Does anyone in yr vanilla life know?

gwenevieve gwenevieve
Well, do they?
05/17/2013
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BloodHound BloodHound
Quote:
Originally posted by gwenevieve
Well, do they?
I have a few very close friends that do know about my kinky side. I don't go into details with them but they do know that I go to play parties and such. They have a mild curiosity but that's as far as it goes. They are still very good friends though and weren't all that surprised when I told them I was kinky.
05/18/2013
marmouse marmouse
Ahhh just about everyone. My poor neighbours probably can't avoid knowing.
05/18/2013
dancingduo dancingduo
my spouse and that is it. I don't find it to be anyone else's business.
05/18/2013
lilswitch lilswitch
I just finished my freshman year of college. I've made friends that will probably last a lifetime. They're extremely open-minded and only judging in the sense that they're worried about my safety. I told my new best friend first and she made no big deal out of it. With each person, it became easier and easier to tell the next. If I counted correctly, 7 of my friends know. I've only had one negative response so far. I'm planning on telling 2 of my friends from high school this week so they can be my safe call. I'm not exactly sure how they'll take it at first but I'm confident that they'll be supportive in the end.
05/26/2013
gwenevieve gwenevieve
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Originally posted by lilswitch
I just finished my freshman year of college. I've made friends that will probably last a lifetime. They're extremely open-minded and only judging in the sense that they're worried about my safety. I told my new best friend first and she ... More
that's a shame that youve had such negative reactions. i personally havent told anyone i know irl, but a lot of my internet friends know. a lot of people take it horribly and turn their thought to think we are horrible people for some reason? its pretty insane.
05/26/2013
lilswitch lilswitch
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Originally posted by gwenevieve
that's a shame that youve had such negative reactions. i personally havent told anyone i know irl, but a lot of my internet friends know. a lot of people take it horribly and turn their thought to think we are horrible people for some reason? its ... More
The one negative reaction wasn't that bad. He's a family friend that I've known since I was about 5. He doesn't think I'm a horrible person, just weird I guess. The good have definitely outweighed the bad though. It's sort of freeing to be able to talk openly to my real life friends about it since I don't have that many online friends and none of them I'm close to besides my Dom.
05/27/2013
emilymileena emilymileena
My brother and cousin both know. I decided to tell them because if for some reason something happened during play, and I had to go to the hospital (which I seriously don't think would happen, but I'm cautious anyways. Both of them didn't get it until I really sat down and explained it to them. I don't know that I'd ever be able to call my partner "Master" in their presence, but they know who he is and how he treats me in private. They had no issue so long as I was consenting to it.
06/09/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
I have a few people, but they don't know too many details
06/09/2013
SydneyScreams SydneyScreams
Except for my coworkers, most everyone in my life knows
06/10/2013
SickOnSin SickOnSin
Quote:
Originally posted by gwenevieve
Well, do they?
Yes. Then again I play video games with a lot of my friends and I have a character named His Toy.
06/12/2013
FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
My close friends know. Some of my girlfriend's friends know, too. She's less shy about it than I am. (Although I'm not exactly shy. I've worn collars in public before. Some people might take the hint.)
06/26/2013
FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
Then again, some might mistake the collar as a fashion statement, haha.
06/26/2013
Eugler Eugler
Some of my good friends should know because I put a nude barbie doll in Kinbaku and hung it above my LP-Player (that's a device similar to an MP3-Player, but much huger).

My sister also had the Idea to put a little fluffy toy into kinbaku and asked how to do it. Maybe kink runs in the family.

But anyway I seem to have some kinky vibrations. So many people where guessing and joking that I surely would be into BDSM. Don't know why.
06/27/2013
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