If you're a dominant woman in a relationship with a man, would he ever let you strap it on, for him?

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If you're a dominant woman in a relationship with a man, would he ever let you strap it on, for him?

Trashley Trashley
I've always wondered... :]
09/03/2010
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UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
I think he will. I have only cyber sex as a dom. Actually it was the boys that wanted me to dom them. Lil by lil they told me they wanted me to peg them. But in RL I have not been so sexually adventurous but the guys I talk too would love to have a girl us a strap on, on them. A few have played with toys.
09/14/2010
DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
If I am in a M/s relationship as the Miss, then my boy doesn't really have the option to decline my choice unless strapon play is a pre-discussed hard limit. I negotiate all limits before I play so that I don't have to find out whether or not my desires will be fulfilled.

If no is not an option, yes is not a choice.
09/14/2010
Kayla Kayla
Yeah, we already do.
09/14/2010
Envy Envy
I am pretty dom in the relationship (we joke and say I'm the man, he's the girl) and yes, he wants me to use a strap on on him as soon as he gets used to bigger anal toys since he's just a beginner.
09/14/2010
lilfemme23 lilfemme23
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Originally posted by Trashley
I've always wondered... :]
My boy would beg me to if he only thought I would, but I won't let him have me in any way, it would be way too nice. He is very very into anal.
09/15/2010
paralax paralax
me and my partner got together after i told her that i had dreams/fantasies about her pegging me for sometime. i had also known years before i brought it up tho.
09/19/2010
Trashley Trashley
Thanks for posting guys! I love hearing all your experiences.. it's very eye opening, in the best way :]
09/21/2010
briluminary briluminary
Already do!
08/12/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I'm a sub. But I think that even if I was a dom, my man wouldn't let me do that. And I don't think I'd be comfortable with it.
08/18/2011
Miss Naida Miss Naida
I am a sub as well and I do use one on Him because sometimes He likes it when I am in control
08/19/2011
Ativata Ativata
I've been approached several times by men wishing me to dominate them, tie them up and peg them. I'm not one to do anything half-arsed, so I've not agreed (been tempted to I'll admit). But if I find a long term partner who wishes the same, I have a few friends who plan to teach me preparation, rhythm, etc, and take me shopping for various dildos and a good harness. Who am I to deny a man a good fucking. ^_~
08/20/2011
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
We've talked about it, but we haven't done it yet.
08/20/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
Well, that depends on the man, doesn't it? I've played with male subs who adore it, and some who are sort of "eh".
08/20/2011
Kirill1171 Kirill1171
Nice)
02/11/2012
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Quote:
Originally posted by Trashley
I've always wondered... :]
He's bisexual so he actually enjoys that. ^_^
02/11/2012
Roz W Roz W
I do, and I've been approached by other guys who want me to (which...I don't really feel like doing outside of some kind of relationship).

I started because I like having a dick, but dudes have a lot more to gain re: prostate stimulation (I find receiving anal to be booooooooooring, but nobody would be surprised if I were the receiver in a hetero relationship, neh?)

@KyotoAngel: What does sexual orientation have to do with it?
02/11/2012
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Quote:
Originally posted by Roz W
I do, and I've been approached by other guys who want me to (which...I don't really feel like doing outside of some kind of relationship).

I started because I like having a dick, but dudes have a lot more to gain re: prostate ...
Nothing exactly but I think bi-men would be more likely to enjoy it.
There's plenty of straight guys that are into that, I understand, but with regard to my man I doubt he would like it at all if he wasn't bi since he's not likely to try anything new without massive amounts of coaxing (he's very shy about his sexual desires most of the time).
That said I do hope I didn't offend you. I didn't mean it in a rude way at all.
02/22/2012
calliope calliope
My husband would never be into that
02/22/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
If I am in a M/s relationship as the Miss, then my boy doesn't really have the option to decline my choice unless strapon play is a pre-discussed hard limit. I negotiate all limits before I play so that I don't have to find out whether or ...
Ditto
02/22/2012
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
My guy was the one to bring it up... I had never really thought about it before. My sub is bi, but he was into anal play before he admitted it to himself.
02/22/2012
Roz W Roz W
Quote:
Originally posted by KyotoAngel
Nothing exactly but I think bi-men would be more likely to enjoy it.
There's plenty of straight guys that are into that, I understand, but with regard to my man I doubt he would like it at all if he wasn't bi since he's not likely to ...
No offense taken! I was honestly looking for a way to expand the conversation some. Lately I'm only trying to ask questions on the internet if I'm genuinely interested in the answer.
02/24/2012
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Unique posters: 19