I've Been Converted.

Contributor: AshMegYo AshMegYo
I must say, after seeing all the bdsm things on eden, I believe I've been converted to trying them. At first I was like hell no, I will never be tied up or wear a ball gag or anything like that.. But after looking through some of the stuff I decided I should give it a try. Was anyone else a little stand offish about BDSM at first? What made you start?
06/24/2012
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Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
My girlfriend was a bit nervous about it the first time, but taking it gently and making sure everyone was comfortable made it all work out. Do it one or two toys at a time, and don't get complex until your comfortable
06/25/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
My best friend is very kinky, so I was never particularly put off by BDSM. It always seemed pretty normal to me.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
Welcome! You'll love it on this side, we have cookies.
06/25/2012
Contributor: nori nori
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Originally posted by Mitzuki
Welcome! You'll love it on this side, we have cookies.
also ropes, gags, floggers, crops, and blindfolds!

but mostly cookies. :]
06/25/2012
Contributor: Breas Breas
I wouldn't say that I was stand offish no. I looked around with an open-mind and seen a lot of products/reviews that mentioned that the toys/items were beginner friendly. Also, I find that there are quite a few items in that section that have a non-intimidating appearance which is really nice for beginners who may be a bit skeptical to try these sorts of items.
06/25/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
If you start out with the mild stuff like being blindfolded/handcuffed while your partner teases you with a toy or something it should be a little easier to get into it.
I was never 'stand offish' myself, I started self-bondage when I was about 5 after watching movies like Aladdin. I would pretend I was a princess and some dashing prince was coming to save me.
But at about 9 I realized I just liked being tied up. xD

Some stuff like enemas and hoods I took a little while to warm up to at first though so just take it in stride and have fun experimenting.

06/25/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
welcome to the dark side

I have always been curious about BDSM and having a partner willing to experiment is a god send
06/27/2012
Contributor: Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
my Bf was but know he loves it
07/03/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
I am, but I got a eye mask recently to start out. I like being cuffed, and I wanna go deeper into it, I'm even thinking about getting into flogging.
07/03/2012
Contributor: Burn Burn
I was apprehensive at first because I thought my partner would be freaked out.. but he loves it.
07/03/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
Quote:
Originally posted by nori
also ropes, gags, floggers, crops, and blindfolds!

but mostly cookies. :]
I'm all for the toys, but what kind of cookies? because if it's oatmeal raisin, I'm out (Nah, the toys will keep me here any way);P
07/03/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Quote:
Originally posted by Rey
welcome to the dark side

I have always been curious about BDSM and having a partner willing to experiment is a god send
I also want to welcome you to the wonderful world of kink.

I kind of jumped right in once I realized I liked it, so I was not hesitant, but I urge you to get your partner to explore with you if they are open in doing so.
07/04/2012
Contributor: Ashley B Ashley B
I thought I was strange at first because sex is always thought of as so vanilla. I then opened up to my best friend and it turned out that we're both pretty kinky.
07/04/2012