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Local BDSM Dungeons

Dusk Dusk
I'm really curious to find out from those on EF who are BDSM fetishists, do you have a local dungeon where you live? I realize how lucky I am to be so close to San Francisco and be able to visit the Citadel, and I'm really going to miss it when I move to the east coast/midwest for grad school. Do you all have spaces where you can play, or is it mostly at home?
12/17/2010
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Madeira Madeira
Quote:
Originally posted by Dusk
I'm really curious to find out from those on EF who are BDSM fetishists, do you have a local dungeon where you live? I realize how lucky I am to be so close to San Francisco and be able to visit the Citadel, and I'm really going to miss it ...
There are spaces I can play in, but I prefer to play at home.
12/17/2010
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
There are three large dungeons by me (Chicago) and half a dozen (that I know of, there may be more) smaller dungeons. Pretty schweet. :p
12/17/2010
Kayla Kayla
One *just* opened up here in Iowa. It's the only one I know about for all of Iowa. It's just a dungeon out of a guy's house too, so it's not official or anything. Most people go over to Sinsations in Chicago (a four hour drive) if they want to go to a real dungeon. It's so sad.
12/17/2010
Sir Sir
We have one called The Woodshed. I've never been there, though. I plan to go someday. It just worries me.
12/17/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Id really like to go to one I don't know of any in my area
12/18/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I am not.
12/18/2010
the bedroom blogger the bedroom blogger
There are no dungeons near me that I know of.

Also, slightly off topic, but anyone who frequents such places...what are your/their feelings on 'tourists', so to speak. I am interested in BDSM, and the boyfriend and I are slowly getting into it a little more, but I have always been intrigued by the dungeon concept...and always wanted to go check one out...but I have always been a bit freaked out because I am definitely not a 'lifestyle' person.
12/18/2010
Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by the bedroom blogger
There are no dungeons near me that I know of.

Also, slightly off topic, but anyone who frequents such places...what are your/their feelings on 'tourists', so to speak. I am interested in BDSM, and the boyfriend and I are slowly ...
As long as you walk the walk, nobody will care. As in, don't show up in bright white clothing brandishing a camera. Show up in proper fetish attire or just dark/black clothing. You don't want to bother the "fantasy" that everyone is in.

Don't bother anyone while they're sceneing, and don't talk near another person's scene. Almost all dungeons have social areas. Most people are really friendly to newbies and don't mind you coming at all. Be prepared for naked, or semi-naked, bodies all over and lots of kinky things. Also be prepared to be open minded; somthing you may see may seem too extreme for you, but others may love it. Also, check into your local group and see what their dungeon rules are. Some will require you to have attended a non-sexual meeting first like a little discussion group just to make sure you aren't an axe murderer.

If you message me with your state, I can give you a list of your local dungeons/kink groups, and they can get you hooked up with the dungeons. Most aren't publicized to avoid getting raided/shut down/unwanted guests.

As for minding newbies being there, nah. I don't care. I might make a remark of "I have no idea who that is", but it's normally for new people to be there. No one expects you to participate, and half of the "excitement" of a dungeon is knowing that someone else is watching, so nobody will probably mind you.
12/18/2010
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
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Originally posted by Kayla
One *just* opened up here in Iowa. It's the only one I know about for all of Iowa. It's just a dungeon out of a guy's house too, so it's not official or anything. Most people go over to Sinsations in Chicago (a four hour drive) if ...
What is sad is that they go to sins when there are sooooooooooo much better places.......
12/18/2010
Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by TitsMcScandal
What is sad is that they go to sins when there are sooooooooooo much better places.......
It's the only one I know of in Chicago. I think the boyfriend and I will be attending Sinsations in Spring.
12/18/2010
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
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Originally posted by Kayla
It's the only one I know of in Chicago. I think the boyfriend and I will be attending Sinsations in Spring.
There is GD, lra, the studio, among many others.
12/18/2010
KnK KnK
Quote:
Originally posted by Dusk
I'm really curious to find out from those on EF who are BDSM fetishists, do you have a local dungeon where you live? I realize how lucky I am to be so close to San Francisco and be able to visit the Citadel, and I'm really going to miss it ...
NO, I live in the middle of nowhere...the town where I'm going to school has nothing of that sort. I pretty much live here though. I know there's gotta be some back at my other home
12/18/2010
the bedroom blogger the bedroom blogger
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
As long as you walk the walk, nobody will care. As in, don't show up in bright white clothing brandishing a camera. Show up in proper fetish attire or just dark/black clothing. You don't want to bother the "fantasy" that everyone is ...
Thanks so much for all the info...I'll be messaging you.
12/19/2010
Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
Here, we have The Mark and in a nearby city there's a new space called The Lore. I also often travel to visit 1763 in Atlanta.
12/19/2010
Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
i make it to the citadel from time to time. but edges was so close to me before it closed down.

but there are a few invite only dungeons that i will go to from time to time.
12/21/2010
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
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Originally posted by Miss Morphine
Here, we have The Mark and in a nearby city there's a new space called The Lore. I also often travel to visit 1763 in Atlanta.
When I was living down in GA I was planning a trip to 1763. They were really accommodating and nice. Didn't end up working out with the time schedule for my move, but I would go there in a heartbeat thanks to the people running it if I was down that way again.
12/21/2010
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