex positions. Which is not far fro mreal life, ha ha ha.
02/01/2011
leatherlover leatherlover
I watch porn by myself, and my wife knows that I do it. It doesn't bother her. She isn't too interesting in watching porn herself, but I don't think she has ever watched something like Pirates, so I am going to get that and she if she enjoys it.
02/01/2011
CS2012 CS2012
We haven't watched porn together in years but we do watch it separately . Neither of us gets jealous. In fact I watch it more than he does. He teases me about watching so much porn. He will say you and your porn.
02/03/2011
CS2012 CS2012
I have have porn on my iPod touch. That is how much I love porn.
02/03/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
scientific study ....yeah...
All three of us watch porn together and apart and in various groupings. I've met porn stars and we've played with making movies ourselves. We have no problem with it. My guys think it's pretty hawt that I enjoy porn and have no problem talking about it.
02/03/2011
indiglo indiglo
We watch it together sometimes, and I watch it without him sometimes. He's fine with it. (Actually, he thinks it's pretty hot. LOL) I don't watch a ton though, either way.
03/11/2011
lucymalfoy lucymalfoy
I usually watch it by myself. I guess he knows that I sometimes do, and I know that he does. It's never been an issue.
03/13/2011
skeetm skeetm
I've always been open with my partners about my porn consumption. Sometimes they're into porn too, sometimes not, but it's never been an issue that I watch it since I lay it on the line up front.
03/15/2011
Rain. Rain.
I don't really watch porn, but if I do its usually by myself for ideas
03/22/2011
Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
Yes I do, and they care because it turns them on!
03/24/2011
liilii080 liilii080
I don't really watch it with or without him. I think erotica is more my thing. Regardless of what I bring into the house he just rolls his eyes, laughs, and then tells me I'm crazy. I could watch 2 at the same time and that would still be his response!
03/24/2011
redsugar redsugar
it's complex between us. he doesn't care about my porn, nor want to know, and i find his gross and wish he'd find something else. we watched some together once, that i picked, and we both liked it, to an extent. so if we could just get to a more middle ground...then that would be nice.
03/31/2011
Meeg Meeg
Okay, sticky situation. When we first got together I told him I watched porn and masturbated when he wasn't around and it didn't bother me if he did as well since we were in a long distance relationship. He said no, if he did that he would feel like he was cheating on me. For years I assumed that he just wasn't jerking off until I found porn on my computer that wasn't mine.

I was really upset that he felt like he cheated on me and it didn't bother him. Turns out he doesn't remember ever saying that to me, but it still bothers me know when I know for a fact that he has been doing it and it's not five years later since we had the confrontation. :[
04/15/2011
TexasBrat TexasBrat
Both my hubby and I watch porn alone or together. We enjoy it, and we know about it, and we don't care if each of us watches it alone. We're over-tired, and a lot of the time, our sex drives don't match, so we both can appreciate that, and understand.

I've never found porn demeaning to women at all, since, the actresses in the porns that I watch (which has been A LOT of 'em) have all the power anyway!
04/17/2011
NuMe NuMe
Yes, I watch it occasionally when he's not around. No, he doesn't care. And No he doesn't know.
04/20/2011
Fuck it. Fuck it.
I'm pretty sure I watch it more than he does. Which is fine. Neither of us care.

He was on a website the other day and it had one of those "Oh, these hot girls want to talk to you!" ads on the side and he made a joke about clicking on it. I told him to knock himself out.
04/20/2011
salaciousrex salaciousrex
He knows I watch it but doesn't know exactly what kind of porn and told me outright he doesn't want to know..
04/28/2011
tim1724 tim1724
We watch porn together occasionally. I also watch porn by myself. She doesn't watch as much porn as I do, and I don't think she watches it by herself very often.
04/28/2011
toxie m toxie m
I watch it extremely rarely, maybe once every couple months. He doesn't care when I do. I have way more fun watching it WITH him than alone, really. He watches it alone much more often than I do, and I don't mind at all. Hurray for porn
04/28/2011
Liz2 Liz2
We do watch it together and alone as well. Overall, my porn tastes are more extreme then his.
05/20/2011
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