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Contributor: RonLee RonLee
For an ex gf I had played the role of "Daddy" for a few sessions. It just didn't do anything for me, other than give me the satisfaction of pleasing her at the time. The effort of maintaining that role was not easy for me, though, it took a relatively high level of concentration to stay in character.
If it turns someone else on I have no problem with it for them, it's just not my thing.
09/19/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
Definitely not our thing at al...
09/19/2011
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I am a lil and I have a Daddy.
09/20/2011
Contributor: LaLaLouise LaLaLouise
I agree with most of the posts here, not my thing, but to each his/her own. I had actually never heard of this until reading this post. But then again, I don't have a lot of people to talk to and learn about sex from, so most of my sex ed has been on EF in the last month or so since I joined
09/20/2011
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Age regression play is not something that works, psychologically for me. I think it's perfectly fine for people who enjoy it and can deal with it. But, although I have healed from past trauma, I don't really want to play "daddy and ... more
Thank you. This is a beautiful post. As someone that is both a fan of age regression play and someone that was abused as a child (14 years old), I definitely appreciate the gravity of this kind of play.

For those that may be unfamiliar, Daddy/Little is a bit different than Daddy/Daughter or Daddy/Son. Daddy/Little is a bit of a deviation from a familial dynamic; the "little" is not specifically someone in the family. There is can be a close, intimate dynamic, but it is not necessarily incestuous.
09/20/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
To each their own, but this is definitely not my thing. It's a double whammy on my hard limits, I don't do age play, and I don't do incest play. If it's your thing, though, enjoy it.
09/20/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Nooooooooooo! I wouldn't try this. I've never even thought about it before. Now that Iam, it seems a little off to me.
09/20/2011
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
This kind of play isn't really an interest of mine. I know the dynamic brings a great deal of enjoyment and satisfaction to a number of couples I know. I just can't get into it.
09/24/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
Sir, I read this post and immediately thought of you briefly bringing this up before. I applaud you for talking about it.

While it's not for me for a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, I do find the psychology of it fascinating. I think the closest thing I've got to this is a friend who is a Daddy as far as the role that he tends to play, but I don't think age regression is there from the other participant usually. I don't have the right anatomy for him to be sexually interested in me, but we do have a master/apprentice type friendship that I definitely get a Daddy/little girl vibe from a lot of the time.
09/24/2011
Contributor: domsub1993 domsub1993
No way, no how!
09/24/2011
Contributor: submissive.sweetheart submissive.sweetheart
i am a little.

This is not roleplay for me, but rather intertwined in the M/s dyanimc of my relationship, which is 24/7.

i'm still new to this, and for a while was embarrassed and would never say this to anyone. However, iI am becomming more comfortable with myself with my current Daddy/Sir.

The way i see it, i don't consider myself his daughter nor him my real dad. It's more the emotional security i get from feeling "little". i don't like to put an age on my little (or do anything conventional i suppose lol), but when i am with Him, i am able to relax, be vulnerable, and know he will protect me, discipline me when necessary, and love me unconditionally, something that is hard for me. In turn i try my best to please him, make him happy, obey, and be a good girl.

We have only been in this type of relationship for a little over 3 months so i am sure in time i will have much more insight, but for now, whatever it is worth, this is my two cents
09/25/2011
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Quote:
Originally posted by submissive.sweetheart
i am a little.

This is not roleplay for me, but rather intertwined in the M/s dyanimc of my relationship, which is 24/7.

i'm still new to this, and for a while was embarrassed and would never say this to anyone. However, iI am ... more
I think your insight is excellent. This explains a lot of the appeal, I think, for many Littles. It also explains how, for example, a Daddy/Little dynamic does not typically include incest play (that's more what a Daddy/Daughter dynamic would do).
09/25/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by submissive.sweetheart
i am a little.

This is not roleplay for me, but rather intertwined in the M/s dyanimc of my relationship, which is 24/7.

i'm still new to this, and for a while was embarrassed and would never say this to anyone. However, iI am ... more
Hmmmmm, Interesting. That's an aspect that I had not considered, thank you for enlightening us.
09/25/2011
Contributor: LibertyGirl LibertyGirl
I think that most sexual fetishes can be positive and should be appreciated for the pleasure they can bring. Honestly, though, this concept seems really weird, and rather unhealthy. Perhaps someone can explain the motivation behind this.
09/25/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by arewehavingfun?
When I was 23 I met a man who was 42 at the time. 3 years later we had a son, lived together for 5 more years and then it seemed that we were going nowhere so I told him (once again) that I REALLY wanted to make it legal. Short story long or long ... more
I think it needs to be clear, simply having an age difference is not the same as Age Regression Play or "Daddies and Littles" or "Daddies and... anything else" that works for that couple's dynamic. Daddies and Littles (and other Age Regression Play) are a sexual dynamic which is consensual, but where the "Daddy" (or Mommy) treats the "Little" in a child like manner, with and without sexual acts. (That's really simplifying it. I don't engage in the activity, so I can't go into great detail. But, I do have an understanding of this type of dynamic.)

