How old were you when you realized you were kinky?

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How old were you when you realized you were kinky?

RosesThorns RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
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10-12
65  (22%)
13-15
74  (25%)
15-17
66  (22%)
18-21
59  (20%)
22 +
31  (11%)
Total votes: 295
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11/10/2010
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Dusk Dusk
I 'knew' since I the moment I saw Aladdin (4? 6?) but I didn't really connect things. I knew that seeing Jasmine in her slave chains serving Jafar made me grin, and that I love damsel in distress stories. I know that I always wanted to play the captured princess, but I was disappointed when the story ended and I was set free. I probably figured out around 14 or 15 that there were other people like that, and that there was actually a term for how I was feeling.
11/10/2010
gone77 gone77
I didn't have kinky thoughts or desires until I was in my late 20s. At least not that I remember...
11/10/2010
Victoria Victoria
I remember tying up barbie and playing out scenes with dolls (alone) a few times when I was like 10 or so... and I loved leather when I was young, and chains and wild hair and motorcycles and anything that seemed 'dangerous' and exciting... I had a wild little imagination. Movies that had the chases and women in danger and sexy (very 80s) tension used to pique my interest as a kid too. Ahh well. embarrassing now!
11/10/2010
LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
Seeing the movie 9 1/2 weeks when I was in high school and loving it made me realize that my tastes were not typical. But I was 28 before I had a label for it and understood there were many other people who liked what I did.
11/10/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by Victoria
I remember tying up barbie and playing out scenes with dolls (alone) a few times when I was like 10 or so... and I loved leather when I was young, and chains and wild hair and motorcycles and anything that seemed 'dangerous' and exciting... I ...
Not embarrassing! I tied my Barbie's up too lol.

I realized somewhere in pre-teens. I didn't make the connection until then.
11/10/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Seeing the movie 9 1/2 weeks when I was in high school and loving it made me realize that my tastes were not typical. But I was 28 before I had a label for it and understood there were many other people who liked what I did.
WOW thank god for places like Eden I am so glad I discovered such a wonderful outlet for my kink almost 10 years before 28.
11/10/2010
Lunacy Setting in Lunacy Setting in
Probably around 15-17, but I never had the confidence/partners to act on anything until I was 21.
11/10/2010
StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
I was kinky when puberty hit. That plus the constant love of roleplaying and costumes probably tipped me off...all my Barbies got tied together at one point or another.
11/26/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I'd say 14-15.
11/26/2010
Mocha98 Mocha98
I had a fantasy about being raped. My slave made that happen. Now the roles are switched.
11/30/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Victoria
I remember tying up barbie and playing out scenes with dolls (alone) a few times when I was like 10 or so... and I loved leather when I was young, and chains and wild hair and motorcycles and anything that seemed 'dangerous' and exciting... I ...
It's not embarrassing at all Victoria. My best friend and I used to set up the most horrid, perverse Scenes with our Barbies and my cousin's GI Joes (he's so much more....butch....than Ken is) I mean really kinky stuff.

I think a lot of Kinky people played like this as kids. I know too many who did.

I remember making an aluminum foil dress, without the Barbie's boobs covered, and, um, there was some suspension involved. Whips made from kitchen string. I mean, I didn't even know people did things like that in real life until I was in my 20s......(OK, maybe not the whips made from Kitchen String.....)
11/30/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Not embarrassing! I tied my Barbie's up too lol.

I realized somewhere in pre-teens. I didn't make the connection until then.
Oh, did you have those little plastic handcuffs for Cops and Robbers? I was NEVER the cop. LOL! Always the Lady Bandit who got caught and hand cuffed to a tree or put into a cage (usually an upside down play pen) or something.

We had a Fun Fair with a wallboard dungeon in it one year. With bars on the doors and windows. I was in heaven for an entire weekend. I don't think it's legal for me to say how old I was.....


WHEW. Our moms would get SO mad....

I didn't know what "kinky" was. I just thought there was something wrong with me.

I don't think so anymore, though. That poor confused child, though.....Catholic Guilt can do warped things to a young developing Love Map. (The Love Map is Alfred Kinsey's explanation for why you like or love what you like or love during sex.)
11/30/2010
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I used to have the rape fantasy thing going on. When I was a kid my female neighbours (same age) and I would make out. We role played, pretended we were vampires and whatnot, I always wanted them to bite me while we were naked and dry humping. I had barbies too, I didnt tie them up that I can recall but I did dismember them...

