Is all your sex kinky?

carenautilus carenautilus
Do you always break out the flogger and ropes (or whatever accoutrement and/or mindset applicable to you) when having sex? Or is it something you just break out occasionally? Something in between?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Call me kinky! I always have sex with BDSM elements
Defiledpixxy , tA , (Re)tired Stripper , TheSinDoll , HannahPanda , Vanille , higs , Red Vinyl Kitty , kadelette
9  (4%)
Most of the time I have sex with BDSM elements
CoffeeCup , Dusk , padmeamidala , Sammi , carenautilus , JessCee , submissive.sweetheart , UnknownGirl , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , AmberM , geliebt , Kitka , FemmeFlo , zombiphile , IrishLassie , Shorty32 , LilMissSub , Wildchild , Lady Neshamah , Amber88 , bratofthekitties , LoveDove , planetrees , solita , mutewolf , JewelsAndB , Doah , Collogue , mrs poop. , idunshire , underHim , moments-in-time , elli , spineyogurt , MimiPhryxus , TofurkeyBerserky , megan1987 , solitudinarian , Phantom2291 , smlove , remember.me , johnnylove , gsfanatic , Modern^Spank^Anthem , butts , ohsnaprawr , satinlady550 , RemusHalifax , EvaChangeN , Supervixen , lovesexandmarriage , Robespierrethecat , MK434 , VeenaJae
54  (22%)
It's about fifty-fifty for me.
Princess-Kayla ♥ , Airen Wolf , slynch , aliceinthehole , SiNn , ellejay , Kkay , The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary , Sex'и'Violence , The Curious Couple , Pixel , dhig , TheHardOne , pinkcupcakes , P'Gell , Liz2 , Diabolical Kitty , Miss Morphine , jj1228 , Ninja Wolf , RosesThorns , TameTemptress , hyacinthgirl , Emma , SomeGirl , haley730 , zeb , LavenderSkies , Valentinka , miss-miss , fifi , Miss Nessa , aimtoplease , stlouisxxx , Vegan Silk , GoneBabyGone , (k)InkyIvy , Jroc , SMichelle , JGrey , C-Rae , Daemonin , Kitt Katt , SaraU29 , bunnygrl , NightKat , wizzler , Love Perpetua , Entropy , Stinkytofu10 , Kallisto , k3 , Midway through , EnterTheFist , panthers , aroarofthunder , GirlOnGirl , softcoeur , dks210 , Anjulie , Enchantedkitty , comatose-kitty , FruityCloudPuff , MrGoodTool , Marcianpro , Sex Positivity , Boyqueen , squire , volpe bianca , panthercat23 , SaiDiscordia , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , sugar&spikes , pirata , Billie Bones , hornyNkinky , TheirPet , Thumper Logic , Winifred , vulvalicious , Nurse Katie , table38792 , Genderfree , chort
84  (34%)
Most of my sex is vanilla, but I like some kink added sometimes
Ryuson , Peggi , Gunsmoke , ToyBoy , DeliciousDrip , Nora , SexyTabby , Darling Jen , Elnoa , poetprincess , Pink Jewel , Sinfully , Ciao. , TheBadHobbit , Howells , OhMy! , married with children , unfulfilled , Lady Venus , jjonk , Lummox , Missmarc , null , Jon S , giftdgecko , beachluv51800 , Acorn , ily , jedent , Zerudahime , LittleA , CAKES , rom323 , arewehavingfun? , PropertyOfPotter , darthkitt3n , LAndJ , SweetieLuv , IndridCold , Stagger13 , shcoo , Kendrir , Katelyn , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , sweetnlow4u , Sohotdinosaur , Hallmar82 , leanright69 , te , In Between Soliloquies , sumie , Graniteal , Swish , Apirka , Harpina is gone , Vaginas , pyratess , travelnurse , AliMc , wetone123 , Lildrummrgurl7 , Tianna Silver , XYCopperheadSly , Moniqua , SilverMinxxx , Eugler , Geogeo , donatello6789 , EverlastingPandora , True Pleasures , DrowsRose , ASpiritedSlut , brevado , Dear Ruby
74  (30%)
I'm entirely or almost entirely vanilla
Tart , LaLaLouise , LittleBird , Cat E.
4  (2%)
Not applicable/ I don't really think about it that way/ other (Please share!)
Ansley , toxie m , EJ , Serenesub , Mr. & Mrs. Peg , kendra30752 , AndroAngel , mistre$$ , ss143 , deveener , Willow Wand , tortilla , Zombirella , Amelia Stone , hall5885 , funluvinmama , curious kitten , Bignuf , sexfairy , *Camoprincess* , MistressDandelion , KrissyNovacaine , bog , nosrslylol , SecondStory
25  (10%)
Total votes: 250
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10/04/2011
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Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Sometimes, we break out the flogger, and handcuffs, and have crazy wild sex. But we also have the normal vanilla sex.
Even when it's vanilla sex though, it's still pretty rough. And he sometimes still chokes me during normal sex. Yum.
10/04/2011
Ansley Ansley
We're a pretty kinky couple, but not in the way of BDSM play. That's never interested either of us, but there are other things we do that would make a 'vanilla' couple blush and hide under the table.
10/04/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by carenautilus
Do you always break out the flogger and ropes (or whatever accoutrement and/or mindset applicable to you) when having sex? Or is it something you just break out occasionally? Something in between?
It realy depends on our moods...given that there are three of us the kink times tend to be rather frequent....
10/04/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by carenautilus
Do you always break out the flogger and ropes (or whatever accoutrement and/or mindset applicable to you) when having sex? Or is it something you just break out occasionally? Something in between?
the kinkier the better
10/04/2011
Dusk Dusk
We usually have kinky sex - I just need to feel dominated to be in the mood most of the time.
10/04/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by carenautilus
Do you always break out the flogger and ropes (or whatever accoutrement and/or mindset applicable to you) when having sex? Or is it something you just break out occasionally? Something in between?
Most of my sex is kinky but sometimes it's romantic and a way to connect with my Master. I love sex with him.
10/04/2011
Kkay Kkay
About half and half. Vanilla is more likely when we're both tired, kinky when we're well-rested and have a good chunk of time.
10/04/2011
Nora Nora
I don't really think of it as "vanilla", but sometimes it's just plain "stick it in and wiggle" as opposed the kind kind of sex that requires some clean up of toys and ourselves.
10/04/2011
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by carenautilus
Do you always break out the flogger and ropes (or whatever accoutrement and/or mindset applicable to you) when having sex? Or is it something you just break out occasionally? Something in between?
Horray for Kinky! 50% 50% for me.
10/04/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
about 50/50. It depends on the mood.
10/04/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
We're about 50/50.
10/04/2011
Sammi Sammi
Probably 90/10 for us.
10/04/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
I'm kinky - Hubby is vanilla - we have been exploring my kink for awhile and with most things he's ok (a couple not so much) but since my accident it's all vanilla at best. Sooner or later I hope we reach the 50/50 mark but it'll be awhile.
10/04/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
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Originally posted by SexyTabby
I'm kinky - Hubby is vanilla - we have been exploring my kink for awhile and with most things he's ok (a couple not so much) but since my accident it's all vanilla at best. Sooner or later I hope we reach the 50/50 mark but it'll be awhile.
Sorry to hear that. I hope you feel better soon!
10/04/2011
toxie m toxie m
It depends. Lately I've been feeling totally vanilla. For some reason, kinky sex has just been making my hackles go up and I get prickly and defensive instead of relaxing into submission. I'd rather just be loved all sensually and nice right now, I'm not completely sure what it's about. In the past, when I've been in the mood, I'd say it was about 50/50 for kinky/vanilla sex.
10/04/2011
poetprincess poetprincess
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Originally posted by carenautilus
Do you always break out the flogger and ropes (or whatever accoutrement and/or mindset applicable to you) when having sex? Or is it something you just break out occasionally? Something in between?
With my man I am with now it is never kinky unless I convince him otherwise, its always pretty much straight sometimes he likes to get me doggy style. Its ok I dont mind especially after nine years with my ex who would do anything but he never ever seemed to be able to make me cum at all. My man now shit he makes me come just sliding it in so ill keep his boring normal sex..
10/05/2011
Pixel Pixel
It depends on the lover. With my Owner, it's always kinky. With my boyfriend, it's about 50/50. With my girlfriend, we don't have kinky sex together.
10/05/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
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Originally posted by Pixel
It depends on the lover. With my Owner, it's always kinky. With my boyfriend, it's about 50/50. With my girlfriend, we don't have kinky sex together.
Good point! Relationship dynamics are never the same from partner to partner.
10/05/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
kinky sometimes.
10/05/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I'm not sure what you mean by "kinky." We use what some would consider Classic BDSM tactics (handcuffs, restraint, nipple clamps, leather goods etc) some of the time.