My Man and I are different ages, but we have no Age Regression dynamic in our relationship. Simply being 5, 10, 15 or 20 or more years apart does not mean that a "Daddy and Little" (etc) dynamic is taking place.

I just wanted to clear that up.

A couple can be two completely different ages and NOT involved in Age Play or they can be the SAME age, or the "Parent" can even be younger than the Little, and yet they may choose an Age Regression Dynamic for their relationship.
11/10/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by K101
On another forum I am active in, there was huge discussions about daddies and littles. I read some very... unique things about it and learned that some take it very seriously. They are the child/daughter and their husband/boyfriend is their father. ... more
Noo..
11/16/2011
Contributor: spnkegrl spnkegrl
I think this would be a turn off for me, because it would make me think of my biological father. However, I can see the lure in wanting someone to take care of you that way.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Art & Sensation Art & Sensation
It doesn't seem too appealing to me, but thumbs up to anybody who is able to appreciate this sort of play. Any kind of consensual kink is fine in my book. *shrugs*
11/16/2011
Contributor: Defiledpixxy Defiledpixxy
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
It's not roleplay. It's a lifestyle/dynamic.

And also, to arewehavingfun: my physical age versus my partner's age is not of importance. It didn't work out, but not because of the dynamic. Mental age was more what mattered, me ... more
For some people it is in fact roleplay. Some people only engage in Daddy/girl play in the bedroom. Others engage outside of it. Some are in it 24/7 as a lifestyle or relationship dynamic.

It works the same as relationships that are centered around Dominant/submissive or Master/slave are. Not everyone lives or has too life those as a lifestyle. For some people BDSM is nothing but roleplaying for others it is a way of life.
11/16/2011
Contributor: karay123 karay123
For me, creepy. But whatever you're into I guess...
11/16/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by K101
On another forum I am active in, there was huge discussions about daddies and littles. I read some very... unique things about it and learned that some take it very seriously. They are the child/daughter and their husband/boyfriend is their father. ... more
We have played around with the fantasy mildly but all three of us aren't really invested in this sort of relationship possily because of some issues with childhood sexual abuse by a parental figure....just doesn't seem all that sexy after the reality. If that makes sense...
11/16/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
Daddy/girl doesn't necessarily have to be a male partner and a female partner.

There are many ways to engage in the D/g dynamic, and a male-bodied/female-bod ied partner is not required.



And, as spockface said, there are ... more
'zactly...in my dynamic we do sometimes roleplay Mommy/boy but as it isnt something we feel comfortable discussing with our partner it probably won't be a lifestyle choice for us.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
This is actually one of my favorites, except I've played it as Father/son. It's a really interesting thing; not just kinky but the base level of love and caring is something that can be comforting.
12/12/2011
Contributor: k3 k3
I'm a little, and my mate is comfortable with and even enjoys that about me, though He doesn't consider Himself to be a DaddyDom, so we don't have quite what I would call a Daddy/babygirl relationship. I have had one in the past, though. I do miss it...
12/31/2011
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
i dunno if you can exactly call our relationship a father/daughter kind of thing, but i'll call him daddy because that's one of my favorite things to call him, and he'll call me his pumpkin or princess. i guess it's along those lines..
12/31/2011
Contributor: dks210 dks210
Yes, but it's not a lifestyle, just in the bedroom.
02/20/2012
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
umm not my cup of tae
03/26/2012
Contributor: Tangles Tangles
Not my thing, but some people find it a very fulfilling sort of roleplay.
03/26/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
It's not roleplay. It's a lifestyle/dynamic.

And also, to arewehavingfun: my physical age versus my partner's age is not of importance. It didn't work out, but not because of the dynamic. Mental age was more what mattered, me ... more
It is nice to have someone more articulate than I am on here to explain the dynamic of this type of situation. I am with my Master / daddy for a long time. We have been married for almost 5 years after being together for some years before that. We are not very public with that part of our relationship although it would not take someone very long to figure out ours is not a typical power dynamic in a relationship. We do not do the age regression part for me, however with him being older than me it is not necessary.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I am with a much older man, but we do not have a daddy and little relationship. We both agree it is not our thing.
03/30/2012