Seems to be happening more and more for me lately, although sometimes I think shes just getting my attention.
Would you be mad if you caught your partner watching porn instead of having sex with you?
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It depends, if my partner did not seem interested in sex everytime I tried to engage, but yet if I caught her watching porn, i'd be fucking pissed. But, if our sex life is great and she was watching porn, i'd ask if she would want me to join her.
Originally posted by
spineyogurt
Seems to be happening more and more for me lately, although sometimes I think shes just getting my attention.
Feb 2, 11:30 pm
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i would be hurt for sure. anger isn't a productive response to this but feel what you feel. it's your actions on the emotions that are important. i would certainly discuss it with my partner, voice my concerns, my insecurities due to the issue (it would make ME feel totally insecure if he turned me down for sex and then went to watch porn) and see what becomes of it.
Originally posted by
spineyogurt
Seems to be happening more and more for me lately, although sometimes I think shes just getting my attention.
to give better advice i'd need more details though. is your partner turning you down and then going to watch porn? or just watching porn more frequently than you are having sex?
Feb 3, 12:53 am
I wouldn't be mad if I caught my partner watching porn. He can watch all the porn he wants. I'm ok with that. As much as I love sex, I want my masturbation time too. But if he started using porn exclusively and no longer had sex with me, or had sex with me less often and using porn more ... I'd be unhappy.
Feb 3, 1:18 am
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I agree, this is pretty much how I would feel. We watch a bunch of porn but it doesn't interfere with our sex life, if anything it adds to it and we have sex more!
Originally posted by
FemmeFlo
I wouldn't be mad if I caught my partner watching porn. He can watch all the porn he wants. I'm ok with that. As much as I love sex, I want my masturbation time too. But if he started using porn exclusively and no longer had sex with me, or had sex
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I wouldn't be mad if I caught my partner watching porn. He can watch all the porn he wants. I'm ok with that. As much as I love sex, I want my masturbation time too. But if he started using porn exclusively and no longer had sex with me, or had sex with me less often and using porn more ... I'd be unhappy.
Feb 3, 3:58 pm
My boyfriend masturbates sometimes after I fall asleep. It used to upset me more but he says it's just because he gets horny and doesn't want to wake me up. I just wish his sex drive happened when I was awake. If he turned down sex and then masturbated, I'd be EXTREMELY upset. But thankfully, that's not what happens.
Feb 3, 6:07 pm
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