Kinky play, what do you think is too far

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Kinky play, what do you think is too far

Princess Zelda Princess Zelda
I love all sorts of Dom/sub, rollplay and may more but I'm not sure what is going too far. I have made a few subs bleed (and I dont mean just a drop or two) but they really enjoyed it but I cant help but wonder where people normally stand (if normal can be placed here LOL) on what is going too far.
07/13/2012
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Zandrock Zandrock
Too far is where you set it.

I think anything that permanently harms a person borders on too far. But that being said its your body and if you want to damage it or scar it then so be it.

I think communication and consent are important. If the sub doesnt enjoy it then you have reached a point of too far.

Anything also that puts a person at a high risk is also too far. So if they bleed to the point of going in to shock that is too far. If you play with high electricity levels that could stop your heart that is too far.

Short of causing potential for death I dont think is a too far really.
07/14/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Too far is where you set it.

I think anything that permanently harms a person borders on too far. But that being said its your body and if you want to damage it or scar it then so be it.

I think communication and consent are important. ...
I pretty much agree with this. Too far is if there isn't consent or if someone's life is on the line. Also if you're putting someone in a super dangerous situation like tying someone up and leaving them there with no way to get out in an emergency or something of that nature. So basically, yeah, potential for death is a hard line.
07/14/2012
Roz W Roz W
I think it's already been said, but the only set lines are pretty clear:
- anything somebody didn't consent to
- risk of permanent damage*

*if this is discussed beforehand, there are exceptions. Some people are into permanent marks. But wow that ought to be a decision made ahead of time.
07/14/2012
Princess Zelda Princess Zelda
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Too far is where you set it.

I think anything that permanently harms a person borders on too far. But that being said its your body and if you want to damage it or scar it then so be it.

I think communication and consent are important. ...
Yes I agree there and I have never made any one loose more than like 3oz of blood. I try not to make people bleed but if I'm drunk before I start I just go with what they like (and He had LOVED bleeding but normally I dont like to make people bleed since it makes me feel uncomfortable) But even drunk I try not to let things go over board.
07/15/2012
Bex1331 Bex1331
"too far" is anything that goes beyond what the submissive has consented to, this is why safe words are important
07/15/2012
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
To far is beyond their hard limit or safe word. But if they are bleeding it should be mentioned to them as they may not notice.
07/15/2012
cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
It's pretty much already been said, but "too far" is anything that goes beyond what both partners are comfortable with. If someone says that it needs to stop and it keeps going, that's too far. If something happens that was mentioned in a conversation as something not desired, that's too far.
07/15/2012
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