Are you a Dominant, a Submissive, a Switch...or None of the Above?

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Are you a Dominant, a Submissive, a Switch...or None of the Above?

spiced spiced
I've seen a couple of similar polls, but bear with me, people. One poll broke it down by gender, but didn't include a Switch option; another poll included a Switch option, but didn't break it down by gender. Neither poll included a None of the Above option. So...

In the bedroom, are you a Dominant, a Submissive, a Switch, or None of the Above? As always in my polls, the terms "Male" and "Female" refer to what YOU consider yourself to be.

Thanks for participating!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm FEMALE and I'm a Dominant
2  (6%)
I'm FEMALE and I'm a Submissive
5  (15%)
I'm FEMALE and I'm a Switch
13  (39%)
I'm FEMALE and I'm None of the Above
5  (15%)
I'm MALE and I'm a Dominant
3  (9%)
I'm MALE and I'm a Submissive
1  (3%)
I'm MALE and I'm a Switch
4  (12%)
I'm MALE and I'm None of the Above
Total votes: 33
Poll is closed
01/16/2013
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Anna Mattingly Anna Mattingly
female but just me
01/16/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Male dom, definitely.
01/16/2013
Cowgirl-Cutie Cowgirl-Cutie
female submissive and I enjoy it
01/17/2013
Pia Jouet Pia Jouet
I'm a female and I enjoy switching; I get the best of both worlds.
01/17/2013
Eugler Eugler
Male and switching.
01/17/2013
K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
I've seen a couple of similar polls, but bear with me, people. One poll broke it down by gender, but didn't include a Switch option; another poll included a Switch option, but didn't break it down by gender. Neither poll included a None ...
Sometimes sub, sometimes dom, and sometimes neither!
01/17/2013
Gdom Gdom
Male and dom, although I'd be willing to switch sometime.
01/17/2013
woodsdragon woodsdragon
For the majority of the time (like 90%) male (my husband) is the dom but every now and then we switch it up. It was not easy for me to switch at first, but it is getting easier for me
01/17/2013
tovehunter tovehunter
Female, bottom-heavy switch, sometimes submissive, mostly just bratty. Also, I wish you'd had the option for Bottom/Top as they're different things from Submissive/Dominant...
01/17/2013
Incendiaire Incendiaire
I like to switch depending on my mood.
01/17/2013
spiced spiced
My wife and I are switches. I'm a more submissive and she's more dominant. But we each get the urge to switch it up sometimes.

I'm very flexible. I've had very submissive girlfriends and with them, I enjoyed dominating much more--but I did miss being dominated and fantasized about it a lot.

I also had a partner (male) who only liked to dominate; with him, I submitted completely and found it mostly satisfying--but I did miss being in charge.
01/17/2013
spiced spiced
Quote:
Originally posted by tovehunter
Female, bottom-heavy switch, sometimes submissive, mostly just bratty. Also, I wish you'd had the option for Bottom/Top as they're different things from Submissive/Dominant...
That's interesting. I thought Bottom/Top referred to anal sex with gay men! What does it actually mean?
01/17/2013
llellsee llellsee
I'm female and I'm Dominant.
01/17/2013
RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Female switch
01/17/2013
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
I've seen a couple of similar polls, but bear with me, people. One poll broke it down by gender, but didn't include a Switch option; another poll included a Switch option, but didn't break it down by gender. Neither poll included a None ...
Female and i enjoy switching
01/17/2013
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
I've seen a couple of similar polls, but bear with me, people. One poll broke it down by gender, but didn't include a Switch option; another poll included a Switch option, but didn't break it down by gender. Neither poll included a None ...
I'm a switch.
01/22/2013
roskat roskat
Female and more sub.
01/22/2013
gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
I've seen a couple of similar polls, but bear with me, people. One poll broke it down by gender, but didn't include a Switch option; another poll included a Switch option, but didn't break it down by gender. Neither poll included a None ...
im female and im submissive

i enjoy switching sometimes but yannooo
01/23/2013
gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
I've seen a couple of similar polls, but bear with me, people. One poll broke it down by gender, but didn't include a Switch option; another poll included a Switch option, but didn't break it down by gender. Neither poll included a None ...
im female and im submissive

i enjoy switching sometimes but yannooo
01/23/2013
butts butts
I'm a female MAN and I'm a dominant switch. I don't much like being submissive.
01/23/2013
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I'm female and I'm more of a dominate switch. I'll be subbie for only a few special people.
01/23/2013
bratcat bratcat
while i'm often a sub, my partner and i will switch and i will be dom (he loves it). i enjoy doing both!
01/25/2013
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I switch it up.
01/25/2013
FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
both
01/25/2013
Total posts: 25
Unique posters: 22