Has your partner ever left you tied up just to mess with you?

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Has your partner ever left you tied up just to mess with you?

spineyogurt spineyogurt
Are you ok with this?
06/06/2012
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Jewlickah Jewlickah
Never happened, but I'd mentally punch her if she did, depending on how long I was left tied up.
06/07/2012
Beck Beck
Never happened to me, but if you buy the right stuff, you'll be able to get out of them yourself.
06/07/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
My husband would never do this.

I have a best friend that I used to play show and tell with where about once a month or a little longer we'd get together and I'd show him all my new items from here and tell him what I liked, didn't like, why etc. One instance I had some new bondage items. I think in this instance it was either the beginners bondage kit or the lovers prisoner kit and he made the comment that he ought to tie me up to the chair and leave me so I'd be there when he got home from work. (we only meet during lunch breaks)Of course he was half-playing with me because he knew I had to get home and pick up the kid from pre-school.
06/07/2012
ScarletFox ScarletFox
This is something we have actually talked about doing safely as part of a scene. He of course wouldn't actually be far like leave the house but its the mental thought of being tied up alone that I know I would be left with.
06/07/2012
Pixel Pixel
No. Leaving a bound person alone is potentially dangerous and just stupid, and I do not play with stupid people or ones that would risk actually harming me.
06/11/2012
nosrslylol nosrslylol
Does "just to mess with you" mean they're being an asshole? I probably wouldn't dig that. Being an asshole isn't really cool.
06/11/2012
Taylor Taylor
No, I feel like that's really unsafe. Anyone who did that to me would not be my partner anymore. Someone could struggle to get out and really hurt themselves.
06/11/2012
Lizard Lizard
No.
06/11/2012
Mitzuki Mitzuki
After one session, my partner left me tied up to the bed for about 20 minutes. He was only in the next room, and I didn't feel like I was in danger at all. (We talk about everything prior)

And the only reason I was there for 20 minutes was because it took me a while to get out of the ropes myself.
06/12/2012
Aurora Borealis Aurora Borealis
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Are you ok with this?
nope, never
06/16/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
No way. I wouldn't feel comfortable with it.
06/16/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
Never happened to me, but I know some people who it has happened to. A few liked it, but most didn't. It depends on how long I guess.
06/16/2012
Sir Sir
Definitely not; I would not be getting tied up anyway, but regardless, I would not do this to someone else unless I was in EXTREMELY close proximity (like in the next room). Too many things have gone wrong with others due to stupid choices such as that.
06/16/2012
xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
No. I'd be pissed off. Lol.
06/16/2012
Envoutes Envoutes
I've joked about doing this with my pet, but I'm not sure if I'd actually do it.
06/18/2012
Chami Chami
i would kick his ass if he left me tied up
06/18/2012
Defiledpixxy Defiledpixxy
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Are you ok with this?
No. It is potentially dangerous for a multitude of reasons and extremely idiotic. I would never play with anyone who thought this was even the slightest bit acceptable.
06/19/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
No, he's never done that. We have hard limits and he knows not to do anything that would frighten me. He's gotten up to go to the bathroom, but I know where he is the entire time and the bathroom is connected to our bedroom and I don't use gags, so I can yell if I need anything.
06/19/2012
Phantom2291 Phantom2291
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
Are you ok with this?
I'm planning on doing it to my sub, only for a few minutes at first, but then maybe an hour or so. Tied down to the bed so if she falls asleep it wouldn't be a problem.
08/05/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
That is super unsafe for any long period of time. I have pretended to do things. Like leave, or take her out in public, but never actually have. You can run into trouble if you cannot move on your own. So I would threaten to do it, but never actually would.
08/06/2012
JennSenn JennSenn
I would not be okay with that.
08/06/2012
Undecided Undecided
I have never been tied up but I am sure I would find away out of it
08/06/2012
Feisty Feisty
no, and he would never leave me
08/06/2012
novanilla novanilla
That's not cool, and that's not bdsm. bdsm is about respect and consent. Even as a joke that is really not okay. If you're going to leave, you need to let the person know where you are going and for how long, and make sure they are comfortable, like they don't have a gag in, that sort of thing.

The only way I could see this as funny is if a person I had been with on multiple occasions doing bdsm stuff and I knew I trusted them smiled and said "Well I'm gonna head out now," and pretended for <5 seconds they were leaving.
08/06/2012
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Unique posters: 25