How old were you when you realized you were kinky?

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How old were you when you realized you were kinky?

Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
college!
02/17/2013
bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
Fascinated with bdsm porn at age 11. Didn't realize my fascination was sexual until 10+ years later!

I have SO LOVED reading this thread. Everyones' kinky barbie experiences are too funny! Don't be embarrassed; I think it's just fine! It's who you are!
05/09/2013
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I had my first kinky sexual feelings around 4 or 6. I started masturbating when I was 10 before I knew it was sexual. The fantasies I had were driven by kink and fetish without any explicit sex.
05/09/2013
lilswitch lilswitch
I remember thinking about needles and spankings a lot during the summer of 7th grade. I started really having a thing for putting things up my ass sometime in early high school. I was reading porn once in a blue moon throughout high school but didn't realize I was into BDSM type of things until the summer after senior year of high school.
05/27/2013
mdnght mdnght
I was 17 (probably a little closer to 18) when I realized my submissive side, thanks to badly written self-insert smutty fanfic for the show Heroes I don't actually remember how/exactly when I figured out I also like being dominant, though. I think I was 19?
05/29/2013
angel42539 angel42539
I was around 18
05/29/2013
SickOnSin SickOnSin
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
I don't think I'm kinky. However I realized when I was into bdsm around 14 years old. I am who I am and I know who I am. To me I am normal. Just because I don't see eye to eye with everyone doesn't mean I'm kinky it just means I'm not what someone who is different from me perceives as normal. You can't really judge normal though expect by your own standards. My standards are different from yours and are different from the person 5 doors down from me or you.
06/17/2013
Eugler Eugler
You've all great stories.

I knew that being tied would arise me from early kindergarden age. I saw a tied man on television and really enjoyed it but was also ashamed that I enjoyed seeing this. I also saw a tied female in a Mickey Mouse comic and had to watch the picture all over.

I remember asking some adult relatives to tie me, just to know how it might feel but they refused to.

During the following years I kept fantasizing being tied or spanked. In real time we played Cowboy and Native American and I should be tied to the stake. I knew that I would enjoy it but was also worried that the others might realize that I enjoyed it so I bridled as hell.
06/19/2013
FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
I've had fantasies about spanking since I was very, very young. I'm not sure what the exact age was, but I'd say it was around seven.
06/19/2013
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
In the 9th grade maybe.
06/19/2013
Hipposterous Hipposterous
I was kind of... turned kinky, if that makes sense. I suffered some sexual abuse from a young age (around age 11), and was told a lot about kink.

Because of how young I was, I just thought that's what everyday sex was like. When I had my first long-term boyfriend (age 15-17), we were long distance but looking back, we'd talk about things that would have made a grown man blush.

I started having sex when I was almost 18 and it was all vanilla and I was really unsatisfied because that wasn't the sex I had grown up thinking about. So a year ago (right before I turned 19) I started actually searching for kink and have identified as kinky since then. Which isn't long, but hey, I'm young.

I wonder sometimes if I would be kinky if I hadn't been abused/conditioned to be from such a young age...
06/19/2013
karenm karenm
I'd never thought about this until now, but once my family friend (then 16. I was 12) and I were tickling each other and wrestling. It was perfectly innocent, as he was like a brother to me and he's gay. I remember him pinning me down and laughing, and me blushing and feeling guilty because I liked it. I liked the fact that he was much stronger than me, and the feeling of being overpowered.

But I didn't make the association (that I liked being dominated) until I was 20.
06/24/2013
GirlyGirlRed GirlyGirlRed
not sure but pretty young
06/26/2013
MornaStar MornaStar
I was doing kinky things since I was about 8. I would hang myself off the ground and I liked nipple clamps since I was about 12. 16 is when I would fantasize about being tied up, but I didn't have a name for it or even categorize it as being kinky until I was about 18.
07/02/2013
spineyogurt spineyogurt
When I was 13
07/02/2013
indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by RosesThorns
More than anything I am just curious...I was 17...but I have heard of people saying as young as like 10...*shrugs*
I dont think I was kinky til I started on EF. I came here for 1 sex toy...and now I am hooked....and very kinky. Well nothing over the top, but I like what I like and am happy to have been introduced to it.
07/10/2013
LittleBun91 LittleBun91
Around 15-16 for me
07/11/2013
CamoCutie CamoCutie
I had a very vanilla sex life until we started using sex toys after we were married in 2011. So for me I was 20 years old, my husband was 18!
07/11/2013
Bill220 Bill220
Probably when I was 14-15. I would use various items as anal toys and liked leather and ropes way too much, lol. Thing is, I don't know how became interested in the anal part. I hadn't witnessed anything or watched any porn etc at that age.

I used to think there was something wrong with me until a couple of years ago. Even now I find myself feeling guilty about what I like/do but I do it anyway
07/11/2013
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