Has a partner ever ended the relationship after you shared your kinks?

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Has a partner ever ended the relationship after you shared your kinks?

Zandrock Zandrock
Have you ever had a situation where you sharing your kinkier side directly led to the relationship ending. If so what happened?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
1  (4%)
No
21  (78%)
Never Been in that situation
5  (19%)
Total votes: 27
Poll is closed
09/02/2012
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bayosgirl bayosgirl
I voted "no" but should've said "never been in that situation." I'm not that kinky, really.
09/02/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Have you ever had a situation where you sharing your kinkier side directly led to the relationship ending. If so what happened?
My partners have their own kinks and we simply accept these quirks as part of our charm.
09/02/2012
itismedi itismedi
Nope, he is possibly kinkier (is that a word) than I am!
09/02/2012
Lavendar Lavendar
No! My partner has accepted all my kinks open-mindedly
09/02/2012
Roz W Roz W
No, but I'm very wary of getting involved with (or even being friends with) people who don't seem open-minded.

I've had lots of conversations that aren't sexually explicit at all, but can give a lot of subtle hints re: how open-minded someone is. Are they weirded out by gay people, or by non-feminine women or non-masculine men? Do they put other people down a lot? No? Maybe we can be friends-or-more.
09/02/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
That hasn't happened to me.
09/02/2012
SavingMyself SavingMyself
Nope, I've always made sure that the person I'm in a relationship with enjoys the same kinks as me.
09/02/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
No this has not happened to me.
09/02/2012
Pixel Pixel
I date exclusively in the kink world, so this is not an issue.
09/03/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I've never really been in that situation. I didn't open up to my ex about things and my husband and I are easing into stuff.
09/03/2012
brevado brevado
I've always picked the right person, sexually.
09/03/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Have you ever had a situation where you sharing your kinkier side directly led to the relationship ending. If so what happened?
No, thank goodness.
09/04/2012
apetnamedjenny apetnamedjenny
No, actually quite the opposite! Sharing my kinks lead her to do the same, and made an even better relationship for it!
09/05/2012
Roz W Roz W
Quote:
Originally posted by apetnamedjenny
No, actually quite the opposite! Sharing my kinks lead her to do the same, and made an even better relationship for it!
Oh, yeah. I should also say, if I'm into somebody, I want to hear what they're into, very very much. (Mostly what they're into having done to *them,* though.)
09/07/2012
Total posts: 15
Unique posters: 14