My interests are getting progressively more extreme, but never dangerous so I don't worry about it. I feel confident putting all my trust in my husband and have found that the only problem is he's not as rough as I want him to be, but we're still pretty new to BDSM.
Are you into the same things you were when you first got into kinky activities? Have you found that you've started to require more and more extreme or taboo activities to "get off"?
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mine have stayed the same but i find im more open about them now
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Domineight
Many people I know are now into things sexually they would have ones turned their nose up at. I have found myself requiring heavier activity to get that same rush. I personally have crossed something I would have considered a "hard limit" but nothing
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Many people I know are now into things sexually they would have ones turned their nose up at. I have found myself requiring heavier activity to get that same rush. I personally have crossed something I would have considered a "hard limit" but nothing that would be harmful, so I don't really find it problematic. I have had friends, however, whose interests have progressed to a point I worry they could put themselves in real danger and I wonder what everyone else's experience have been. I made posting anonymous.
07/11/2011
I had a lot of hard limits and judgments about things when I first entered the scene that I have a different perspective on now. There is a difference between imagining something and saying "I would never do THAT" and seeing it in practice... and done well and safely... and saying sure, sounds like fun.
I do some edgy play but I don't need hardcore to get off. It's not fear or being on the edge that appeals to me. Whatever I'm doing I'm enjoying.
I do some edgy play but I don't need hardcore to get off. It's not fear or being on the edge that appeals to me. Whatever I'm doing I'm enjoying.
07/11/2011
What attracted me to BDSM was corporal punishment, and to this day that is still my central interest. As I've been exposed to new things I've developed other interests of course, but my interest isn't based on following whatever is new or taboo at the time. I either like it or I don't. Any given activity's position on the scale of mundane to edgy doesn't factor into my personal level of interest. Corporal punishment has gotten about as mundane as it can be in BDSM culture at large, and it's still my fave through and through.
11/25/2011
I voted on the second option. I don't find that I have to have more extreme things to get off. I do, however, find that I am more open minded to the extreme and willing to try practically everything, except perhaps poop.
I can deal with Golden showers giving or receiving if my partner was interested, but the poop things is just too much for me.
I'd love blood play, piercing, knives, needles, electro-stimulation, I might even try enema's at some point. I don't have to have them, I am just as happy with whips and floggers or paddles and canes.
I can deal with Golden showers giving or receiving if my partner was interested, but the poop things is just too much for me.
I'd love blood play, piercing, knives, needles, electro-stimulation, I might even try enema's at some point. I don't have to have them, I am just as happy with whips and floggers or paddles and canes.
12/05/2011
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