Name calling...

Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Dirty talk is fun, as long as it's not degrading.
11/25/2011
Contributor: LilShae LilShae
with us it depends on the mood we are in. He loves to call me his naughty little slut and when i'm in charge he's my bitch. It makes things more interesting
11/26/2011
Contributor: GoneBabyGone GoneBabyGone
I don't mind the name calling. I like when he talks to me but I'm not much of a talker because it sounds awkward to my own ears.

He usually prefaces it with "My" which always makes me hot, "My dirty slut" "My little whore", things of that nature.

I find it both sexy and endearing at the same time.
12/05/2011
Contributor: neon neon
Love it!
12/08/2011
Contributor: biancajames biancajames
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
During sex do you like to have your partner call your names? Like a dirty little slut? Or other names in that general area?
Depends. I love being called a slut, but stupid, fat etc. are hard limits.
12/10/2011
Contributor: her angelness her angelness
no. too weird.
12/10/2011
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
I like when he orders me to call him papi chulo lol
12/10/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
we do, and i don't mind it at all. it doesn't happen all the time, but when it does, it's intense and amazing
12/17/2011
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
Very rarely. It usually only turns me on if we're roleplaying something.
12/17/2011
Contributor: Siekarr Siekarr
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
During sex do you like to have your partner call your names? Like a dirty little slut? Or other names in that general area?
No, I'm a Dom and slaves don't speak unless I tell her to. I do call her names though and she seems to get off on it.
12/21/2011
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
My boyfriend dirty-talks to me (usually when I ask or coax him but he's been getting better at doing it all my himself). I don't really get to because he's the dominant one.
12/21/2011
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
Absolutely not. I think this falls under my hard limits. If I'm in sub space, I think this would really hurt psychologically. It's also why I personally don't like collars that say slut or impressions paddles that say slut (for myself). I'm perfectly fine with others using the word "slut" for themselves, but I don't like to use it for myself
12/22/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
Quote:
Originally posted by Siekarr
No, I'm a Dom and slaves don't speak unless I tell her to. I do call her names though and she seems to get off on it.
Oh I totally do! Thank you!
12/22/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I'm not a big fan of any name calling that implies infidelity (for example, slut), but other than that...
12/23/2011
Contributor: k3 k3
There's a couple.....obviously the Master, Sir, pet....but also Kitten and occasionally He calls me His little fuck doll. ^^ But nothing else. Slut and other derogatory ones are out of the question for us both.
12/31/2011
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
I think derogatory names are hot, as long as they're in the context of a loving relationship. And it needs to be clear that even if I'm being objectified, I'm still valued for it. Whore, slut, bitch... all those are fine, but if you put 'worthless' in front of it, then the scene is over, because my arousal levels will go to the basement.
01/01/2012
Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
Only sometimes. I'd much rather hear him moaning out my name
01/01/2012
Contributor: ScarletFox ScarletFox
Sometimes its nice, I have to say in the right context when things are going that direction there is nothing that makes my head spin like being called a dirty little slut.
01/02/2012
Contributor: 131231e43 131231e43
I love to say it. Love it. He's not as into it though.
01/11/2012
Contributor: jedent jedent
never anything negative or bad
01/11/2012
Contributor: Doah Doah
eh, it's an everyonce and a while type of thing. I like it, and it's okay but she doesn't always because i might get carried away. >_<
01/12/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
During sex do you like to have your partner call your names? Like a dirty little slut? Or other names in that general area?
No, I just think it would be weird, we just aren't like that. I don't mind if he says dirty things but I don't think I would like being called any of those 'type' of names.....
01/12/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Looooooooove it. Being objectified and called all kinds of nasty names and such during sex is a massive turn-on for me. I don't know yet if my current partner is so up for it, but we'll see...
01/12/2012
Contributor: LoveDove LoveDove
I like it when it's in bed/fitting the situation. But I have to be in the mood to be called certain things.
01/22/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
Yes, but I don't let him call me "bitch." I hate that word.
01/23/2012
Contributor: Kalis Kalis
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
During sex do you like to have your partner call your names? Like a dirty little slut? Or other names in that general area?
I think at times name calling can add a little heat to the bedroom but sometimes it's best just for domination.
01/24/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
I know a loooooot of people are into namecalling/"verbal humiliation." I'm just not.
02/11/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
All depends on my mood.
02/11/2012
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
He can call me everything but the kitchen sink, but I'm calling him Daddy.
02/13/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
I really enjoy it
02/13/2012