how many 24/7s and M/s couples (or families!) are there out there?

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how many 24/7s and M/s couples (or families!) are there out there?

oliverHyde oliverHyde
I'm very curious... I know there's at least a few of you who rock it full-time!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
we're in a full-time M/s family
we're in a full-time M/s relationship
Carrie Ann , 00 , TitsMcScandal , Red Vinyl Kitty , Kayla , PonyPlay , Eeyor89 , MastersXKittenXSlave , HisLittleGirl , LUCKY69 , padmeamidala , inkky , J5ive , RavenInChains , Sima-pusya , subbieforHer
16
we're in a part-time/long distance M/s relationship
Midway through , slavegirl , Lady Neshamah , LavenderSkies , inkky , Mitzuki
6
we're in a very serious D/s relationship, but have no contract
Eeyor89
1
we scene regularly, but we don't have daily roles
Madeira , sausagelover , Miss Morphine , dv8 , Hallmar82 , gsfanatic , hall5885 , novanilla , Violet October , captainsgirl , chicagobearsfan
11
other (please explain)
Sir , oliverHyde , ~LaUr3n~ , VieuxCarre , P'Gell , lucymalfoy , sbon , potstickers , Boyqueen , Falsepast , charletnarouh , Bignuf , bottled-diva , RomanticGoth , Stinkytofu10
15
Total votes: 49 (47 voters)
Poll is closed
07/22/2010
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Sir Sir
Was in a 24/7, am not anymore. Prefer it 24/7, that's what's more natural to me.
07/22/2010
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I'm in a 24/7 M/s relationship. We started out in a long distance D/s relationship, moved in together and our relationship transformed and deepened. I just moved away from him last week, so it is a whole different dynamic being long distance D/s and long distance M/s. Hopefully though we won't be apart for long.
07/23/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
I have no idea what this post is about.

Could someone edumacate me?
07/23/2010
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
We're 24/7 too. We started out similarly to JonsBabydoll, although we weren't very long distance, I still was only able to make the 2 hour train trip on the weekends. Now, we are married and living together, and very much in love and at ease in our M/s.
07/23/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
I have no idea what this post is about.

Could someone edumacate me?
Ditto.
07/23/2010
Ciao. Ciao.
What's the difference between M/s and D/s, I understand the latter term but haven't ever heard M/s used?
07/23/2010
Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by Ciao.
What's the difference between M/s and D/s, I understand the latter term but haven't ever heard M/s used?
M/s is Master/slave, D/s is Domination/submission.
07/23/2010
Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
I have no idea what this post is about.

Could someone edumacate me?
24/7 lifestyle M/s is the Master/slave relationship being lived at all points of the relationship, morning, day, night, every minute of every day, the submissive is the Master's property. This is a very base explanation though.
07/23/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
OH! Ok

makes sense now!

Thanks Sir!
07/23/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Learn something every day.

Thanks Sir.
07/23/2010
Sir Sir
You're welcome, Mr. Sauce and dwtim!
07/23/2010
Kayla Kayla
In a 24/7 relationship with the boyfriend as a slave (obviously). We tend to be low to medium formality most of the time, but when we go to play parties and BDSM clubs, we are high formality.
07/23/2010
oliverHyde oliverHyde
My wife and I are in a 24/7 relationship that has had a very strong power dynamic for several years, but since we don't have a contract yet (still hammering out protocol) I'm not that sure I can call it M/s... yet.

once we have a contract I'd be willing to call it an M/s relationship, but for now I think we're just M/s light.
07/24/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Nothing is set in stone, we switch roles often.
07/24/2010
PonyPlay PonyPlay
What is the difference between and M/s Family and a M/s relationship I want to be sure before I vote.
07/24/2010
oliverHyde oliverHyde
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
What is the difference between and M/s Family and a M/s relationship I want to be sure before I vote.
there's multiple people involved in the power dynamic. For example, there's often several slaves to one Master.
07/24/2010
Madeira Madeira
We're not 24/7, though even though we don't define ourself that way our relationship pretty much falls in line with a constant power dynamic. I'm a pet or doll style submissive more than a slave style submissive (in other words our relationship is not service based) but I pretty much fall into line with what she says. We consider ourselves equals, and I don't really have protocols or anything like that outside of the bedroom, though I do have some post hypnotic triggers that she can use at will, and often does in public (like the one that makes me orgasm)
07/24/2010
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
It's a bit complicated, as there really is no set definition to our relationship. We haven't declared to be "in a relationship", but we are in a lot of ways. We're waiting until we meet each other person to person before setting in stone what we are, though it's obvious where we're going with it. To use at least.

