Hard limits

biancajames biancajames
What are your hard limits? Do you have any unusual ones? Have your limits changed over the years?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
medical play
63
knives
102
bloodplay
115
animals
186
underage partners
196
breathplay
70
playing intoxicated
61
scat
201
pissplay
141
no limits!
2
other
68
Total votes: 1205 (235 voters)
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12/11/2011
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Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Knives, blood play, animals, underage partners,scat and urine play are my hard stops on your list....and pretty much all of them in general. My boundaries haven't changed much over the years.
12/11/2011
Avant-garde Avant-garde
Most on the list for me.
12/11/2011
TheCleansing TheCleansing
Ehhhhh most of the ones on your list I won't do.
12/11/2011
Missmarc Missmarc
Hehe, I won't do most that are on your list.
12/12/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
I don't know what scat means. I don't mind playing intoxicated and while I'm not into pissplay, if someone wanted me to piss on them I prob would. lol. The rest of the list... eh no.
12/12/2011
Masokisti Masokisti
Knives are a big no-no for us.... not that I don't trust her... but we'd both probably end up dead...
12/12/2011
biancajames biancajames
I was curious if people's limits have changed because for me personally there are things I enjoy now (such as play piercing) that I might not have been into 10 years ago. I am lucky to have skilled people I trust to poke me, for sure.
12/12/2011
shcoo shcoo
Won't do scat or anything with animals.

Everything else on there, I've done or am quite interested in.
12/12/2011
HannahPanda HannahPanda
Nothing beastilaity related or scat related.
12/12/2011
idunshire idunshire
Medical (*shudder* I hate needles), knives/bloodplay (blood :X), animals, underaged partners and toilet play.
12/12/2011
tA tA
Medical - but only the 'needles' part of it. I can't stand them, I'm actually phobic. I also can't have my arms tied behind my back, or have anything touch about an inch below my armpits on my arms because of weird bodypart-specific claustrophobia.
12/12/2011
(Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
I'm SEVERELY needle phobic, to the point where I go into shock and it's a huge-ass issue every time I need to get a shot or a blood draw. 90% of the time I chicken out.

HOWEVER I find it super erotic and I have had lots of body mods that involved needles, including tattoos, piercings, and a microdermal implanted in my neck that was DEFINITELY a prolonged needle-y process. I was super turned on by it.

Medical play excites me but only in fantasy; haven't had the opportunity to do it in real life yet. Love the roleplay of the escapee mental patient doing struggle/takedown/ravi shment of the nurse. Really good porn of that on Sex and Submission's website kinda recently.

Knife play was a HUGE no-way for me for the longest time, I started to enjoy it again, and now it's a soft limit I guess. I had a really awful experience with it a couple months ago and have scars on my ass and it wasn't consensual. So I'm unsure on it.

Blood play interested me when I was about 15 but my family found out (I forget how, that time was a blur of crazy) and I felt ashamed so made it a hard limit. Now I'm totally all about the blood play. I self-injured for years but now I can really enjoy blood play sexually. I am mostly masochistic/submissive with men and vice versa with women. Aside from blood play--I am a total sadist with anyone. Fluid-bonded partners I've had....well, I get pretty bloodthirsty and it overwhelms me. I really enjoyed a dominant partner cutting himself for me to play with and partake of his blood.

Breath play was scary for me to perform until I learned how to do it. It was scary for me as the receptive partner until I met guys who knew what they were doing. I am still leery about it and engage it in verrrry carefully.

Intoxicated play, yeah, risk-aware kink and all that. I know it's not the brightest but I have done it often and will probably continue to do so.

Piss play is a soft limit. I can be convinced, maybe.

Scat, animals, children are all completely off limits for me.
12/20/2011
Siekarr Siekarr
Underage partners, scat, piss play, animals would be my hard limit,I would not touch any of them. Slave is interested in blood play, but I haven't felt comfy enough to cut her yet, someday, when she is least expecting it, I will
12/21/2011
Megan Jean Megan Jean
Most on your list, except for pissplay and medical play.
12/22/2011
Silverdrop Silverdrop
All of those, plus tickling. It is Not Allowed. Medical play I can't do. It's anti-sexy for me.

I wouldn't mind a little play with golden showers, but drinking is definitely off the table. I'd do it before I'd let him tickle me though. I have no idea why tickling is such a hard limit.
12/22/2011
Willow Wand Willow Wand
Quote:
Originally posted by Siekarr
Underage partners, scat, piss play, animals would be my hard limit,I would not touch any of them. Slave is interested in blood play, but I haven't felt comfy enough to cut her yet, someday, when she is least expecting it, I will
As he said, and boy do I hope you cut me someday, I look forward to that!
12/22/2011
Pixel Pixel
My limits are: kids, animals, corpses, shit, vomit, and permanent marks. Apart from that, I'm pretty open to new experiences.
12/23/2011
Antipova Antipova
My hard limits are Pixel's, actually, with two additions---I won't lie to people, and I don't want anything to enter my urethra backward. (No sounding/catheters.)
12/23/2011
solita solita
In addition to ones mentioned on your list (animals, underage partners, scat), vomit, flesh hooks, and electroplay are hard limits for me. I *hate* the feeling of electricity, and skin should NOT stretch the way it does with hooks. *shudders*

@Pixel: I never even thought to include corpses as a hard limit. >.< Ew! No necrophilia for me please.
12/23/2011
Entropy Entropy
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
What are your hard limits? Do you have any unusual ones? Have your limits changed over the years?
No kids, no critters, and never will. Everything else on the list I've tried and liked.
12/25/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
No animals, children, scat, watersports, drugs/alcohol, no hot wax, no asphyxiation, no gags, no head coverings, no bondage bags, no mummification, no age play, no Daddy/Mommy play, no Incest play, no use of fire, no burns, no cigarettes, no Saline Injection, no Enemas, no Weighted clamps, no Catheters, no sounding, no rimming, and no foot play.
12/25/2011
Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by solita
In addition to ones mentioned on your list (animals, underage partners, scat), vomit, flesh hooks, and electroplay are hard limits for me. I *hate* the feeling of electricity, and skin should NOT stretch the way it does with hooks. ... More
Necrophilia: for those days you just really want to crack open a cold one...

*ducks* I'm sorry! The joke had to be made!
12/26/2011
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
No animals or children, no forms of excrement, no blood, and never me being raped/ravished.

Unless having cats that will not stay out of the bed counts One of my cats likes to lie on my pillow, watch us, and purr. I have voyeur cats.
12/28/2011
Antipova Antipova
Quote:
Originally posted by hyacinthgirl
No animals or children, no forms of excrement, no blood, and never me being raped/ravished.

Unless having cats that will not stay out of the bed counts One of my cats likes to lie on my pillow, watch us, and purr. I have voyeur cats.
Ha! My cat will bury her head, but not leave! A hypocritical voyeur!
12/28/2011
sexydelphia sexydelphia
i wouldn't do most of the things on your list
12/28/2011
GONE! GONE!
I would not do most of those things, nope.
01/09/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I don't do anything on your list.
01/09/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
What are your hard limits? Do you have any unusual ones? Have your limits changed over the years?
None of that stuff interests me or sounds like a turn on. I guess we're pretty vanilla.
01/09/2012
dhig dhig
not quite 'no limits', but i only have a few up there
01/09/2012
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