Have you ever turned someone from vanilla to kinky?

LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
How was your journey in doing so? Were you successful? Discuss below!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I have "turned" a former vanilla
43  (51%)
I have not "turned" a former vanilla
15  (18%)
I am in the process of "turning" them kinky
13  (15%)
Other!
14  (16%)
Total votes: 85
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09/24/2012
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- Kira - - Kira -
I've tried quite a number of times with no success. I think people have to have an inclination to be kinky. If that's not there, turning won't work. I had some at least attempt for me, but it ended up feeling lackluster. When you can tell someone isn't into it, it really messes up the mood.
09/24/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
I am in the process now and I probably have before to some extent.
(All relatively speaking)
09/24/2012
Beck Beck
I am trying to change my hubby into a kinkster. He slowly is picking up on things. He's 42 and has never had anyone ask for the things I have. So, it's hard for him to agree to it, but he wants to make me happy.
09/24/2012
pixylove101 pixylove101
My husband
09/24/2012
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
love to be choked and hubby is loving it
09/24/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
Kira said it exactly! Someone has to have a predisposition to it in order for you to really bring them over. You're not "turning" them, per se, just bringing out inclinations and desires they already have that they may not have acted on, introducing them to ideas or the lifestyle. At most, someone might not realize their tendencies or might have never been exposed to kink before so they don't realize it turns them on, but if the latent desire isn't there, they'll never embrace it. my Miss has always had fantasies or been turned on by the idea. She watched BDSM porn and read erotica but never actually acted on it. i introduced Her to the lifestyle and community and opportunities to learn and She had her first experiences with me but i didn't "turn" her kinky. She may have only had mostly vanilla sex before me but She was always kinky.
09/24/2012
Aftertherain13 Aftertherain13
My husband had a bad experience with a girl that wanted him to punch and hit her during sex. She also wanted him to choke her to the point of actually choking. He was NOT down with that lol. So when we got together I was terrified to tell him that I kinda like to be slapped and choked a bit. He was hesitant at first but I have definitely turned him to the dark side (:
09/24/2012
Ansley Ansley
He was always kinky, he just didn't know it until he met me.
09/24/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I love Stormy's response. I'm working on turning my husband into a kinkier person.
09/24/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
My girlfriend does kinky things to me now. Have I "turned" her I dont think so. But is she happy to entertain my fantasies, yes
09/24/2012
AlleyKitten AlleyKitten
Yeah, I have turned a former vanilly kinky! I felt quite accomplished because of that.
09/24/2012
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by unfulfilled
I love Stormy's response. I'm working on turning my husband into a kinkier person.
Thanks! At first, he was pretty reluctant. He was like "fantasies, who me? Never!". Uh huh. After about three years of asking and sharing my own, I cracked the shell and out poured things I hadn't even thought of before. It's awesome!
09/24/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
How was your journey in doing so? Were you successful? Discuss below!
I have "turned" a former vanilla
09/24/2012
MissTwist MissTwist
my X turned me in to well me lol
09/24/2012
Sinfully Sinfully
Nope. The guys I hook up with are normally already kinky. lol
09/24/2012
CASpookygirl CASpookygirl
My husband.. he was a vanilla milkshake with vanilla sammich cookies mixed in before he met me
09/25/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
How was your journey in doing so? Were you successful? Discuss below!
I have definitely changed some people
10/03/2012
mistre$$ mistre$$
Maybe.
10/07/2012
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Yes.
10/07/2012
MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
I'm in the process of turning my husband.. He's qquite already turned but not yet enough for my taste hehehe
10/10/2012
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I've turned from vanilla to kinky.
10/10/2012
deinevanille deinevanille
I dunno if he stayed that way after we broke up, but I did, for a time.
One of the first things I ended up telling my a partner not long after we started with sloppy makeouts was that I tended toward the kinky side of things and would try to be careful to not dig my nails into him or anything.
We sat down, had a frank conversation about it and he turned out unsure-but-game. And then ended up enjoying it.
10/11/2012
StasyRavish StasyRavish
I've "turned" 2 boys to my knowledge. First was a boy I was dating when I was 16. He was actually really puritanical (I remember because that's how I knew it wouldn't work out in the end), I ended up taking his virginity, and now, three years later we're still friends, and whenever he brings up his current fiendish kinky lifestyle, I just sort of laugh because that's my fault.
Second was my most recent boyfriend. He used to cringe just at the idea of me using any sort of toy. Now he'll strap me down and use everything we own on me and even look for other things we can use.
10/11/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I'm trying to train my wife without her knowing, haha, which is easier said than done. At least she's starting to like anal more. Here's hoping I can get her to like bondage more...
10/11/2012
geekkink geekkink
I would say opened their eyes and mind too it, much more than I would say "turned."
10/12/2012
geekkink geekkink
Quote:
Originally posted by Hallmar82
I'm trying to train my wife without her knowing, haha, which is easier said than done. At least she's starting to like anal more. Here's hoping I can get her to like bondage more...
That is a horribly unsafe behavior..
10/12/2012
Jesyra Jesyra
Turned my husband When we got together he thought me dragging him into a unisex bathroom for a blowjob was kinky. Now we own more toys for him including plugs, dildos, cages, costumes, and bondage gear than for me. I did my work well ^_^
10/14/2012
Alyxx Alyxx
My ex was an innocent little vanilla virgin when I got ahold of him, and by the time we split up he was very, very kinky. I also introduced my current partner to bondage and other forms of kink.
10/17/2012
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
How was your journey in doing so? Were you successful? Discuss below!
Not yet.
10/18/2012
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