Forced Orgasm play

LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Who else engages in this type of play? We like to use my Fairy wand for this sweet torture Love it!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I've done it, and I love it!
91  (24%)
I've done it, and it was alright
17  (5%)
I've done it, I didn't like it
8  (2%)
I have not done it, and I would not like to
37  (10%)
I have not done it, but I would like to
221  (59%)
Total votes: 374
Poll is closed
12/16/2010
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Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I love it, but I'm not always up for it.
12/16/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
I've fantasized about it, but I like to be in control and force myself to have them
12/16/2010
the bedroom blogger the bedroom blogger
I've fantasized...always wanted to, haven't yet.
12/16/2010
Shumway Shumway
What exactly is "Forced Orgasm Play"? (don't laugh! )
12/16/2010
Liz2 Liz2
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
What exactly is "Forced Orgasm Play"? (don't laugh! )
Short answer is bring your partner to orgasm while she is restrained, usually by use of a strong vibe. The Hitachi works well for this.
12/16/2010
PussyGalore PussyGalore
For me, it's exhausting and just pisses me off.
12/16/2010
namelesschaos namelesschaos
I've never done it to a partner nor has a partner done it to me. The closest is solo play where I tying a strong vibe in place and seeing how long I could last before I'm orgasm-ed out or the vibe sakes out of place.
12/16/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My vote was haven't done it but would like to, however, my never doesn't want to have an orgasm so I'm imagining a scenario that involves bondage and we haven't gone down that road - so I don't think it's going to be happening any time soon.
12/16/2010
Shumway Shumway
oooh, I like the sound of that... Thanks for the rundown. Have to see about trying this out.. although we don't have anything as strong as the Hitachi... yet
12/16/2010
KnK KnK
I'm actually divided...I'm open to the possibility, but I'm not so sure if I'm 100% crazy about it.
12/16/2010
Not here Not here
I've done and love it. We don't have any vibes as strong as the Hitachi yet so I would like to see how it is with a really powerful vibrator. It's certainly not something I like to do all the time, but it is fun. Plus, my man loves watching me squirm!
12/16/2010
LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
Honestly, this form of play has always been a mystery to me. Nobody has ever been able to "force" me to orgasm or have one when I'd rather not. If I am not psychologically and physically ready, it's just not happening. Same with coming on command... it eludes me.
12/16/2010
gone77 gone77
I would definitely give this a try!
12/16/2010
Victoria Victoria
Sounds fun to me - we've just never done it. Don't know why.
12/16/2010
RubenesqueAna RubenesqueAna
Quote:
Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Honestly, this form of play has always been a mystery to me. Nobody has ever been able to "force" me to orgasm or have one when I'd rather not. If I am not psychologically and physically ready, it's just not happening. Same with ... More
For me, the coming on command thing is completely psychological. I can NOT come if I'm not turned on enough, but when someone tells me I HAVE to come... the pressure and dominance turn me so on that it becomes super easy for me to come within 20 seconds, easily.
12/16/2010
DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I've done it.

It's exhausting!
12/16/2010
Shumway Shumway
I don't think it would take very long for Andie to have a orgasm this way since she gets really turned on by being tied down
12/16/2010
the bedroom blogger the bedroom blogger
Quote:
Originally posted by RubenesqueAna
For me, the coming on command thing is completely psychological. I can NOT come if I'm not turned on enough, but when someone tells me I HAVE to come... the pressure and dominance turn me so on that it becomes super easy for me to come within 20 ... More
Ditto...but it has only been that way since I have been with the boyfriend.
12/16/2010
nyc cpl nyc cpl
Quote:
Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Honestly, this form of play has always been a mystery to me. Nobody has ever been able to "force" me to orgasm or have one when I'd rather not. If I am not psychologically and physically ready, it's just not happening. Same with ... More
I think this is the one that goes under BDSM settings and both play their rols.
12/18/2010
Nicky Nicky
I've never really thought about doing this, but this thread has definitely intrigued me!
12/18/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
My partner pretty much HAS to do this to me during oral otherwise I squirm away. i can't help it!
12/19/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My vote was haven't done it but would like to, however, my never doesn't want to have an orgasm so I'm imagining a scenario that involves bondage and we haven't gone down that road - so I don't think it's going to be happening any time soon.
You can actually do it without actual bondage.

My Man does this thing where he doesn't let me move away, or change positions, then he just keeps going. If it gets hot, I'll start "fighting" him (not really, it's just play) and he just keeps going.

You can do it with something like the Hitachi or the Wahl, that's traditional forced orgasm. But, you can also do it with oral or medium strength toys or however she comes. It's the psychological end of it, as well as the physical.

Also, we do forced prolonged orgasm play. Where he simply won't stop once I start to come.

Oh------My-------God!

It's fucking amazing. Exhausting for both of us, but amazing.
12/20/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Honestly, this form of play has always been a mystery to me. Nobody has ever been able to "force" me to orgasm or have one when I'd rather not. If I am not psychologically and physically ready, it's just not happening. Same with ... More
It really doesn't have anything to do with "not wanting" to have an orgasm. It's a D/S mind game, as well as a physical game.

Whenever we do this I want to orgasm, very badly.

I usually can't come on "command" but sometimes he'll tell me "It's OK to come." but that's usually if I am having a hard time.

It's more a psychological thing. So is prolonged forced play. Of course, if he's bigger and stronger, it certainly helps.

I've actually done it to him a few times. He thinks he's not going to be able to, and I'm just a persistent little brat and won't quit. Often, he'll end up coming, anyway. But, I don't ever, EVER tie him down or restrain him. That's not part of our dynamic.
12/20/2010
Liz2 Liz2
I usually am in charge of positions but I do "sometimes" enjoy being restrained. I do struggle during BDSM, which makes it very difficult for my partner to use a toy or a vibe to hit the right spot; thus some discomfort until I recently acquired the Hitachi. OMG!! Precision placement is not necessary and I give in almost instantly!
The marks on my wrists and ankles from my cuffs attests to the force of my struggle......yea, I love it!
12/20/2010
sbon sbon
I haven't done it but I would be interested in trying it.
12/21/2010
RosesThorns RosesThorns
I have done it and LOVE it, but Im not always up for it... I'd like to again though!
12/27/2010
Sir Sir
One of the best parts of sex. I do this practically every time that I'm having sex, honestly - no finishing without my command of it. I love it.
12/27/2010
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
My husband has been experimenting with this a lot lately. He has figured a way to not let my orgasm decrescendo, in which if he let's it go on too long, I squirt like a fire hose. Once HE achieves that, then he will decide if I am finished or not. hehe I like it that way! I have always been too indecisive for my liking.
12/30/2010
ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I've never done this, but I've always thought it would be awesome to try. My boyfriend and I are just starting to really experiment with this kind of thing, so hopefully we'll try it soon.
12/30/2010
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