I didn't realize I was "kinky" until I was probably 18 though.
12/05/2010
clp clp
My story really isn't appropriate for a public forum but I knew, without a doubt, by the time I was 12.
12/12/2010
Danielle915 Danielle915
I was 20...my husband brought it out of me.
12/22/2010
RubenesqueAna RubenesqueAna
Yep, I always used to have fun playing the captured princess with my friends. I loved it when they tied me up. And sometimes when I was real little, I'd pretend to be a slave girl. I looooved it. When I was 13 or so I started exploring this stuff online and I began realizing how my obsession with being a slave was tied to my sexuality. I wasn't able to really act it out until I was 21, unfortunately. It was worth the wait, though.
12/23/2010
Not here Not here
I always knew I was interested in sex, but was pretty shy and didn't lose my virginity until I was 18 with my first "serious" boyfriend. I was with him for about a year and a half, but the sex was really vanilla. I knew I was lacking something, but didn't know what exactly. I was almost 20 when I met my man, and he brought all the kink out of me pretty early on in our relationship. We've been together almost 4 years and I'm still discovering things I had no idea I was into thanks to him
12/23/2010
C4ss C4ss
I was about 17.
12/23/2010
Blakiepoo Blakiepoo
Around 14-15. The beginning of high school meant getting a new computer and would find crazy pictures & stories on BBS systems. And then there was internet. I'm not sure if that stuff perverted me or if I would have turned out pervy anyway. *shrug*
12/23/2010
anonymouse anonymouse
The day I realized not everyone was into pegging.
Seriously, when I was about 14. I had some freaky situations going on with my barbies before that, but I didn't fully embrace my kink side (if you could call it that) until then.
12/23/2010
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
At a very early age - 4 or 5, I guess. I did not think of it as sexual then, but looking back on it, I always liked the stories about the princess locked away in the tower and made to do all sorts of torturous work before she got her prince.

I was never one to play with dolls, but I liked to take them and pretend (with the boys) that we were torturing them. We would play with our Tonka trucks and do all sorts of unspeakable things to Barbie. Sometimes I secretly wished I was Barbie.

I am so glad that kink is able to be satiated now. That is a terrible thing to keep sequestered.
01/01/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I used to have the rape fantasy thing going on. When I was a kid my female neighbours (same age) and I would make out. We role played, pretended we were vampires and whatnot, I always wanted them to bite me while we were naked and dry humping. I had ...
That is too funny. We used to dismember my Barbies too. We even went as far as to take red markers and paint blood on them. We even turned one into a Barbie-Bomb once, popping her head off and placing a lit firecracker within her and tossing her.

I loved it when we would tie her to a tree, I wished it was me. Oh God, I feel like one sick puppy!
01/01/2011
MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
I knew i loved the look of leather when i was maybe 10. But i didn't get too much in the thought of that until i hit 17. Its like i went crazy for the stuff!
01/02/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
I can't remember NOT being kinky or having kinky fantasies...
01/03/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I was 18. I didn't become sexual adventurous until I met my husband. Before I met him I hadn't even had an orgasm from oral. Also, he bought my first sex toy for me. Yeah, he completely opened me up to a whole new world.
01/03/2011
celibacysucks celibacysucks
I think I was always kinky, but I didn't realize it was "kink" until my first real partner taught me to be ashamed of my urges.
01/09/2011
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Dusk
I 'knew' since I the moment I saw Aladdin (4? 6?) but I didn't really connect things. I knew that seeing Jasmine in her slave chains serving Jafar made me grin, and that I love damsel in distress stories. I know that I always wanted to ...
Dude, the same thing happened to me at 5 with Aladdin. haha. Fucking Disney. Making people kinky since 1928!
01/09/2011
Isreah Isreah
the thing that made me realize that I am kinky is when I first saw Planet of the Apes. After watching that movie, I kept having dreams and fantasies about how much I would love to be enslaved and forced to do whatever.
01/09/2011
Gallowraven Gallowraven
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
I was very young, since I did not fully understand it, I thought it meant there was something wrong with me, and I hid it for years. until I found my soon to be hubby. Since he had a lot of the same interests in that regard, he allowed me to open up in the bedroom, and become fully satisfied, for the first time. before, I thought sex was over rated, and found solo play, a lot more effective.
01/10/2011
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