Which age did you first begin to think about BDSM related fantasies and get your first thoughts on the subject

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Which age did you first begin to think about BDSM related fantasies and get your first thoughts on the subject

pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these thoughts manifest. My love for BDSM grew throughout the years but that was the starting point? When was yours? Feel free to answer as well as vote would like to hear how bdsm came to be in your life.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
10 or under
18  (17%)
11 - 13
19  (18%)
14 - 17
43  (41%)
20 - 25
17  (16%)
25 -30
3  (3%)
30 - 40
4  (4%)
50+
1  (1%)
Total votes: 105
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08/28/2012
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- Kira - - Kira -
Some of my earliest memories are of BDSM fantasies. I just was waaaay too young to know what it was called at the time.
08/28/2012
icelandia icelandia
honestly around like 18 or 19
08/28/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these ...
Early 20s.
08/28/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Really, really young. I didn't know what it was called at the time.
08/28/2012
Falsepast Falsepast
Between 14 & 17.
08/29/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
Early 20s
08/29/2012
Sera26 Sera26
I was really into the movie Exit to Eden when I was in Junior High. However I never did anything BDSM related until I was in my 20s. Then it was light. Now I'm getting more into experimenting.
08/29/2012
LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
I was 14 when I began having BDSM fantasies. I had a fascination with being restrained.
08/29/2012
ghent529 ghent529
20s or so
08/29/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these ...
14 - 17
08/29/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
It was sexual when I was 13. The idea of being captured was there when I was 7 though, it just want yet sexual
08/30/2012
joolie joolie
I often thought about being tied up and tying people before I was even in grade school. I have only realized in the last few years that not everyone likes playing rough or thinking about d/s situations.
Btw the husband and I are super vanilla when we bother with sex. He is more twisted than I but acts like he never growled in my ear or choked (willing)people for fun.
08/30/2012
Chelle Love Chelle Love
Was about 16 when I had my first experience, but got somewhat hardcore into it after my first divorce...
08/30/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
Around 12. I started having fantasies and seeing a sexual side to certain things in movies that others did not seem to be aroused by. I didn't know the name for it back then though.
08/30/2012
TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by pleasurehunter
As I kid I had no idea what BDSM was but I about 10 through 15 I had fantasies of licking the boots of women in leather with whips and floggers. I had seen bits and pieces of BDSM in film and tv, I think my mind was interested and I had these ...
I think about 15 or 16 I started to get really into it.
08/30/2012
aluminummm aluminummm
I don't remember having any BDSM-related thoughts when I was much younger. I was aware of BDSM and had a vague idea of what it was, but no particular fantasies. It wasn't until more recently in my 20s that I was like, FUCK YEAH LET'S DO THIS.
08/30/2012
Khanner Khanner
I started to have sexual fantasies when I was about 17. They were a bit violent, but a big catalyst for me was watching Nine Inch Nails' Broken.
08/30/2012
tortilla tortilla
never really focused on it until recently
08/30/2012
SavingMyself SavingMyself
I was 15 when I actually started fantasizing about being involved in BDSM. I was much much younger when I first discovered BDSM, back then it turned me on, but I didn't think it was something I wanted to be involved in.
08/30/2012
null null
I was interested in being tied up and having sex at 12. :/
08/30/2012
Twiz Twiz
Sometime around 18 or 19, I believe.
09/12/2012
himynameissteph himynameissteph
Probably early teens.
09/17/2012
nosrslylol nosrslylol
Pretty young.
09/17/2012
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I think around the 11-13 range. I liked handcuffs for a long time before that, but I just liked how they looked. I didn't start thinking of them sexually until I was about 13.
09/23/2012
CASpookygirl CASpookygirl
I read the Beauty Series by Anne Rice, and *BAM* I had found my kink
09/25/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
18 and 19 are missing...that's when it was for me.
09/25/2012
remember.me remember.me
I read the Beauty series when I was a teenager but while I was fascinated, I didn't think about it... I really got into it last year, so when I was 26 is my answer.
09/25/2012
ginainohio ginainohio
i was young
09/25/2012
Beck Beck
I was really young. I can remember playing "House" with the neighbor boy and liking being pushed around by "daddy."
09/25/2012
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Unique posters: 62