Is anyone into BDSM but your partner isnt?

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Is anyone into BDSM but your partner isnt?

Moisamazing Moisamazing
Im totally into BDSM and want to explore but my partner is not into it whatsoever. anyone in the same position?
02/11/2011
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Originally posted by Moisamazing
Im totally into BDSM and want to explore but my partner is not into it whatsoever. anyone in the same position?
Nope, we have the same level.
02/11/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
Hubby and I share some of the same interests but I tend to push harder and want more then he does. He doesn't follow suit very well. After a rather bad end to a fantasy he drew his line and I respect it. Doesn't mean I won't still fantasize about more but I do tread lightly with demanding too much from him. We've been together forever so it's not any kind of deal breaker for us. Does it leave me empty - yeah a little. But there's so much more to explore and enjoy that I can let it just be a minor thing. Love's funny that way I guess.
02/11/2011
Crystalbabe Crystalbabe
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Originally posted by Moisamazing
Im totally into BDSM and want to explore but my partner is not into it whatsoever. anyone in the same position?
I so know where your coming from! My husband isnt really into but I totally am, so the best that I can say is talk to him/her about it and see where they really stand, and what there willing to do or try and go from there. There realy is so much to explore no need to get hung up on one thing or another!! Best of luck and hope all goes well!
02/12/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Same for us. My guy isn't into BDSM as an every day thing but he will slap my bum, breasts, and face from time to time. We use very light bondage rarely, bcs he prefers using his hands to restrain me, it makes him feel more controling or dominant than using actual restraints.

I wish we did more BDSM play more often, I have scenes in my head but my guy isn't really open to them. I sort of have learned to respect his tastes and be satisfied with what he feels comfrotable with but I am hoping things will change.
02/12/2011
Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
on some levels, my husband and i are about the same. however, i tend to be much more into the heavy stuff than he is. but i have a pet that i can really work over when i want to
02/12/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I'm more into it than my partner but he is usually willing to at least give something a try...and sometimes he even likes it and wants to do it again.
02/13/2011
mariedoll mariedoll
I feel like he is more into it than I am, which is exciting. It forces me to push the limits and takes me to places I've never been before.
04/26/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Moisamazing
Im totally into BDSM and want to explore but my partner is not into it whatsoever. anyone in the same position?
My husband was abused by so called BDSM people and so he doesn't want ANYTHING to do with the play. He allows Arch and I to do as we please but he isn't interested beyond a very mild form of play.
04/26/2011
RainbowOokami RainbowOokami
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Originally posted by Moisamazing
Im totally into BDSM and want to explore but my partner is not into it whatsoever. anyone in the same position?
my girl isn't really interested I don't think it kinda makes things awkward.
07/11/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
I'm much more experimental about it I think. My guy has certain kinks that he'll get into, but I feel like I have to give him a little bit of a push to look into or pursue most ideas. I think it'll be easier when we can live together, though... Being skin on skin might make him a little more into other ideas.
07/11/2011
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Unique posters: 11