BDSM and marriage?

SexScienceAndFood SexScienceAndFood
Often, D/s relationships are just that. It's not too common for BDSM to cross over strongly into a marriage, although elements certainly do for some to spice up the sexlife.

For you married folk that also enjoy elements of BDSM, how do you integrate one with the other? Do you just do bring elements like cuffs and paddles just during sex times, or do you try and maintain the D/s relationship outside the bedroom? What works for you and doesn't work?
Sep 2, 6:02 pm
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Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
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Originally posted by SexScienceAndFood
Often, D/s relationships are just that. It's not too common for BDSM to cross over strongly into a marriage, although elements certainly do for some to spice up the sexlife.

For you married folk that also enjoy elements of BDSM, how do you ... More
maybe some light light activity for foreplay, usually much much earlier in the day. Way before sex. none of that blindfolding, bondage or serious stuff though. Light spice is nice.
Sep 2, 8:00 pm
LoveReImagined LoveReImagined
Quote:
Originally posted by SexScienceAndFood
Often, D/s relationships are just that. It's not too common for BDSM to cross over strongly into a marriage, although elements certainly do for some to spice up the sexlife.

For you married folk that also enjoy elements of BDSM, how do you ... More
My husband is very shy for some reason so we haven't gotten into very much. He does spank me, pull my hair, and does some light choking to me very often. With that being said..he is still very much the submissive in the marriage. I'm in control of the kids, whole house and budget, while he is out making the money. I think he loves the few moments of bravery he has to control me because that's the only time he actually has control of me. If he ever tries to control anything outside of the bedroom, it never works out well. I'm the dominant outside of the bedroom who wants her submissive husband to be dominant in bed...and ONLY bed.
Sep 3, 3:59 pm
SailorJulyxo SailorJulyxo
To be quite honest, most people into BDSM / kink are in a relationship as well. Anyway! My wife and I have been married for 7 years (we started our D/s relationship on our honeymoon) and together for 10. We're 24/7 D/s, Domme-ing and subbing for each other.

I would happily love her and be with her no matter what, however we both feel that D/s goes far beyond marriage and it's the most beautiful relationship.
Sep 18, 12:01 pm
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