Knife Play, yes or no?

Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Love Bites
Do you like cutting, or being cut? How does it feel when you do it, emotionally?
Cutting, hence why I said "into cutting."

It feels exciting, powerful. The feeling of instilling fear into another human being is a huge turn-on, it drives me wild. It ties into how I love force and aggression. It just feels like all of my energy put into the tip of the blade.

Knife play does not need to mean cutting, per se, just so that you know. Sometimes, the person does not even break skin. The fact of having a knife against a person's skin is enough to give the feeling of terror. I am into both knife play and cutting during knife play. I love the taste and feel of blood. I could not tell you why I like it, but I do. It's very good.
10/01/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I love knife play as both a top and bottom. I tend to prefer actual bleeding when I'm bottoming for it, but lean towards more sensual play as a top.
10/01/2011
Contributor: SomeGirl SomeGirl
I'm all about the psychological rather than the physical. When it comes to knife play, for me, it's about the sensation, the thought that a sharp, dangerous, potentially life threatening object is being used on me. I really get off on the terror. I do not like cutting, being cut, or bleeding.
10/01/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
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Originally posted by Sir
Cutting, hence why I said "into cutting."

It feels exciting, powerful. The feeling of instilling fear into another human being is a huge turn-on, it drives me wild. It ties into how I love force and aggression. It just feels like all ... more
Right, I just wanted to make sure.

I don't know if I could cut someone, even if they asked. I feel bad about making people bleed, and I usually cry from the guilt of it. I like aggression, and some force, but not violent.

I know knife play doesn't mean cutting, but when I did research on it, it linked them together. I found a nice website that gives good instruction to beginners for knife play. The idea of something sharp sweeping over my skin in an interesting idea, but only with someone I trust a lot.
10/01/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
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Originally posted by Pixel
I love knife play as both a top and bottom. I tend to prefer actual bleeding when I'm bottoming for it, but lean towards more sensual play as a top.
Oh, I love your post. I like hearing about the different desires, from different perspectives. Are you against cutting your bottom, or do you just get more pleasure from the sensual play as a top?
10/01/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
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Originally posted by SomeGirl
I'm all about the psychological rather than the physical. When it comes to knife play, for me, it's about the sensation, the thought that a sharp, dangerous, potentially life threatening object is being used on me. I really get off on the ... more
That seems about what I hear, yeah. Do you do a lot of things that cause you terror?
10/01/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
scares me rather than turns me on
10/03/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by Love Bites
Oh, I love your post. I like hearing about the different desires, from different perspectives. Are you against cutting your bottom, or do you just get more pleasure from the sensual play as a top?
Oh gods. Prepare for rambling.

When I top, I love the sensual knife play because it has a better flow to it. I'll put on music (Oriental Uno and Mission by Beats Antique are on my knifeplay playlist, as well as Sandstorm by Darude and Just Like you Imagined by NIN if you want a feel for the style I enjoy playing to), run the knives over their body in time to the music. I've been told that the way my body shifts and moves looks like dancing as I use my knives. I am not against cutting my bottom, but I'm a sanguinarian, so blood is kinda a big deal with me. I don't make people bleed casually. The only person I have that kind of bond with right now is one of my lovers, and we play hard. His back, post cutting (no clicking unless you can handle blood, please, people).

I'm owned, so there are very specific rules for me as to when I am allowed to be cut. Right now, only my Owner and one other have that privilege. I love the ache of a knife blade, and the feel of my blood on my skin. Oddly enough, it's relaxing to me.
10/04/2011
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
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Originally posted by Kkay
Knife-play is so high up on my kink list that it's underlined three times and has stars next to it.

Unfortunately, my partner isn't into it.

We've kind of settled on a work-around with the Wartenberg wheel. It's not the ... more
don't forget the circles around the whole lot of lines and stars
10/05/2011
Contributor: Emma Emma
That is dangerous never really heard of it, but thats emo kind of stuff
10/07/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
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Originally posted by Emma
That is dangerous never really heard of it, but thats emo kind of stuff
It can be dangerous if the person is inexperienced. But please, don't sit there and say it is "emo" stuff, because if you are using it in the sense of people being "emo" and cutting their wrists, this is completely different. Not only that, but yes, it is emotional, as so many things are in life. I mean, you shouldn't cast stones when you have just admitted you have never really heard of it.
10/07/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I wouldn't like it at all.
I don't like blood.
10/17/2011
Contributor: Emma Emma
Not really sure much about it but alll i know that anything that is that sharp is a bad idea... =] metaphorically speaking of course
10/17/2011
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
It takes a hell of a lot of trust, but I'll let people do it. Shallow cuts are more my style.
07/10/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
It is not for me.

But in order to do it safely I would practice cuts on like a piece of meat first. I would also learn about sterilization of tools (so the knife in this instance) and how to care for wounds to prevent infection. You would not want a staph infection. Especially the kind that is resistant to antibiotics. Those can get nasty fast
07/10/2012
Contributor: jjdd jjdd
I am really freaked out by knives and cuts so I think I would have a complete panic attack if I attempted anything like this. Not my style!
07/10/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
Not my thing. I like piercing though?
07/10/2012
Contributor: Strider Strider
Nope. Not for me.
01/08/2013
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
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Originally posted by Ghost
I only use medical-grade disposable scalpels. I also sterilize the area first and wear nitrile gloves (black, of course). I am never the one being cut, but I will cut other people. I am the scientist, after all. ;3
This reminds me of Stein from Soul Eater haha

*several years after the fact*
04/19/2013
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
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Originally posted by Roz W
Not my thing. I like piercing though?
I'm looking into piercing but that freaks me out more than anything else I think.
04/19/2013
Contributor: marmouse marmouse
Definitely yes. With sharp knives and blood. I have some lovely scars. =)
04/19/2013
Contributor: sunflower sunflower
I think it's pretty neat that you and your mom have the kind of relationship where you can discuss stuff like that. I could never do that with my mom. I like the idea of knives in the bedroom but I'd want to make sure it was safe and sterile first... Don't want to slice an artery or anything lol
04/21/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
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Originally posted by Love Bites
I haven't tried it with any of my partners, but my mom, who is in the lifestyle, taught me about it. I don't know how to ask to bring it into our bedroom scene though. So, I was wondering, what do people think about knife play, and cutting ... more
Sorry I am no help...Not our thing.
04/21/2013
Contributor: pokefan15 pokefan15
thats not something I want to try
04/21/2013
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
I have not heard of this before, but it sounds really interesting to me
04/22/2013
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I don't like the idea using a knife to break the skin. But I think a knife gently trailing along my skin while I'm bound could be really exciting. Or cutting off clothing. Or using it as a prop in some sort of "forced" scenario. Using it as a threat and means of control. But no blood.
05/01/2013