How old were you when you realized you were kinky?

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How old were you when you realized you were kinky?

Megan Jean Megan Jean
It coincided nicely with puberty starting.
04/24/2012
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Ever since I was around 8-9 I really liked handcuffs. Like the kind that came in toy kits for kids. When I was around 13, and I would always handcuff myself to my bed with them.
I didn't really realize I was kinky until I was like 18 though. Took a while to connect the dots.
04/25/2012
Beck Beck
I remember watching TV shows were the girl was slapped around and then sex happened. That use to turn me on. I've known since I was young I like kink!
04/25/2012
Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I didn't really think about it until I was about nineteen and I was with this guy that told me.And I knew even more so when I realized there were things that I didn't want to tell him that I wanted to do.
04/25/2012
hall5885 hall5885
As far back as I can remember but didn't realize what it was until I was a teen.
04/30/2012
Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
that's when my cowboy thing started!
04/30/2012
Catch Star Catch Star
I was probably 12 or 13. It was thrilling, but I felt shame about it.
05/01/2012
Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
I think I developed into my kinkiness. I've always had a high libido but when I was new to sex and it was overwhelmed I began very vanilla. As I explored more I discovered many new kinks I didn't know I had. I definitely consider myself kinky now.
05/02/2012
cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
Never really thought of anything I do as kinky, per se. Just fun.
05/19/2012
Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
i would want to play games where I was captured when I was younger. and I started fantasizing about 1o about such things
05/20/2012
xilliannax xilliannax
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Originally posted by Dusk
I 'knew' since I the moment I saw Aladdin (4? 6?) but I didn't really connect things. I knew that seeing Jasmine in her slave chains serving Jafar made me grin, and that I love damsel in distress stories. I know that I always wanted to ...
Me too! Or the slave chains in Star Wars... but I didnt connect it as a "kink" or "different" until 10-12 ish
05/20/2012
starryeyedangel starryeyedangel
I realized I was kinky around 13
05/20/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
I was like fourteen and I realized that I was into some freaky things, and non of my peers were into anything like I was
05/21/2012
WildDreamer WildDreamer
I didn't really realize it until I was probably about thirteen, but by that time I had been playing online for a couple of years (dangerous jailbait, I was; so very dangerous) and had always kind of been into ropes and bondage and slave-girl outfits, all my life. As a very young girl, probably about four, my mother caught me playing what was essentially rope-bondage games with her (very, very submissive) boyfriend's daughter, who was a few years older than me. So, I was obviously kinky from a young age, I just didn't have a definition that said it was something particularly unusual or socially deviant until I was old enough to understand that I was different. Thirteen was also about the age where I discovered that I had an older brother 'thing' (luckily, I'm the oldest sibling) and everything got a little weird from there.

Plus, I got a Barbie cake when I was eight or nine and realized the part I was most excited about was getting to lick the frosting off of Barbie's chest. Kinky and bisexual. I, of course, was the instigator in most of my kinky sexual encounters so far; I have opened the eyes of many a partner.
05/21/2012
macho99 macho99
uhm. 26. Though just into bondage. Nothing hardcore... yet.
05/21/2012
tiggle biddies tiggle biddies
when i was little i used to act out scenes where my sister would be the sacrificial victim for the scary monster. things like that. as i got older i realized the significance of those play sessions. now i love tying up my boyfriend
05/22/2012
theavocadopit theavocadopit
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
05/22/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
Around 12. I saw bondage in movies and got aroused. I also played cops and robbers with my sister and purposely tried to get caught so I would be tied up. I thought I was weird until I started looking things up online.
05/23/2012
KinkyKatiya KinkyKatiya
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
I knew I was from a very young age... it was a matter of me actually expressing my kink to my friends and partner that took me pretty much 10 years.
05/24/2012
Mwar Mwar
Even around 15ish I felt that I was even though I didn't have sex until 18ish. I feel like I always kind of knew.
05/24/2012
Chami Chami
im really not sure
05/30/2012
Doah Doah
probably a freshman in highschool, i had this girlfriend who always like to bite me and ask if she could tie me down.
08/04/2012
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I was definitely about 16 when I first discovered I had a kinkier side.
08/04/2012
novanilla novanilla
I think I was maybe 13 or 14 when I realized I thought certain things were titillating that I thought should not have been but I suppressed it until I was 17.
01/07/2013
TheirPet TheirPet
I was doing self-bondage in a non-sexual way (just it made me feel safe) when I was about ten. When I hit puberty it started taking on more sexual tones.
01/07/2013
llellsee llellsee
I was 19.
01/07/2013
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I think around sixteen or seventeen, because that's when I made my own handcuffs.
01/08/2013
subbieforHer subbieforHer
Perhaps this sounds a little nuts, but I don't even fit into one of the age categories above... my jealousy of damsels in distress and bondage is one of my earliest memories. While I found the helplessness associated with such activities to be very exciting, needless to say that I didn't really have a damn clue as to what they meant until adolescence.

It's quite freeing to meet others who have had such similar experiences and learning that I wasn't the only one who had to deal with some embarrassment and confusion from these feelings while growing up. After much reflection and contemplation, I don't think I could ever just life a vanilla lifestyle.
01/08/2013
HisLittleFiend HisLittleFiend
I had a hard past and I shut off for a few years. Now that I'm in a stable and happy long-term relationship, I can open myself back up and realize my sexuality. I've been exploring all of that with the love of my life, and it wasn't until I met him that I knew. I was 17/18. Can't remember which.
01/11/2013
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
I was 15. I was lucky enough to have an equally kinky, open minded and extremely patient boyfriend back then to explore various fetishes and kinks.
02/11/2013
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