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ANyone have any suggestions on books/etc or good places for a couple to get started in BDSM? Any help is appreciated! =)
Jan 16, 7:34 pm
Sir Sir
Well, what sort of start are you wanting to get? Are you interested in adding some restraint into your sex life, or a few lighter bdsm elements to play? Or are you wanting to get into the lifestyle full-time?
Jan 16, 9:09 pm
Dusk Dusk
SM 101 by Jay Wiseman (couldn't find it on EF unfortunately) is a great book if you're looking for an overview with a lot of information in it.
Jan 16, 9:19 pm
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Originally posted by Sir
Well, what sort of start are you wanting to get? Are you interested in adding some restraint into your sex life, or a few lighter bdsm elements to play? Or are you wanting to get into the lifestyle full-time?
Restraints, definitely. We are interested in more that just the lighter elements, with the possibility of it becoming full-time.
Jan 17, 5:27 pm
cheapkicks cheapkicks
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Originally posted by Dusk
SM 101 by Jay Wiseman (couldn't find it on EF unfortunately) is a great book if you're looking for an overview with a lot of information in it.
Thanks a lot for the suggestion! Will definitely look into it! =D
Jan 17, 5:27 pm
KaylaJJ KaylaJJ
The New Topping Book/The New Bottoming Book are both really good.
I started off with handcuffs and just expanded from there.
Jan 17, 6:21 pm
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Originally posted by KaylaJJ
The New Topping Book/The New Bottoming Book are both really good.
I started off with handcuffs and just expanded from there.
Thanks! All of these books are going into my wish list (here or Amazon) teeheehee... Now I just wait for my next paycheck.
Jan 17, 6:27 pm
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