Ideas for a Beginner?

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Ideas for a Beginner?

AngelicaU AngelicaU
I don't want to say that I'm not kinky, because I've never really done anything to help me know that I'm not. But I don't want to say that I am for the same reason. The most kinky my boyfriend and I have ever gotten is pulling my hair during doggy style and spanking. Can anyone tell me some things we could try that are a bit more kinky without getting too far in?
03/11/2011
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markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelicaU
I don't want to say that I'm not kinky, because I've never really done anything to help me know that I'm not. But I don't want to say that I am for the same reason. The most kinky my boyfriend and I have ever gotten is pulling my ...
Get a set of love cuffs. I'm sure you will enjoy them!
03/11/2011
Nigglemagic Nigglemagic
handcuffs,a blindfold.... there are plenty of amazing beginner kits on the site
03/11/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I agree with the handcuffs. The pink plush cuffs are great!
03/13/2011
AngelicaU AngelicaU
Looks like handcuffs are definitely the way to go, thank you
03/13/2011
lucymalfoy lucymalfoy
Definitely start out with some cuffs.
03/14/2011
(Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
I started out with soft, velcro cuffs. The Under the Bed Restraints are great )(from Sportsheets) because they are super super soft and non-threatening. With the velcro cuffs, it's nice knowing you can likely struggle your way out of them if you feel the need.

Also fun and not very intimidating (but super arousing) is some mind games, like light discipline for real or pretend infractions. There are all sorts of situations you can get into, from interrogations to bribery and blackmail. Some of these can be really emotionally intense, though, so tread carefully.

Once you get into this, definitely do your safeword system which I'm sure you know.

We also got a paddle with a furry side and a leather (gosh, maybe leather?) side, so that was erotic and not too intense. The JimmyJane massage candles are PHENOMANAL in judging whether you will enjoy the sensations of hot wax. They're not painfully-hot to the average person.
03/16/2011
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