If you couldn't / didn't want to wear a collar, but were owned, what would you wear?

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If you couldn't / didn't want to wear a collar, but were owned, what would you wear?

RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I have a friend who, due to past trauma, refused to wear a collar. She's been talking recently about her desire to be owned and asked me alternatives for slaves who are owned but don't wear a collar. So I'm curious about what you guys would wear.
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I would wear a braclet.
22
I would wear an anklet.
23
I would wear a necklace.
17
I would wear a ring.
20
Other. (Please explain in a post!)
13
Total votes: 95 (45 voters)
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11/24/2012
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Quote:
Originally posted by RemusHalifax
I have a friend who, due to past trauma, refused to wear a collar. She's been talking recently about her desire to be owned and asked me alternatives for slaves who are owned but don't wear a collar. So I'm curious about what you guys would wear.
A braclet, anklet, or maybe nothing!
11/29/2012
nosrslylol nosrslylol
Quote:
Originally posted by RemusHalifax
I have a friend who, due to past trauma, refused to wear a collar. She's been talking recently about her desire to be owned and asked me alternatives for slaves who are owned but don't wear a collar. So I'm curious about what you guys would wear.
I'd wear a cuff, or.. well... urm, a rope bracelet.. band-thing? I really don't know.
11/29/2012
MissMori MissMori
I am owned, and because of my job can't wear a collar. I can't wear any necklaces or bracelets, either, so even a "stealth" collar is out. I had been thinking of an anklet, but when the time came Sir surprised me with a very thin chainmail waist chain He'd had made for me. It never comes off, and the only time anyone sees it is when I'm in a bikini. But I can feel it, so it's a constant reminder. It makes me very happy!
11/29/2012
Vanille Vanille
Quote:
Originally posted by RemusHalifax
I have a friend who, due to past trauma, refused to wear a collar. She's been talking recently about her desire to be owned and asked me alternatives for slaves who are owned but don't wear a collar. So I'm curious about what you guys would wear.
A ring. Bracelets/Anklets move around too much and give me weird feelings.
11/29/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
My pet wears a anklet, since it's more discrete and it'd be frowned upon at her work
11/29/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
I like the idea of bracelets and anklets. There are some steel ones online that look similar to the steel collars that would be nice.
12/02/2012
So Long Ya Doofuses! So Long Ya Doofuses!
I think a necklace would be the way to go for my own preferences. Perhaps a longer one or even one that could be doubled over and worn as a bracelet.
12/02/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I'd wear whatever Master wanted me to wear, but that's just me.

