physically or metaphorically, there seem to be a few kinky people around here (bdsm "kinky" vs vanilla kinky)
do you wear a collar
03/30/2011
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I don't personally wear a collar, though I'm interested to learn what you mean by metaphorically.
Originally posted by
kawigrl
physically or metaphorically, there seem to be a few kinky people around here (bdsm "kinky" vs vanilla kinky)
03/30/2011
I dont currently wear a physical collar, but I do wear one on a mental level. I know that I am his and he knows this as well. We are talking about getting a physical collar to represent this.
03/30/2011
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I'd like to wear one, but it wouldnt be as good if I bought it myself obviously so Im just waiting
Originally posted by
kawigrl
physically or metaphorically, there seem to be a few kinky people around here (bdsm "kinky" vs vanilla kinky)
04/07/2011
I wear one sometimes for specific scenes, but our dynamic doesn't really work that way.
04/07/2011
I do not wear one, my guy has mentioned the idea for play, though, and he's a big fan of leaving marks. I think if he saw something about using other kinds of accessories as collars, he would be interested in the idea. Like something more feminine/girly. I'm like Cupcake here, I don't want to just flat out ask for one or get something myself.
04/07/2011
Yes, not all the time though. Mine has spikes ... And yes, there are a LOT of kinky people here, lol...
04/07/2011
My Master asked for my neck measurements - he intends to put one on me the moment I step into his flat when I visit him in England. Feels comforting.
04/07/2011
I wear a leather collar, and I wear it all the time. (unless I'm visiting family) Once my Master feels that he has trained me enough, he will be getting me a permanent Allen wrench steel collar.
04/07/2011
I have worn a collar ever since I was engaged to the hubby, which I was 16. It also highlights my neck (which I love) and hubby can "drag" me with it I'm not talking about those cute little hot topic collars either LOL My first sex shop purchase was my 2 in wide triple layer leather, with top layer of purple velvet and a huge heavy O ring. I wore it for 14 years, before it was worn to hell (almost daily when not at work) and had to find another!
04/10/2011
Yes I love collars.
04/13/2011
I wear one when we are playing, but not all the time. I like wearing it though.
04/13/2011
Yes, yes! I wear a collar 24/7--it is red and silver braided chain kind of, and is padlocked around my neck. I absolutely love it. My collar reminds me that I am owned and loved, and the padlock reminds me that Master wants very much to keep it that way as well. *Purr* And I also have a play collar for more bondage-y situations, and a dress-up collar with a red bell and sparklies and tied in the back with a big red bow! It makes me feel very kitten and matches my kitty ears and paws, all a gift from a close friend. <3
04/28/2011
No I don't wear one.
04/28/2011
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I wear a collar all the time just as a personal preference. I am BDSM kinky for sure, but adjust to vanilla kinky if I am with a guy who isn't into all the BDSM aspects.
Originally posted by
kawigrl
physically or metaphorically, there seem to be a few kinky people around here (bdsm "kinky" vs vanilla kinky)
04/29/2011
I don't
04/29/2011
We finally found one that is thin and light enough for me to wear! I have a problem with my Vagus nerve and I get sweaty, anxious and start to faint if much pressure is put on my neck or the nerves around it.
We found a lovely little thin leather collar, sold as a wrapped bracelet. Bitty little metal studs on it. It buckles in back. Cute as can be, but I don't wear it all the time. It doesn't have a D or O ring on it, just a buckle. We have me wear it when it feels right.
We found a lovely little thin leather collar, sold as a wrapped bracelet. Bitty little metal studs on it. It buckles in back. Cute as can be, but I don't wear it all the time. It doesn't have a D or O ring on it, just a buckle. We have me wear it when it feels right.
04/29/2011
I do not. We are under the agreement that I am his. But we have talked about getting one and I don't know if he wants to get different ones for play and non-play time. I guess we will have to talk about it again.
05/02/2011
I wear one Though I wear mine more in private and to some public places, but I'm not comfortable wearing it out all the time just yet.
05/02/2011
nope
10/07/2012
No, no interest
10/10/2012
I have one. It came in a set with my wrist and ankle cuffs. My dom and I feel taht collaring is a really really deep commitment. I am not sure it fit our dynamic either. So no, I don't wear a collar. I probably won't unless it is for a scene.
Also, I am of the opinion that the dom expresses interest in collaring, and he is of the opinion that the sub expresses interest of being collared. It seems that we will always be at an impasse.
Also, I am of the opinion that the dom expresses interest in collaring, and he is of the opinion that the sub expresses interest of being collared. It seems that we will always be at an impasse.
10/11/2012
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