How old were you when you realized you were kinky?

RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Victoria
I remember tying up barbie and playing out scenes with dolls (alone) a few times when I was like 10 or so... and I loved leather when I was young, and chains and wild hair and motorcycles and anything that seemed 'dangerous' and exciting... I ... More
Dang, where were you when I was a kid!
12/16/2011
Allstars316 Allstars316
I believe it was when I was in college. In the last year is when I really want to do things and have stuff done to me.
12/17/2011
HouseWench HouseWench
too young to remember how old I was!
12/17/2011
Cherry21 Cherry21
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
My hubby and I were 14 and 15 when we got together. We knew we had WAY more sex than anyone else, and we seemed to enjoy it a lot more. Plus, we started making our own sex toys and stuff by the time we were 15 and 16. AND just some things we did (sex in "kinda" public, sex in trees (crazy.. yeah...)). So we knew, but we weren't sure how far we were gonna take it. Still aren't quite sure, lol.
12/17/2011
Cherry21 Cherry21
Barbie is the kinkiest EVER it sounds like! She's been in EVERY scenario imaginable it seems!
12/17/2011
geliebt geliebt
Somewhere around 13 or 14, I think.. I think I always KNEW, but I never really had the sexual vocabulary to identify WHAT it was. That developed around 14 or so.
12/17/2011
shcoo shcoo
I've always been visually attracted to bruises and blood. Whenever a singer or actor would have a photoshoot with gory special effects makeup or something like that, I would get odd feelings, haha. When I was 11 - 15, the erotica I read/looked for was almost strictly rape or dominance scenes.
12/17/2011
SomeGirl SomeGirl
I always fantasied about being chained to walls and being beaten at a very young age. I didn't know what all my fantasies really were until about 17/18. And even then, it was when I was 19 that I was able to delve into the depths of my kinkiness.
12/19/2011
jedent jedent
when i was 15 and being dildo'd in a mall dressing room (the dildo was shoplifted to boot) i knew i was up to no good.
12/19/2011
bratofthekitties bratofthekitties
I knew I was kinky around 8 or so.... but I didn't understand BDSM until I was 17 or pursue it actively until I was 19 because I thought it was sick and I would never be happy living a normal life. I don't live a normal life and I'm way happier for it, it was hard for me to admit I wanted someone older and sadistic and I got hurt a lot along the way. Now I know evil people have evil fantasies but so do good people.
12/19/2011
Pink Kitty Pink Kitty
It's sort of embarrassing haha, but I think this one is unique I have not seen it here. After I had started crossdressing at age 13. I went to an Anime Convention dressed as a maid, and My hands were bound, and I had a leather collar on, I was quite literally being passed off (what nice friends I have, right? lol)
12/20/2011
(Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
I love these memories from early childhood, haha! I have a similar story from when I was about four, involving Bowser from Mario Bros...wearing all leather and spikes, kidnapping and tying up the princess in his dungeon....

Always sided with the villains. Read torture picture books (yep, they have 'em! technically for 7th grade and up but I was 'advanced' so the librarian didn't care what I checked out) from my Catholic school's library when I was in 3rd grade.

In middle school became obsessed with de Sade and Crowley and other dark individuals. Sneaked in BDSM erotica to read under the covers with a flashlight. Started to do kinky harmless experimenting with my same-sex friends (tying up, spanking, light-hearted roleplay).

When I hit about 12 and got the Internet I sneaked into chat rooms and cybered in very kinky ways with like-minded youth (from the Animorphs chat room of all places, haha! not even furries, though!). From there gave them my number and had phone sex with BDSM undertones.

Around 14 started kissing and fooling around and always pinned the girls against the wall/bed/floor and conversely got pinned down by the boys.

First penetrative experiences were super duper kinky.
12/20/2011
miss-miss miss-miss
Like a lot of you, I was attracted to the idea of being kidnapped or captured and made to do things before puberty. After puberty, my barbies started getting tied up, but it wasn't for quite a few years that I realized what I was feeling.
12/22/2011
Willow Wand Willow Wand
As long as I can remember.
12/22/2011
LinToxic LinToxic
I kinda have abduction/rape fantasies... I mean, of course I find the real act disgusting and dehumanizing... But I oddly find the fantasy arousing >.<
12/30/2011
tA tA
I was about... 10ish? Maybe younger. I'm not sure, but I know it's been a really really long time.
12/30/2011
quinceykay quinceykay
I started to realize it when I first reached puberty - 12 or 13. I had some kinky fantasies, but didn't act them out until I lost my v-card a few years later.
12/31/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
I didn't start having sex until I was 16 - 16 1/2. The first few times I did it I probably didn't behave to crazy. Before I was out of high school though I was a naughty naughty naughty girl. I had gone from my first and real boyfriend who took my cherry to being the girl who liked to sport fuck like the boys. I also had a passion for doing it wild and crazy, getting it doggy style and I would always be up for a creampie, a dirty blow job with a facial or show off swallow, and basically just wrecking the boys. And then I met my husband... And it has only gotten wilder since. MFM's, FF's, FMF's, FMMM, a bukkake party, soft swap, hard swap and playing with lot's of toys. I also like doing the dom thing and I am totally an exhibitionist and a bit of a voyeur.
12/31/2011
mrs poop. mrs poop.
I didn't actually understand my feelings, but I remember having kinky inclinations as young as 9 or 10.
01/10/2012
Daemonin Daemonin
I realized I was kinky about 15-16ish, but now that I've been taking a good look at my sex life I now realize that when I was younger I had some kinky thoughts I didn't quite understand at the time. I had a light-bulb moment a few weeks ago about this.
01/10/2012
131231e43 131231e43
About fourteen. It was a slow process though.
01/11/2012
Mihoshi4301 Mihoshi4301
I started to suspect under 18, but I really decided that I was after I was 19.
01/11/2012
punkstar283 punkstar283
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
18 years old
01/11/2012
Doah Doah
hmm..idk, just regular sex was kinda boring, a little biting and binding really just spiced things up and always keeps it fresh.
01/12/2012
GONE! GONE!
Pretty young, about 14 or 15.
01/12/2012
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
It was my sophomore year in college and I discovered BDSM through AOL chat rooms. Needless to say, I did a lot more research after that so I could really learn what was going on.
01/12/2012
Jewlickah Jewlickah
I should have realized it when I was eleven or so. As soon as I started having a sexuality, I fantasized about being raped. I still feel like a dick about that, and I certainly wouldn't want to be raped in actuality. Just had sex with when I say no but mean yes. It seems like such an impossible thing to role play.

I actually began recognizing it when I was with my most recent girlfriend. Hearing that she was an extreme sadist really excited me. I also remember sitting on her back porch in freezing night and asking her to slap me. Strangely, she did. I was more turned on than I had been in a long time.

I think that was the moment that I realized it wholeheartedly.
04/22/2012
sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
I'm not sure actually, I was young when I first started lusting after the man I am with, but as far as being into "kinky" stuff I'm not sure, so I will refrain from voting.
04/24/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
In my 20s.
04/24/2012
lustylusty lustylusty
Thanks to my fiance
04/24/2012
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