But, we have anal sex or anal play nearly every time we have sex. So, if anal play or anal sex is included in "kinky" (and I didn't consider it as such) then it's more like 95% of the time.

If you include moderate spanking or rough nipple play as "kinky" then... I guess we're closer to kink nearly all the time.
10/05/2011
Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I'm not sure what you mean by "kinky." We use what some would consider Classic BDSM tactics (handcuffs, restraint, nipple clamps, leather goods etc) some of the time.

But, we have anal sex or anal play nearly every time we have ... More
My thoughts almost exactly!!! I rarely have sex w/o a butt plug in place which I just consider normal for me.

I also know time restraints keep us from more BDSM play.
10/05/2011
Kitka Kitka
My husband and I have kinky sex most of the time. Sometimes we just have a quickie where there isn't much kink involved at all.
10/05/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I'm not sure what you mean by "kinky." We use what some would consider Classic BDSM tactics (handcuffs, restraint, nipple clamps, leather goods etc) some of the time.

But, we have anal sex or anal play nearly every time we have ... More
I wouldn't include anal sex. I think I would define it as sex with distinct power dynamics in play.
10/05/2011
married with children married with children
Its nice to throw in some kink every now and then
10/06/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
We almost never have vanilla sex.
10/06/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
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Originally posted by married with children
Its nice to throw in some kink every now and then
That's for sure!
10/06/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by carenautilus
I wouldn't include anal sex. I think I would define it as sex with distinct power dynamics in play.
I think we'll have to agree to disagree. People can play with BDSM without distinct "power dynamics" at all. As for anal sex, I think there is little more Dominant than fucking someone up the ass, and little more submissive than taking it.

Mileage and all that.
10/06/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
mostly not, but sometimes we break out handcuffs and paddle
10/06/2011
jj1228 jj1228
It's half and half. All depends really on how much time we have if its just a quicky or do we have some time to play around . But i love the kinky sex.
10/06/2011
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