Are you submissive or dominant?

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Are you submissive or dominant?

Lavender420 Lavender420
I'm very submissive and have always been curious about BDSM and whatnot. How are you guys on this?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Submissive
Vanille , - Kira - , NarcissisticLust , unfulfilled , Hot'n'Bothered , null , Taylor , Lucidity , sissymorwen , zracer , submissive.sweetheart , FemmeFlo , Shellz31 , Kkay , Kitka , LavenderSkies
16  (62%)
Dominant
Tori Rebel , Ghost , Ivy Wilde
3  (12%)
Both
wrecklesswords , jakjak , slynch , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , sktb0007 , toxie m , Gunsmoke
7  (27%)
Total votes: 26
Poll is closed
11/04/2011
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Vanille Vanille
I'm submissive, and my Master/girlfriend is my Dominant. She allows me to 'take control' from time to time, but that doesn't make me a switch.
11/04/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm not in a BDSM relationship, but in general I'm submissive, but I do take control on occasions but not often. I like the feeling of being in control at times but that sure doesn't make me dominate at all.
11/04/2011
Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
Mainly submissive.....
11/04/2011
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Entirely dominant.
11/04/2011
Lucidity Lucidity
Mostly submissive, though I consider myself a switch.
11/04/2011
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I'm not in a BDSM relationship and never have been. However, I've usually always been the submissive one. However, with my current girlfriend, she prefers me being more dominant. And I actually kind of like it that way
11/04/2011
sissymorwen sissymorwen
I think that it is important to note that some people's situations are a bit more confusing than that of Dom(me)/sub.

For example, my partner is more of Dominant bottom, while I am more of a submissive Top. ^^;
11/04/2011
submissive.sweetheart submissive.sweetheart
Quote:
Originally posted by sissymorwen
I think that it is important to note that some people's situations are a bit more confusing than that of Dom(me)/sub.

For example, my partner is more of Dominant bottom, while I am more of a submissive Top. ^^;
That's a dynamic i am not familiar with. For me i am submissive and bottom, whereas he is Dominant and top. Sissymorwen, would you mind explaining how the roles Dominant bottom and submissive top work as in your relationship i've never heard of it and am curious.
11/05/2011
FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
Quote:
Originally posted by Lavender420
I'm very submissive and have always been curious about BDSM and whatnot. How are you guys on this?
I wonder if the results you're getting are skewed because this site seems to have more women than men.
11/06/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm usually a sub with the right person.
11/06/2011
Kkay Kkay
Very much a sub.

I write one hell of a Dom, though!
11/06/2011
Kitka Kitka
I'm submissive with Hubby/Daddy and occasionally Top other subs with him.
11/06/2011
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I don't have a submissive cell in my body.
11/06/2011
toxie m toxie m
I've always identified as submissive, but lately I've been beginning to discover my Dominant side. I'm not totally comfortable with it yet, but I also don't still think of myself as 100% sub.
11/06/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Im a sub.
11/07/2011
Mistress Jezebel Mistress Jezebel
Dominant. However, there is a person I switch with at times but even then, I top from the bottom. He plays out MY fantasies as a submissive for the moment or fun time is over. I have the pussy, I set the rules
11/07/2011
12345678 12345678
neither. I'm a masochist!
11/13/2011
Lindsey123 Lindsey123
We're not into much kink or bdsm, but in general, I'm submissive. Once in high school a gangster kid threw ball and hit me. Me being the "cute little white girl" I am started screaming at him and threatening him. The girl I was talking to in class was terrified because I rarely stand up for myself. Probably the best moment I ever had in high schoool
11/13/2011
Cherrylane Cherrylane
I wish this poll wasn't closed.

I'm a switch. Going through a sub phase currently.
11/13/2011
Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
I'm more submissive.
03/14/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
It's a secret.

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03/14/2012
xxjoel xxjoel
I'm submissive with men & slightly more dominant with women...
03/17/2012
MilyxXxD MilyxXxD
both
10/07/2012
playsalot playsalot
Quote:
Originally posted by Lavender420
I'm very submissive and have always been curious about BDSM and whatnot. How are you guys on this?
I like to switch things up.
10/07/2012
Living Doll Living Doll
100% submissive.
10/14/2012
Total posts: 26
Unique posters: 26