How do you get into the Lifestyle?

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How do you get into the Lifestyle?

PunkyB PunkyB
I have been inerested in BDSM for a long time. I just never thought of myself as that category. The more I learn and the more it seems like me. I have always been into more rough sex. I love spanking, biting, hair pulling, restricting my movement, and I have only been tied up once, but it was amazing. I even enjoy being choked. I enjoy much of what is considered to be a submissives role. I guess what I am asking is how do I get more involved in the lifestyle and the community to see if its what I want? Anyone have any suggestions?
03/23/2011
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Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by PunkyB
I have been inerested in BDSM for a long time. I just never thought of myself as that category. The more I learn and the more it seems like me. I have always been into more rough sex. I love spanking, biting, hair pulling, restricting my ...
You can start out with Fetlife.com and see if it's a community you can put up with and just start talking to people. I've seen ads on Craiglist looking for doms and subs, but it's not something I personally recommend unless you'd like to be the subject of a Lifetime movie.

You're going to find out more by word of mouth, there aren't many neon blinking signs to direct you.
03/24/2011
PunkyB PunkyB
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Originally posted by Ansley
You can start out with Fetlife.com and see if it's a community you can put up with and just start talking to people. I've seen ads on Craiglist looking for doms and subs, but it's not something I personally recommend unless you'd like ...
Thanks for the advice. I will check out the site.

Almost every single one of my friends are vary vanilla in there sexual tastes. They dont judge me, but I would really love to make friends with similar tastes as myself.
03/25/2011
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