Has a partner ever ended the relationship after you shared your kinks?

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Has a partner ever ended the relationship after you shared your kinks?

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Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Have you ever had a situation where you sharing your kinkier side directly led to the relationship ending. If so what happened?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
1  (4%)
No
21  (78%)
Never Been in that situation
5  (19%)
Total votes: 27
Poll is closed
09/02/2012
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Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I voted "no" but should've said "never been in that situation." I'm not that kinky, really.
09/02/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Have you ever had a situation where you sharing your kinkier side directly led to the relationship ending. If so what happened?
My partners have their own kinks and we simply accept these quirks as part of our charm.
09/02/2012
Contributor: itismedi itismedi
Nope, he is possibly kinkier (is that a word) than I am!
09/02/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
No! My partner has accepted all my kinks open-mindedly
09/02/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
No, but I'm very wary of getting involved with (or even being friends with) people who don't seem open-minded.

I've had lots of conversations that aren't sexually explicit at all, but can give a lot of subtle hints re: how open-minded someone is. Are they weirded out by gay people, or by non-feminine women or non-masculine men? Do they put other people down a lot? No? Maybe we can be friends-or-more.
09/02/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
That hasn't happened to me.
09/02/2012
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
Nope, I've always made sure that the person I'm in a relationship with enjoys the same kinks as me.
09/02/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
No this has not happened to me.
09/02/2012
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I date exclusively in the kink world, so this is not an issue.
09/03/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I've never really been in that situation. I didn't open up to my ex about things and my husband and I are easing into stuff.
09/03/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
I've always picked the right person, sexually.
09/03/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Have you ever had a situation where you sharing your kinkier side directly led to the relationship ending. If so what happened?
No, thank goodness.
09/04/2012
Contributor: apetnamedjenny apetnamedjenny
No, actually quite the opposite! Sharing my kinks lead her to do the same, and made an even better relationship for it!
09/05/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
Quote:
Originally posted by apetnamedjenny
No, actually quite the opposite! Sharing my kinks lead her to do the same, and made an even better relationship for it!
Oh, yeah. I should also say, if I'm into somebody, I want to hear what they're into, very very much. (Mostly what they're into having done to *them,* though.)
09/07/2012