I voted "eh, we are working on it."
I'm a switch, in that I can be very aggressive or crave lots of aggression in the bedroom. My partner, however, is really into the slow snuggly "making love" style of things. That can be nice, but I only like it 30% of the time or less. It can be very hard to motivate him to be dominant AND to get him to enjoy being submissive.