Have you ever done any restraints/BDSM while in public?

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Have you ever done any restraints/BDSM while in public?

Anteaterz Anteaterz
I want to try it but I'm not sure how obvious of a kink it would be. By restraint, I mean like collars, wrist cuffs, an ankle cuff, or just a mark of ownership.
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I've done it an loved it!
TitsMcScandal , ScarletFox , CreamySweet , kittenfacery , klyte , Greenleaf , VelvetDragon , xilliannax , KyotoAngel , starryeyedangel , TheSinDoll , Faeya , blackadeezee , woodsdragon , thisisadeletedaccount , Peggi , MK434 , Poophammer , Gettinmymojoback , Sir , SubmissiveFeminist , subbieforHer , violets
23  (34%)
I've done it and it didn't work out well.
I haven't done anything like that.
Sammi , Nazaress , finnimbrun , Ghost , BobbiJay , Loriandhubby , LavenderSkies , gsfanatic , Azule , hall5885 , Nikolis , MissCandyland , Iron Man , ViVix , digit88 , sktb0007 , Chami , zeezee , Falsepast , Boyqueen , dks210 , pirata , Beck , travelnurse , Bowen , Brenden , L&P3040 , FHeemz , ghalik , Katelyn , JennSenn , giftdgecko , pokefan15 , Strider , vanillaSpice , higs , rihanne , SecretKinksters , karenm , Freyja9
40  (59%)
Other (Explain?)
Defiledpixxy , Taylor , little miss kinky , Hallmar82 , His scarlett
5  (7%)
Total votes: 68
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03/02/2012
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TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I was in a 24/7 M/s relationship and wore a collar all the time. My first one was leather and very obvious. My second one I got (metal locking but less obvious) because my job was more public.
03/03/2012
ScarletFox ScarletFox
I was also in a 24/7 D/s relationship and I would wear my collar regularly outside depending on where I was going. The only time I wouldn't wear it was at work. Kinko's tended to frown upon that kind of thing, dispite the name of the company.
03/03/2012
BobbiJay BobbiJay
Quote:
Originally posted by ScarletFox
I was also in a 24/7 D/s relationship and I would wear my collar regularly outside depending on where I was going. The only time I wouldn't wear it was at work. Kinko's tended to frown upon that kind of thing, dispite the name of the company.
Oh my gosh your comment made me laugh so hard.
03/03/2012
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Anteaterz
I want to try it but I'm not sure how obvious of a kink it would be. By restraint, I mean like collars, wrist cuffs, an ankle cuff, or just a mark of ownership.
I have tied my husband down naked in my excursion a couple times now. Then I take him for a ride before I "take him for a ride "
03/03/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Anteaterz
I want to try it but I'm not sure how obvious of a kink it would be. By restraint, I mean like collars, wrist cuffs, an ankle cuff, or just a mark of ownership.
No, definitely not
03/04/2012
kittenfacery kittenfacery
Mmmh. i love wearing my collar in public, but especially love it when i see /others/ wearing theirs. It's so mesmerisingly beautiful, and the people i've seen so far have but shy and gently smiling.
So pretty.
05/07/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
It's something I've always wanted my sub to try, but we haven't had a chance yet.
05/07/2012
Azule Azule
I haven't really but I don't see the problem with it I guess.
05/07/2012
klyte klyte
Looove itt.
05/07/2012
Greenleaf Greenleaf
I've worn a collar in public a few times before. It didn't really garner much attention (not surprising considering I only wear it to concerts etc.)
05/07/2012
xilliannax xilliannax
Quote:
Originally posted by Anteaterz
I want to try it but I'm not sure how obvious of a kink it would be. By restraint, I mean like collars, wrist cuffs, an ankle cuff, or just a mark of ownership.
Yes, I have many restraints that look "normal" when paired with normal clothes and it didnt bother me, but I once lost a bet and had to wear some to a family event. My mom told me how she loved my necklace (my studded collar) and if I find another one like it I should get it for her because it'd go awesome with this dress she has >.< I wanted to die, my husband laughs his ass off about it to this day (and got her one for christmas minus the packaging)
05/09/2012
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
I'm not in a D/s relationship where I'm the bottom right now but sometimes I do wear a discreet(ish) collar around in public.
I tend to think that the vanilla crowd will likely consider it a fashion accessory, I was planning on just making a choker necklace or some earrings with the triskelion symbol to serve the same purpose though.
05/09/2012
starryeyedangel starryeyedangel
I've worn a collar in public as well as wrist cuffs
05/09/2012
cheesewizz cheesewizz
Quote:
Originally posted by Anteaterz
I want to try it but I'm not sure how obvious of a kink it would be. By restraint, I mean like collars, wrist cuffs, an ankle cuff, or just a mark of ownership.
i wear a dog collar all the time, nobody bugs me about it
i whipped my boyfriend in public (at a party) once and it was the hottest thing ever
05/10/2012
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I've played in public and worn restraints. I've also been in relationships where I've worn collars in public. Take into consideration that they weren't huge, outlandish things with spikes coming out of them, but they were collars.
05/11/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
Haven't done this.
05/11/2012
Faeya Faeya
I used to wear a studded leather collar 24/7. No one really batted an eyelash. Also, sometimes, when I'm bored, I wear rope gauntlets while we're out shopping or whatever because I was wearing them around the house and don't feel like taking them off
05/11/2012
Iron Man Iron Man
I haven't in a BDSM sense. I own collars in general, but I do think that if I ever did wear restraints nobody would notice. I'm weird. XD
05/11/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Anteaterz
I want to try it but I'm not sure how obvious of a kink it would be. By restraint, I mean like collars, wrist cuffs, an ankle cuff, or just a mark of ownership.
I haven't tried it, but I'm intrigued by the thought!
06/09/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by ScarletFox
I was also in a 24/7 D/s relationship and I would wear my collar regularly outside depending on where I was going. The only time I wouldn't wear it was at work. Kinko's tended to frown upon that kind of thing, dispite the name of the company.
ROFL!
06/09/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
Not myself, but my partners have. I used to go to many fetish balls and play parties.
06/09/2012
Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
No, but would like to play with remote control panties with my girlfriend.
06/10/2012
Defiledpixxy Defiledpixxy
I'm in a 24/7 M/s relationship and have a discrete collar. Most people compliment me on my necklace. I also have extremely large tattoos on the back of my thighs that represent myself and my partner. I don't see anything wrong with doing it as long as you aren't shoving other people into your kink in a non consensual manner.
06/19/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I have worn cuffs in public. Feeling them on relaxes me when I'm stressed.
06/25/2012
Chami Chami
i never have....could be interesting
06/25/2012
Boyqueen Boyqueen
I haven't, but am interested in it.
07/03/2012
dks210 dks210
I've never done it, but would like to. I'd really like to wear some rope bondage under my clothes, or have some sort of choker.
07/03/2012
Peggi Peggi
I wear my collars and he has a leash that he either holds or attaches to his belt. I also have a wrist cuff that I can wear and it has a key to unlock it that he holds on to, and then attaches a chain from my cuff to his pants. He has to be careful though, if we are out, because I get really excited and have a tendency to try and run at things without thinking LOL. I can't tell you how many times I've tried to scamper off for free samples of something at Sam's Club and he's had to reign me back in...or just rolls his eyes and laughs at me when I end up choking myself LOL
07/03/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
haven't done it but definitely a fantasy
07/03/2012
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