How do you deal with a partner intolerant to your kink?

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How do you deal with a partner intolerant to your kink?

LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Title asks it all! Is it a deal breaker if someone wants nothing to do with your kink? Would you feel unsatisfied? Or maybe even give up your kink?
02/21/2012
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Ghost Ghost
If it's something extremely important to me, I might just find a new partner or find a partner willing to allow me to explore that aspect of my sexuality separate from them.
02/22/2012
Silverdrop Silverdrop
If they weren't willing to at least indulge me occasionally? Yes, it'd be a deal-breaker. Sex is important, and a partner worth keeping will care about your sexual pleasure.
02/22/2012
All His All His
my hubby and i have found happy mediums for each others kinks so we boh stay happy and satisfied
02/22/2012
duff duff
This is really hard to answer. Before id want sex everyday. But my hub wasnt havin it. Seemed lik it was only every other week. Id materbate daily n that helped me...
02/22/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I've never actually had this problem. So far, my wife is very accepting of all forms of kink (except exhibition and I'm not into that anyway).
02/22/2012
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
It's a deal breaker for me. I tried compromising and even living without it for the sake of my husband and I gave it my all for four years. It was torture for me, I was being denied all of the things I considered pleasurable, and it wasn't fair to either of us. As it turns out, sometimes you just can't change a leopard's spots and my spots are all sorts of kinky.

Well, that and he was a giant butthead. That didn't help either
02/22/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Awesome responses Thanks
02/29/2012
Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Title asks it all! Is it a deal breaker if someone wants nothing to do with your kink? Would you feel unsatisfied? Or maybe even give up your kink?
Of course it's not a deal breaker! My partner and I have many kinks, many of which thankfully overlap. There's a few things he's not comfortable with and/or doesn't want to try, and I respect that, but I tend to check in with him every so often to make sure it hasn't changed
03/04/2012
Total posts: 9
Unique posters: 8