Dom or Sub which is more difficult for those that switch?

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If you switch, do you find it harder to be Dom or Sub? Why?
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emilymileena emilymileena
It depends on how you define "harder." I'm a switch by technicality. I sub 24/7 for my dom, but occasionally I top other people to get it out of my system. Because I spend more time in subby mindset, it's more natural for me to get into that head space, and the other half sits patiently and waits.

But when I get opportunities to let my domme out, in a short amount of time I can get there too. it just takes a tad more focus, and I have to adjust some things in my brain. Like remembering they're putting trust in me vs trusting my dom not to screw up.
Mar 24, 12:32 pm
PadoruLover PadoruLover
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Originally posted by emilymileena
It depends on how you define "harder." I'm a switch by technicality. I sub 24/7 for my dom, but occasionally I top other people to get it out of my system. Because I spend more time in subby mindset, it's more natural for me to get ... More
I am the same way. I love to sub with my bf but we both are switches ao though he likes to dom every once in awhile we just (for lack of a better word) switch it up.
Mar 24, 9:03 pm
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