Ass Bruises...

Contributor: Alicia Alicia
Quote:
Originally posted by TexasFire
Redness/marks...yes.

Bruising...nope.
I have to agree. I'm not into bruises of any sort, they freak me out.

Redness, yea that I like and I like the slight soreness the day after some good ass smacks.
11/18/2010
Contributor: CanMan CanMan
meeee
11/20/2010
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
nope
01/16/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
Quote:
Originally posted by TexasFire
Redness/marks...yes.

Bruising...nope.
nope
01/16/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
Quote:
Originally posted by TexasFire
Redness/marks...yes.

Bruising...nope.
nope
01/16/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I've had some really weird bruises from spanking - they were like a lot of blue dots. Probably because the area affected was large - it wasn't a pinpoint spanking. But they came off pretty soon.
01/30/2011
Contributor: firekitten firekitten
Yes. I've been known to accidently get a little overzealous with biting and leave huge patches of bruising. And I don't object to receiving them, as long as they're in the right places so it feels good. I've found the area where the neck meets the shoulder is absolutely amazing for biting/being bitten.
01/30/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I bruise easy apparently. I wake up in the morning with bruises and I have no clue how I got them. I am not real fond of playing so rough as to purposely bruise the skin.
01/30/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Dragon
Who likes them? Who wants them...

I have a hell of a nasty one right now. Unfortunately it was from slipping on the stairs, but it certainly did spark a discussion! From someone that would rather give me one.
I like bruises
01/30/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I don't like to get them. For some reason I don't bruise easily, so it isn't usually an issue.

The problem is, I think, nosy people. I've had friends with consensual marks and they've had "friends" and relatives butting in and attempting to convince them they are being "abused." It's the "Oprah-Dr.Phil" effect. Everybody is in everybody else's business.

Also, medical professionals are "Trained" to spot bruising and ask questions. Some do not take "I'm fine." for an answer and they don't teach power dynamics in Medical School or nursing school. For many doctors, therapists, nurses, home health care providers etc any and all markings are signs of "abuse" and it is really hard to educate these people. As people who are really abused tend to be very quiet about the markings they get from non-consensual beatings, it becomes a very difficult issue for some people. Especially women. In some states "domestic abuse" can be reported by someone other than the "victim" and although in most situations the "victim" has to be the one to file charges, I really don't want the cops over at my house getting into my business.

It can become a really confusing thing to sort out.
01/30/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Quote:
Originally posted by Dragon
Who likes them? Who wants them...

I have a hell of a nasty one right now. Unfortunately it was from slipping on the stairs, but it certainly did spark a discussion! From someone that would rather give me one.
Bring 'em on!
01/31/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Dragon
Who likes them? Who wants them...

I have a hell of a nasty one right now. Unfortunately it was from slipping on the stairs, but it certainly did spark a discussion! From someone that would rather give me one.
at least, they go away
01/31/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
Since I bruise like a peach, I don't mind the bruising
My husband can't JUST leave marks. Sometimes seeing them is a nice reminder.
03/22/2011
Contributor: jc123 jc123
Love 'em.
06/07/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
On my ass, I don't think I'd mind some bruises. I've seen some terrifying pics of how much damage a crop can do, though. I say if my butt looks like magenta sausage a week after being "disciplined", that's way overboard. A couple of days with a bruise I think would be kinda nice, though.
06/07/2011
Contributor: curmudgeoncat curmudgeoncat
I like most bruises. I find them beautiful and think of them as temporary reminders of really fun times. BUT anything above the neck or rooted in abuse and not a source of pleasure is a turn off for me.
06/07/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
My lover constantly has ass marks. I enjoy it thoroughly.
06/07/2011
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
I like the activities that cause the marks and bruises, but I'm not really a fan of bruises.
06/07/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Yeah, bruising is definitely unattractive. I used to have such rough sex with one guy, I would be so freakin' beat up for days afterwards, but getting it on in the car a lot contributed to that too. Lol
06/07/2011
Contributor: Inwitari Inwitari
Unfortunately I bruise too easily, and they don't look good on my extremely pale skin
06/07/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by Dragon
Who likes them? Who wants them...

I have a hell of a nasty one right now. Unfortunately it was from slipping on the stairs, but it certainly did spark a discussion! From someone that would rather give me one.
I find them intriguing. NOt sure I could take enough to actually bruise though.
06/07/2011
Contributor: [Red] [Red]
My ass is currently quite sore from multiple spankings, but I do sport scars and I love the look of wearing my lover's bruises. My only complaint is they never last long enough.
06/08/2011
Contributor: kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
No I do not want a bruise.
06/08/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
OMG! I have one right now on my tail bone! It's huge and I've no idea how it got there. Also came along with an ugly one on my thigh and hip bone. Probably from the kids lol.
06/09/2011
Contributor: soyandapplecrisp soyandapplecrisp
I bruise up easily, so from a moderately-light rough night I might end up pretty marked up. I don't mind, it's fun to share with my friends with similar sexual interets and joke about.

The general opinion between me and my boyfriend is it wasn't a good night of sex if now redness or bruising is visible in the end if that better answers the question, haha.
06/15/2011
Contributor: CandidKinkster CandidKinkster
Quote:
Originally posted by Dragon
Who likes them? Who wants them...

I have a hell of a nasty one right now. Unfortunately it was from slipping on the stairs, but it certainly did spark a discussion! From someone that would rather give me one.
I LOVE bruises. They are like my souvenirs of the scene.
06/16/2011
Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
Quote:
Originally posted by Dragon
Who likes them? Who wants them...

I have a hell of a nasty one right now. Unfortunately it was from slipping on the stairs, but it certainly did spark a discussion! From someone that would rather give me one.
LOVE having bruises and marks to look at later and have tortured
06/17/2011
Contributor: LittleOne LittleOne
I love being reminded every time I get dressed of what happened the night before. That and every time I sit down. It's a nice little ping of nostalgia. I wear my bruises with pride.
07/03/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
I definitely enjoy having some marks afterwards.... as little reminders of what went on!
07/03/2011
Contributor: moose1120 moose1120
My wife feels like she hasn't actually been spanked if there are no bruises a day later. Bath brush makes the best bruises.
07/04/2011