Found your perfect partner?

Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
Whether you are a Dom, sub, or a switch... have you found your perfect partner?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm a male and...
21
I'm a female and...
69
hell yes! I couldn't be happier!
54
I'm still looking. :/
13
Well, I'm in a relationship and I'm trying to muster up the courage to discuss my preferences.
5
Eh, we are working on it.
25
Other, pls explain :)
5
Total votes: 192 (103 voters)
Poll is closed
01/05/2012
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Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
married
01/05/2012
Contributor: jedent jedent
yes, and it is amazing.
01/05/2012
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I didn't bother with "male or female" since I'm both. Yes, I've found my perfect partner. He and I are exceptionally well matched.
01/05/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I've found my perfect partner, our sex life isn't quite where I'd like it to be, but he's always willing to do whatever I ask.
01/05/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I have a great sub and a beau. So... it's odd. I like both my men, but in very different ways, and I have no idea if I'll end up with either of them at this point. But my sub did help me realize that I'm a dom.
01/05/2012
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Still looking
01/06/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Yes I have. My Master and I mesh well together with our kinks.
01/06/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
We seem to be, but more field experience is necessary before a conclusion can be inferred (ie: like being in the same damn country for more than a few days at a time). Although he implied he was looking forward to giving me a collar when I do get to visit him.
01/06/2012
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
I voted "eh, we are working on it."

I'm a switch, in that I can be very aggressive or crave lots of aggression in the bedroom. My partner, however, is really into the slow snuggly "making love" style of things. That can be nice, but I only like it 30% of the time or less. It can be very hard to motivate him to be dominant AND to get him to enjoy being submissive.
01/06/2012
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
The first time that my girlfriend and I were intimate we fell into our roles. Neither of us had any experience in BDSM, but the moment we began touching each other we knew what we wanted. I consider myself very fortunate.
01/06/2012
Contributor: MonsterMel MonsterMel
My man's amazing and we have an amazing sex life.
01/06/2012
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
yes and i love it
01/06/2012
Contributor: LoveTies LoveTies
Quote:
Originally posted by mariedoll
Whether you are a Dom, sub, or a switch... have you found your perfect partner?
Married and our sex is amazing! I have girl fetishes also but not strong enough to make me unhappy with what we have.
01/06/2012
Contributor: LoveTies LoveTies
Quote:
Originally posted by shcoo
I voted "eh, we are working on it."

I'm a switch, in that I can be very aggressive or crave lots of aggression in the bedroom. My partner, however, is really into the slow snuggly "making love" style of things. That can ... more
We are the same way! That's how we were when we first started out, but slowly I began exploring more things with him and now he's much more open with being aggressive! Just start off slow with him with some smaller things, and then lead up to it. Mine felt weird with any type of aggression towards me but starting slow and leading up to bigger things he is now comfortable with it and knows it makes me happy and pleases me so he's ok with it now- thank god!
01/06/2012
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by mariedoll
Whether you are a Dom, sub, or a switch... have you found your perfect partner?
My partner is FANTASTIC!! We compliment each other well as switches. But we want a third and we are still looking for her
01/06/2012
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
Most of the time, hubby's dom and I'm sub. It's sort of a play pet thing, nothing too serious, but it's fun.
01/06/2012
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
For sure!
01/06/2012
Contributor: FleurDevereux FleurDevereux
getting married to him
01/07/2012
Contributor: 131231e43 131231e43
I hope so. I really do.
01/08/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
married and happy
01/08/2012
Contributor: EnterTheFist EnterTheFist
I have found my perfect partner and I couldn't be happier. We're open with each other and I don't have to worry about scaring her off. I waited a really long time for love to come along, but it was soooo worth the wait! (^_^)
01/09/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
At the moment, I'm not sure.
01/11/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
My partner and I are just now exploring some very light bdsm, we're working on it!
01/17/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by mariedoll
Whether you are a Dom, sub, or a switch... have you found your perfect partner?
Couldn't be happier
01/28/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Happy girl here.
01/29/2012
Contributor: LittleBird LittleBird
Single!!!!
01/30/2012
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by mariedoll
Whether you are a Dom, sub, or a switch... have you found your perfect partner?
I've found the perfect partner in my Master. We are very happy together.
01/30/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
I have found my perfect partner, and owner. He's my home. He actually feels like home, I love it.
02/05/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
We match pretty perfectly in our sex life.
02/05/2012