Do you like suffocation?

Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I want to try it....
03/13/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
Too risky for this chicken little. No thanks!
03/13/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
It's not my thing. I value my life too much. It's too easy for something to go wrong or someone to get carried away.
03/21/2011
Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
I've had an abusive partner choke me (as part of an assault, not sexual activity) so I don't think I would enjoy it. I understand that other people love it, but it's not for me!
03/22/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
No. This type of play is not for me. I love it when he touches, holds and kisses my neck, but that is all. Even if I asked, he would never be up for it anyway.
03/23/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
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Originally posted by Epicurean
I was reading an older thread here about where people draw the line and was surprised to see how many people mentioned suffocation. When an ex-ex boyfriend first suggested it to me about 5 years ago, I was horrified at the idea, but now I LOVE being ... more
I would be very scared.Lol
03/23/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
I've never tried it, but if we were doing some sort of ravishment/power play than I'd definitely be up for it. Just a little, though, I wouldn't want things to go too far!
04/02/2011
Contributor: REDRUM REDRUM
It's not my cup of tea.
04/02/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
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Originally posted by Eden C.
I've had an abusive partner choke me (as part of an assault, not sexual activity) so I don't think I would enjoy it. I understand that other people love it, but it's not for me!
Sorry to read that!

I have a close friend actually, who has experienced the same thing.
She actually freaks out anytime anyone even touches her neck.
04/04/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I haven't tried it yet. My guy has talked about it (not while on a visit here), but so far we haven't seriously considered doing it in real life. I think I trust him enough to try it, I'm not sure if I'm too keen on the idea, though.
04/04/2011
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
I absolutely panic if I can't breathe. I find myself holding my breath at times when I am about to reach climax during masturbation, but this isn't frightening to me since my breath is at my own control. When I realize I'm doing this, I make myself take a breath.

I guess I just don't like anything foreign constricting my air flow. I don't even like being underwater of my own accord because it just freaks me out to know I cannot take a breath. The thought of someone choking me or having a pillow (or anything else) pressed against my face terrifies me. I think drowning, strangulation, or suffocation are some of the very most horrifying ways to die. That's all I can think about when something constricts my breathing in any way, so I suppose that would pretty much ruin the moment for me during sex if my partner decided to choke me! I'd think I'd suddenly put up a pretty good fight.
04/04/2011
Contributor: Sebmissive Sebmissive
I always thought being choked during sex was weird and it made me nervous. The other person could get carried away, or something else could go wrong. But a few months ago, my boyfriend and I were playing around and joking about our sexual limits. He pretended to choke me, leaving his grip very light and not squeezing at all. I found I kind of liked it, so we tried it a couple times and I've been a fan of choking ever since.

I don't enjoy being choked for long periods of time, and I don't think anyone should try it without completely trusting the other person. You need to know each other's limits, be able to tell when enough is enough. Isn't that pretty much standard when it comes to BDSM, though?
04/04/2011
Contributor: miamortis miamortis
i love the pressure more than the actual lack of breathing. there are different techniques to it. a little pressure is good, you can still breathe, a lot of pressure, well theres a safety risk.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Sebmissive Sebmissive
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Originally posted by miamortis
i love the pressure more than the actual lack of breathing. there are different techniques to it. a little pressure is good, you can still breathe, a lot of pressure, well theres a safety risk.
Same here, love the pressure. Actually, I don't like not being able to breathe at all.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I love it when he chokes me. He knows when is enough.
04/05/2011
Contributor: EvaChangeN EvaChangeN
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Originally posted by IrishLassie
I really like it. I like the feeling of my husband's hand around my throat. He has never gone too far in which I couldnt breath, but he does squeeze pretty firmly. He hasn't really done anything like shove my head into a pillow, although I ... more
Same here! I love seeing stars but not being prevented from breathing. I also like having the circulation slowed as well, not everytime tho, it can cause long term issues from what I have read on the internet
04/10/2011
Contributor: Leila Eden Leila Eden
I'm too afraid to ever consider trying it!
04/20/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Epicurean
I was reading an older thread here about where people draw the line and was surprised to see how many people mentioned suffocation. When an ex-ex boyfriend first suggested it to me about 5 years ago, I was horrified at the idea, but now I LOVE being ... more
I enjoy being choked or breath play although it took me many years to be comfortable with doing that type of play with my Master. I wouldn't do breath play with anyone other than him.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I wouldn't say choke. Every now and then when my boyfriend feels super dominant he'll put a hand on my throat, and that I like. But...I like being able to breathe, lol
04/20/2011
Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
Wouldnt ever try it
04/20/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
Ii would not be into it at all.
04/20/2011
Contributor: idunshire idunshire
I wouldn't call it suffocation per say... but I do enjoy being briefly choked during sex.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
I love it. It make me orgasm really hard and the little breathless squeals I make turn my man on a lot!
04/23/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
We're not really into this.
04/23/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by Epicurean
I was reading an older thread here about where people draw the line and was surprised to see how many people mentioned suffocation. When an ex-ex boyfriend first suggested it to me about 5 years ago, I was horrified at the idea, but now I LOVE being ... more
I am not into this at all.
04/24/2011
Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
I adore it. It's definitely something you should do with someone you trust. I have only experienced suffocation with hands around my neck and I think it's incredibly sexy. He has never gone as far as to cause me to pass out or anything, but I love feeling my neck the next morning and it's sore. You could call me a masochist.
04/25/2011
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
It is not for me, I already have some bad breathing problems.
04/25/2011
Contributor: big b big b
no i like air
06/07/2011
Contributor: null null
I like a little bit of choking. I guess I like the feeling of struggling to breathe, but I don't want to be totally cut off from breathing.
06/07/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Nope, we do not like this type of play
06/07/2011