That said, there's a TON of other options. An anklet, cuff, regular necklace or bracelet, ring? I think it depends on the relationship and the couple as to what will work. I don't think a collar is the be-all-end-all.
12/02/2012
IrishLassie IrishLassie
I think a necklace or bracelet is a great substitute! I myself have reservations on a collar even though my husband likes the idea of a collar more than me. Though we are doing something different. I am getting a tattoo as a way of showing ownership. I dont think a collar has to be the only option.
12/02/2012
skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Personally, I am not property so I don't enjoy being Owned, even sexually. It makes me feel degraded thinking someone "Ownes" me. But, I think an ankle chain would be the second best to a collar for slavery/ownership play since that was a form of captivity.
12/02/2012
Tristan's Everything Tristan's Everything
Quote:
Originally posted by RemusHalifax
I have a friend who, due to past trauma, refused to wear a collar. She's been talking recently about her desire to be owned and asked me alternatives for slaves who are owned but don't wear a collar. So I'm curious about what you guys would wear.
I have a ring a brac elet and a necklace i wear besides my collar
12/02/2012
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by RemusHalifax
I have a friend who, due to past trauma, refused to wear a collar. She's been talking recently about her desire to be owned and asked me alternatives for slaves who are owned but don't wear a collar. So I'm curious about what you guys would wear.
I would probably go for a steel one.
12/02/2012
hall5885 hall5885
I think I would let who owned me decide. But if I had a choice in the matter I'm not really sure cause I like all your ideas. And lucky for me at this time in my life I don't really have any restrictions as to what I can wear as for jewelry for work. I couldn't wear a collar to work but the rest I could wear.
12/03/2012
Falsepast Falsepast
I wouldn't have a problem with wearing a collar
12/04/2012
ASpiritedSlut ASpiritedSlut
Anything that is meaningful to both parties will work just fine. If my pet expressed this concern then I would work to find a suitable alternative. For a long term situation, a tattoo could even be an option.
12/04/2012
Cinnyree Cinnyree
i think a waist chain sounds great. like a makeshift harness to be worn at all times yet work and society don't have to look down their noses at you
12/04/2012
DoneWithAlltheLies DoneWithAlltheLies
I actually have a bracelet cuff that I wear for my fiance/dom instead of an engagement ring. It came from a shop that primarily sells raver gear, so it's just a piece of blue leather with a massive O-ring as the point of attachment. The best part is that he wears the other one everyday, so when he gets me alone he's able to strap the matching pair on me and tie me down.
12/04/2012
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Ehhh, I said "ring," but it really doesn't matter to me.
12/04/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
A ring, but many options available.
12/04/2012
Geography Geography
Ooh I love the idea of wearing an anklet! Or a bracelet! I don't like leaving necklaces on all the time so one of these would work best!
12/09/2012
Allstars316 Allstars316
I would wear an anklet. I have talked to my owner about it.
12/12/2012
vulvalicious vulvalicious
Any of the above, but the anklet appealed to me most.
12/12/2012
subbieforHer subbieforHer
Quote:
Originally posted by RemusHalifax
I have a friend who, due to past trauma, refused to wear a collar. She's been talking recently about her desire to be owned and asked me alternatives for slaves who are owned but don't wear a collar. So I'm curious about what you guys would wear.
While I a collared slave, I am (usually) excused from having to wear it in public and instead Mistress replaces my slave collar with a locking, yet discrete, necklace. I would imagine I'd have the same effect with an anklet, bracelet, or a ring. In fact, I have seen a special "Ring of O" (named after 'Story of O' obviously) ring for submissives to wear in public. I believe they were sold through sub-shop.com, but Autumn and Company retired last summer so anyone interested would hafta do some digging online if they're still around.

My vote was for "other" however...
Even though Mistress releases me from my slave collar in public for work, family visits, et cetera, I have to wear a butt plug harness that She keeps locked on with a medium-sized plug inserted whenever I am out of the house or otherwise away from Her supervision.
Sure, butt plugs are by no means a traditional symbol of ownership; however, I find that being plugged while amidst those in the vanilla world is quite humbling and I end up acting more submissive in general towards everyone.
Any insubordination or otherwise bad behavior becomes rather difficult when you're anally impaled. I'm discretely forced to think about my ass, and by extension, the person who put that plug inside of it. As a result, wearing my butt plug behaves like an invisible collar because it serves as a reminder that I am owned property with no rights.
12/12/2012
MissMori MissMori
Quote:
Originally posted by subbieforHer
While I a collared slave, I am (usually) excused from having to wear it in public and instead Mistress replaces my slave collar with a locking, yet discrete, necklace. I would imagine I'd have the same effect with an anklet, bracelet, or a ring. ...
I love this!

I've been sent out wearing a plug on occasion, and it certainly does act as a reminder!
12/12/2012
WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I'm fine with a collar but all of these are also fine.
12/12/2012
Raymaker Raymaker
Anklets are cute, discreet for work, and are a little more unique than just a bracelet. The rest work too.
12/13/2012
gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by RemusHalifax
I have a friend who, due to past trauma, refused to wear a collar. She's been talking recently about her desire to be owned and asked me alternatives for slaves who are owned but don't wear a collar. So I'm curious about what you guys would wear.
whatever he says
12/14/2012
Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
Quote:
Originally posted by gwenevieve
whatever he says
Anklet, necklace, or ring, but I do like collars
03/13/2013
chicmichiw chicmichiw
I love the idea of personalized jewelry.
03/13/2013
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