He and I are both working toward the end goal of full-time M/s. We're five hours apart right now, but he has expectations of me and has been modifying my behavior and such for a few months. I'm in a training stage at this point to earn the right to be his.

It's rewarding. I love it and have found a great fulfillment that I was missing before
09/27/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Other, I guess. Our sex life is pretty D/S. (That doesn't mean I don't Top from the Bottom on a regular basis, I still get to have input! ) Also, our home life is in some ways similar. He makes most of the money, and although we make decisions together, he usually gets final say. When it comes to the kids, it's my territory, he certainly has input, but he knows I not only know more about children, but have more patience with them. He's a good father, but knows that Mamas and Daddies are not interchangeable.

I have no problem bringing him food, rubbing his back, I do his laundry, all that kind of stuff. He isn't above occasionally cleaning a floor, but I don't think he has cleaned a toilet or done a load of laundry since the last time I was pregnant. It's all good, I'm home a lot more than he is. I have a small home business (that is about to go belly up in this shitty economy) and with no jobs out there to take it's place, at least one of us is working in a solid outside the home job. I fell strongly that men are supposed to work. Hard. He does most of the outside jobs, fixes stuff, deals with the cars etc. I take care of the kids' stuff, inside things etc. That doesn't mean I don't sometimes help him outside and he often likes to cook. Last night, we had a big meal of roast beef, mashed potatoes, veggies, home made gravy etc. He started to help me clean up, and I told him to go sit down and I would finish it. I makes less of a mess cleaning up (does that make sense) he also had to get up at 4:30 this morning and go to work, and I'm home, so it works out well.

I guess you could say we have a "Traditional Marriage" with a nice kinky little D/S sex life.
09/27/2010
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Other, I guess. Our sex life is pretty D/S. (That doesn't mean I don't Top from the Bottom on a regular basis, I still get to have input! ) Also, our home life is in some ways similar. He makes most of the money, and although we make ...
HAHA. If I ask my partner if he'll clean some of the time and give me a day off he laughs at me. "Why would you want a day off?" Not that I mind doing it, but still *giggles*

You're lucky
09/27/2010
KnK KnK
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
We're not 24/7, though even though we don't define ourself that way our relationship pretty much falls in line with a constant power dynamic. I'm a pet or doll style submissive more than a slave style submissive (in other words our ...
Not to be weird but the hypnotic trigger sounds kinda hot.

I kinda wish I had something that was 24/7, but in a way I do. I tend to attract submissive males. The only time I've ever thought about dating a more aggressive man was because I have some sort of weird fantasy that involves me training them to be my sub
11/30/2010
sbon sbon
We just D/s some of the time.
12/15/2010
Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
i am in a part time/heavy M/s relationship. we just don't get the time together that much.
12/21/2010
abntroll58 abntroll58
We are not in a 24/7 relationship, but in the bedroom the wife is the boss. We do talk about what we want to try and do.
01/02/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by oliverHyde
I'm very curious... I know there's at least a few of you who rock it full-time!
Part time m/s.
07/15/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Part time m/s, we'll see how things evolve over time
07/16/2012
Falsepast Falsepast
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
24/7 lifestyle M/s is the Master/slave relationship being lived at all points of the relationship, morning, day, night, every minute of every day, the submissive is the Master's property. This is a very base explanation though.
I would LOVE that kind of life
07/16/2012
jc123 jc123
We WERE 24/7 and both loved it that way. Then we went through a pretty rocky patch, relationship-wise. Now for the past six months or so we've both really wanted to go back to 24/7 but there are still some walls built up between us and we can't get there.
07/16/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
my Mistress and i are in a D/s relationship that is still in its fledgling stages. W/we have a list of protocols and rituals, some for private and some public. The dynamic is in constant play, though we don't live together. W/we still have separate homes and lives but my submission to Her is constant. W/we have worked out rituals and rules that allow U/us to keep the connection and dynamic in place when W/we are physically apart and O/our list will become a contract once some of the "kinks" (pun intended) have been ironed out.
07/16/2012
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