BDSM : Lifestyle or play?

charletnarouh charletnarouh
What role does BDSM play in your life? Is it part of your play or part of your life or is it your life. Do you have a D/s or M/s relationship? If so, is it parttime or fulltime? Does your submission or domination extend beyond the bedroom or dungeon into your every day life?
05/07/2012
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Vanille Vanille
It is a part of my life. It is a full-time D/s & petplay relationship. It does indeed come outside the bedroom and has no 'off' switch unless life events warrant it to be such.
05/07/2012
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
It's mostly in the bedroom, though I'm a naturally submissive person.
05/07/2012
hall5885 hall5885
Just part of play
05/07/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Mostly lifestyle, though I'm definitely the dominant one in the relationship.
05/08/2012
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
play time.
05/08/2012
M.O.'s Girl M.O.'s Girl
I am in a full-time M/s relationship, and my submission extends beyond the bedroom. Our relationship is structured so that He is in charge and I serve Him in all areas, from getting His morning coffee to giving Him a blowjob. A full-service slave with a smile, that's me.
05/08/2012
VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
I'm naturally submissive, so it spills into our everyday life, though we have no "official" structure outside of the bedroom.
05/08/2012
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Just play.
05/08/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
play for us.
05/08/2012
SMichelle SMichelle
I'm in a D/s relationship, but he is very far away so it's difficult for it to be our "lifestyle". That being said, it's mostly just play for us, but it does occasionally spill out.
05/08/2012
xilliannax xilliannax
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Originally posted by charletnarouh
What role does BDSM play in your life? Is it part of your play or part of your life or is it your life. Do you have a D/s or M/s relationship? If so, is it parttime or fulltime? Does your submission or domination extend beyond the bedroom or dungeon ... More
Play and business ^_~
05/09/2012
Faeya Faeya
Right now it's mostly play, in the bedroom...it spills outside as well to a degree. However, i would like it to spill outside more often, whereas He's not entirely sure what to do with a full-time subbie
05/11/2012
cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
It's all just play.
06/30/2012
Roz W Roz W
I see it as a sexy thing, and not all of life is a sexy thing.

I don't think I could keep up a structured relationship. I respect people who do, it's a kind of work I don't think I'm cut out for.
06/30/2012
quantumspork quantumspork
I prefer to keep it in the bedroom—I don't think I could handle a 24/7 deal or anything like that. Lots of respect for people who can, though.
07/01/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Play, not sure I could keep it up as a lifestyle
07/01/2012
Mitzuki Mitzuki
For me it's kind of half and half, if that makes sense.
07/01/2012
Scarlette Starr Scarlette Starr
Bedroom for now
07/02/2012
sumie sumie
Bedroom only for us.
07/02/2012
BlackRose91 BlackRose91
It's definitely a lifestyle for us. We are extremely active in our local kink community.
07/06/2012
Boyqueen Boyqueen
Lifestyle and play, if that makes sense.
07/06/2012
PeachCandy PeachCandy
Just play
07/06/2012
k3 k3
Definitely a part of my lifestyle. In many ways.
08/19/2012
BloodHound BloodHound
So much a part of my life.
08/27/2012
The Kitty The Kitty
Quote:
Originally posted by charletnarouh
What role does BDSM play in your life? Is it part of your play or part of your life or is it your life. Do you have a D/s or M/s relationship? If so, is it parttime or fulltime? Does your submission or domination extend beyond the bedroom or dungeon ... More
I hate to say it is a lifestyle, as I dont have any 24/7 relatioships, but it does change things beyond the bedroom and I can't say its truely just to spice things up kinda play anymore, so somewhere in between?
08/27/2012
blackbunny blackbunny
Just play, but I am interested in making it part of life.
08/28/2012
inkky inkky
Quote:
Originally posted by charletnarouh
What role does BDSM play in your life? Is it part of your play or part of your life or is it your life. Do you have a D/s or M/s relationship? If so, is it parttime or fulltime? Does your submission or domination extend beyond the bedroom or dungeon ... More
Me And My Dom Are 24/7, It's Long Distance, Since He Is A Marine, But I Have Rules And Daily Tasks That Are A Very Big Part Of My Life.
08/30/2012
Billie Bones Billie Bones
I limit my BDSM play to the bedroom. Lifestyle kind of stuff isn't for me at all.
08/31/2012
SavingMyself SavingMyself
It is part of my life.
09/03/2012
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