Are you a dom, a sub, or a switch?

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Are you a dom, a sub, or a switch?

LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Dom
24  (8%)
Sub
113  (38%)
Switch- gotta have the best of both worlds!
162  (54%)
Total votes: 299
Poll is closed
11/20/2010
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Destri Destri
Domme here. My hubby is my slave.
11/20/2010
Midway through Midway through
Domme here also, I play with switchs and subs both though, I generally like to bring a switch with a sub, so I can watch the switch domme the sub. Woo!
11/20/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
Mostly Domme here too. If I were to be a switch, I'll start off that way, but I always end up taking over.
11/20/2010
HisLittleGirl HisLittleGirl
I am always sub with Daddy but with another person I would be the top.
11/21/2010
Akikaze Akikaze
I play sub only to one man, and with others I am usually a domme.
11/22/2010
gone77 gone77
I have dominant tendencies (mostly with women), but I'm a sub at heart.
11/22/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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I switch for my guys but it takes a great deal of trust for me to submit. I am not submissive to women.
11/22/2010
Danielle915 Danielle915
I switch up, i'll do whatever my husband wants of me.
11/22/2010
Faith Faith
I'm naturally a dom. But I have my days for sure where I want to be dominated. Thankfully my gf is the opposite. Naturally submissive, but she also has her days.
11/22/2010
lamira lamira
I like switching, of course, depending on my mood.
11/22/2010
KnK KnK
I'd say that I were a switch, but I just feel more comfortable being in control. I like controlling a large man. I think it makes me feel powerful. I think for fun I'm a domme, but maybe for the right person, I might be more submissive. I would never consider being a sub for someone who was a domme. I'm sure I'd only sub for a switch, and then again I'd really have to trust them.
11/24/2010
StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
I'm a switch right now, but I like being dominant more. The only time I sub is when I'm feeling very unsure about my actions, and that doesn't happen often.
11/26/2010
Kayla Kayla
Domme here. Boyfriend is a submissive.
11/28/2010
trios trios
You can switch?!
11/28/2010
Sbear89 Sbear89
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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I am a sub but I have expressed my desire to try out and be a dom just once. Just to see what it feels like.
11/28/2010
slavegirl slavegirl
i'm a sub
11/29/2010
Raggedy Andie Raggedy Andie
I am definitely a sub.
11/29/2010
NuMe NuMe
In life, in general, I have a very dominant personality. But with my hubby, I tend to like to switch it up in bed. Outside of bed, even with him, I'm still the dominant one.
11/29/2010
sextoygeek sextoygeek
I have a very dominate personally, so much so that even if someone I am walking with is a few steps of a head of me it bothers me (I learned that off the Dog Whisperer >.<). I have a hard time letting someone else be dominate.
12/04/2010
Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
very much a domme, but i will switch for only my husband
12/05/2010
Mistress Kitty Mistress Kitty
I'm a switch but only for my husband. I much prefer Domme
12/07/2010
PussyGalore PussyGalore
I'm mostly submissive with my husband and I would domme other partners should we choose to go there, regardless if they are male or female.
12/12/2010
clp clp
It really depends on the other person to see which side comes out. Some people I fall submissively to, some people are automatic toys and most I have no interest of finding either out.

My sweetheart is perfect for me because our relationship allows both of us to explore either side.
12/12/2010
HelleCat HelleCat
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Switch, though I tend to lean more towards the bottom aspect of it.
12/16/2010
RubenesqueAna RubenesqueAna
I've been both. Submitting is what truly turns me on and where I feel most complete, comfortable and fulfilled. I enjoy being dominant as it is fun, but I get no sexual gratification from it and I could never EVER do it exclusively.
12/16/2010
RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I'm a switch, but I prefer being a sub. I only realized I could dom when my boyfriend asked me to. I think I need to practice though because even though I like being in control or on top, I'm not a very bossy person.
12/18/2010
Xavier7 Xavier7
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Switch, definitely.
12/19/2010
Luce Luce
Im a Switch. ^.^
12/20/2010
Lucidity Lucidity
I have a dominant personality, so being dominated really turns me on. But we tend to switch it up sometimes; keep things fresh.
12/20/2010
Total posts: 151
Unique posters: 149